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Topic: What do you think of this synastry???
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SagSun unregistered
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posted October 12, 2006 02:43 PM
I was hoping that maybe anyone could help me with this synastry. What do you think of it?Here's the chart (I hope it works ) Are there any indicators of a strong attraction (either emotional or physical) between those two? Is the attraction mutual? If not, who would be likely to feel more - the man or the woman? Would this relationship stand a chance of becoming a long-term one? I know it's impossible to predict the outcome of such things, but is the attraction likely to last? Any insights would be great!!! Thanks. Edit: I forgot to mention - in the chart the woman is on the inner circle, the man is on the outside. IP: Logged |
BlueEyes24 unregistered
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posted October 12, 2006 03:21 PM
It would be easier if you post the birthdates, times, and location of the two. I'd be happy to look at the synastry for you, but I have a hard time looking at charts only.. it's easier if I have the birth info.IP: Logged |
SagSun unregistered
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posted October 12, 2006 05:24 PM
Ok, here are the birth dates:Woman: 25/11/1983 Bratislava (Slovakia) 1:28 pm Man: 25/12/1979 Kavalla (Greece) 5:46 pm Thanks a lot. IP: Logged |
BlueEyes24 unregistered
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posted October 13, 2006 09:48 AM
Hey SagSun-The first thing I noticed in the synastry was the man's moon conjunct the woman's ascendant in Pisces. This is a very good aspect to have in synastry. The man probably feels like he can share all his feelings openly with the woman, and vice versa. They would probably connect at a deep emotional level. Also, the aspect is at a very tight orb, making it more significant. I've experienced this aspect personally, and it's wonderful. Their mercuries are conjunct each other, which is good for communication. Their ascendants are in harmony with each other, his in Cancer and hers in Pisces, which is also good for compatibility. There's also many aspects that point towards attraction- his venus sextile her sun, his venus trine her mars, and her venus conjunct his pluto AND his venus square her pluto, which shows passion, although power plays might be involved. The only really negative aspect that I can see is his sun square her mars. They can easily become annoyed with each other over small things, resulting in arguing, and it's easy for defensiveness to develop between the two, even though this aspect can show sexual attraction as well. All in all, there's some pretty good synastry between the two- I hope I helped you a little, I'm still a novice at this stuff. IP: Logged |
SagSun unregistered
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posted October 13, 2006 11:35 AM
Thanks a lot for your insight!!! IP: Logged |
william unregistered
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posted October 13, 2006 03:17 PM
hey sag, i ran up a composite which is the chart of the relationship formed by the two of you,rather than how you affect each other as individuals. sun/mercury conjunction in sag shows good communication,very open and able to tell in inner most thoughts.venus/neptune midpoint conjunct the sun/mer can show a very idealised love,on the negative it can mean been attracted to qualities in the other that aren't real.can also show a strong party vib with med/alochol.the moon[you] is in gemini opposed to uranus,indicatinh yuo are a very energetic person,but the strong uranus shows is not good for long term relationshops,very intense but impossible to hold.saturn[him] is in libra,showing also laid back accepting guy,but the saturn/chiron midpoint is square pluto and jupiter.these aspect show a very introspective an aloof aspect in the relationship.this can show at it worst,a very possesive and possibly violent side to the realtionship.mars is square neptune which can increase the party vib but can also mean that there are hidden motibes and actions in the relationship. williamIP: Logged |
astro junkie unregistered
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posted October 21, 2006 07:26 PM
SagSun -Taking a quick glance, I feel there is a lot of room for friendship, cooperation, and/or any romantic possibilities. I would just say, be sure to be there for each other during times of need, just in case anyone starts to push the other away as if to say they can handle it alone. Make a lot of room for the friendship part to flourish. ------------------ ... it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness IP: Logged |
SagSun unregistered
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posted October 22, 2006 06:20 PM
Thanks a lot to all of you for your help! Right now we are neither friends nor lovers ... we are something in between ... or maybe we are both ... I really don't know. All I do know for sure is that I care a great deal about him and feel very attracted to him, but I'm not at all sure if the feelings are mutual. I mean, I think that he has feelings for me too, but that he is too scared of being honest to himself and admiting that he really does have feelings for me too. He's the kind of person to take one step forward and two steps back as far as feelings are concerned. It's difficult to be there for him when he is in need of someone as well. On the one hand he's pouring his heart out to me, telling me all about his worries and problems. But then he always continues saying something like "I don't want to bother you with my problems" and doesn't accept my help. He really is a very complex person and I've just begun trying to figure him out. IP: Logged |
astro junkie unregistered
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posted October 24, 2006 10:26 PM
quote: It's difficult to be there for him when he is in need of someone as well. On the one hand he's pouring his heart out to me, telling me all about his worries and problems. But then he always continues saying something like "I don't want to bother you with my problems" and doesn't accept my help
Yeah, that's what I meant, that's what I was saying. That there may be a prominent dynamic between you which has to do with getting closer, then pulling away for not wanting to seem "needy". One or both of you really wants to reach out to the other, so you both need to be aware of very subtle cues, and most of all, ACT and take action consistently. Like watering a plant every day.
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