posted October 12, 2006 05:17 PM            

mine: 23rd March 1985 - 16:15 - Macau (China)

his: 14th November 1983 - 13:00 - Lisboa (Portugal)

His Moon falls in my 7th house, while my Ascendant and Pars Fortunae falls in his 7th house (does these two count anything??).. Also, my Moon, Sun, Mercury and Venus falls in his 2nd house (does that mean that he might see me as someone that might influence his beliefs and values??)

I really want to know how much he influences me, and more importantly, how much do I influence him?? What might he think of me??

posted October 12, 2006 07:28 PM              

On a lighter note, both your mercury and mars are trine each other's...

I'm not a professional when it comes to synastry, this brief evaluation is just based on my knowledge of signs and how they relate. If you'd like to learn more the below website has good links on reltionships and astrology:
www.cafeastrology.com

posted October 12, 2006 08:06 PM              

YOU:
1-1 Aries/Aries
The combination of your Sun sign and your Moon sign produces in you a truly explosive personality; dynamic, hard hitting, powerful, and magnetic. Every idea put forth in the reading of your Sun sign is intensified by the Aries Moon. Independence and self-confidence may be so intensified that they become a stumbling block in personal relationships, if they are not somewhat tamed. You are an individualist first, last, and always. You are extremely impatient with people, sometimes to the extent of being intolerant. People may view you as hardboiled because of a tendency for you to be too matter-of-fact. You do express yourself readily and forcefully, with considerable dramatic effect. It's painfully difficult for you to listen to and understand the woes of others. Yet you can be demanding of the attention of those around you on those rare occasions when you disclose your personal problems. You are not an intellectual person, and you may not have even taken the time to get a good education. In fact, well-educated and intellectually pretentious folks are among those you find the most boring and uninteresting. You are not impressed with abstract thoughts and ideas, only actions and accomplishments. This is not to say you don't use your mind. Your mind is always active: reading, talking, discussing. When it comes to getting things done and done rapidly, your talents can fill the bill. This position provides exceptional leadership traits, but a need to develop qualities of tact and consideration for the feeling of others can impede progress.

HIM:
8-12 Scorpio/Pisces
The combination of your Sun sign and your Moon sign produces a person with terrific intuition and sense that ordinary people simply don't have. You are overly dramatic and frequently exaggerate problems. You are, likewise, able to capture the drama of your surroundings as well as the imagination of the public. Yours is an emotional profundity that lends a great deal of inspiration to your personality. You attack any problem with unswerving enthusiasm and devotion, always giving more that just a part of yourself to your causes or ideals. Here there is a blend of the emotional force, determination and will power of Scorpio with the sensitivity, impressionability and intuitive insight of Pisces. This produces a strongly emotional and somewhat psychic or receptive and impressionable nature. A studious and intellectual bend permits you to succeed, especially in literary or artistic endeavors. You are very creative, but your success may be more from a willingness to apply yourself than from pure talent. On the down side, you are anxious and worry too much. Positive thinking is essential for you to attain personal balance and peace of mind. There are unexpected depths in your nature and you succeed by concentrating your energies on definite objectives, avoiding the tendency to dispense emotional energies and intellectual power in overemphasis on romance, daydreaming or negative apprehensions or worries

posted October 13, 2006 08:01 AM            

Camino_Real, I guess that it's somehow right, when I get too Aries, sometimes I tend to be somewhat impulsive and even a bit insensitive and selfish (so self-focused!), so I might have hurt him sometimes.. >.< And sometimes I guess it's hard for him to keep up when I'm too "on Aries fire" lol.. And even if I appear to be more emotional and insecure, I guess that deep inside he might be more, and yet all I need it's just to talk out my problems then I'm fine, but even if I hurt him he might endure it for our sake.. T_T

william, thanks for the interpretation! ^_^ it's kinda true about that, and sometimes I tend to be a bit confusing for him, as sometimes I don't say what's going on inside of me (as sometimes I find it hard).. I'm a bit hesitant and insecure sometimes, so maybe it also causes him to e a bit.. >.<;

posted October 13, 2006 03:52 PM            

You have Mars square Jupiter with 3'31 orb which indicates that your actions,activity,passion and your expansion,optimism are in friction and conflict with each other. His Saturn opposes your Mars with 3'04 orb and squares your Jupiter with 28 minutes of arc. That's a t-square which indicates great stress and conflict in the relationship So his seriousness,restrictions,and limitations could aggravate the issues of your mars square jupiter. There is a possiblity that he could possibly restrict,limit your freedom to move. With his Saturn in your 3rd opposing your Mars in 9th and square your Jupiter in 6th, there is possibility of serious communication issues that involve disagreements about beliefs,views,including religion. Your Mars is in his 3rd oppose his Saturn in 9th and your Jupiter square his Saturn also indicates the possibility of serious communication issues that involve disagreements about beliefs,views,including religion. This is a very challenging t-square...especially because it involves Mars oppose Saturn which can indicate possible frustration,antagonism,anger,and strong dislike. Mars and Saturn are the traditional malefics in Astrology. Therefore,hard aspects between Mars and Saturn were viewed unfavorably. The good thing is that there can be ambition and structured activity.

I often find that a couple should have at least 2 of the big 3(Sun,Moon,Ascendant) to be basically compatible. I do not see it in this synastry.

His Sun in Scorpio is not compatible with your Sun in Aries. They are in quincunx signs and they don't share element,mode,nor quality in common
His Moon in Pisces is not compatible with your Moon in Aries. They are in quincunx signs and they don't share element,mode,nor polarity.
His Aquarius Ascendant is not compatible with your Virgo Ascendant. They are in semisextile signs and they don't share element,mode,nor polarity in common.

I couldn't help noticing that he has Mars square Neptune with only 4 minutes of arc. That could indicate the possibility of confusion,illusion,deception in regards to actions,what he wants. Neptune disposits his Moon in Pisces too. This aspect is important in regards to experiences with women. Moon in a chart is how we relate to women. His Moon in Pisces can also indicate possible confusion,illusion,deception in regards to his relationships women as well as inspiration,compassion with women. Basic characteristics are sensitivity,imagination,idealism in relationships with women.

You have Sun square Neptune with 55 minutes of arc,and Neptune is stationary too..so the aspect is stronger. This indicates that there is possibility of confusion,illusion,deception in regards to expression,ego,as well as relationships with men. Sun in a chart has to do with how we relate to men. Your Sun square Neptune has affinity with your bf's Moon in Pisces,and so this helps with compatibility.

However, his Venus opposes your Sun with 2'42 orb and squares your stationary Neptune with 1'46 orb. This is a T-square which indicates great stress,conflict in the relationship. so his values,love can be at at odds with your ego,self expression,but they can complement if you can find balance. His value,love can be in stress,conflict with your sensivity,imagination,idealism. This can be a very romantic,spiritual connection if two don't lose yourself too much in the reality and not see each other with rose colored glasses. There is chance that you can put each other on the pedestal and be disillusioned later after realizing that either is not so wonderful. this is a very challenging t-square.

You have Sun quincunx Pluto with 1'32 orb which indicates the possibility of power issues,obsessions,compulsions in regards to expression,ego as well as relationships with men. There is a basic intensity,willpower too. Your Sun quincunx Pluto has affinity with your bf's Sun in Scorpio,and so this helps with compatibility. You have Mars oppose Pluto with 1'42 orb which indicates the possibility of power issues,obsessions,compulsions in regards to actions,passions. There is willpower,strength,intense activity for sure,a sexual aspect. This aspect could indicate a potential for violence,aggression,brutality with others. So be careful. Make sure that you avoid people that are dangerous and watch your own temper too. Avoid abuse of all kinds. Avoid manipulations. Your Mars oppose Pluto has affinity with your bf's Scorpio stuff,and that helps with compatibility.

Your moon quincunx your bf's sun with 1'07 orb. This indicates that your emotional nature,nurturing is in strain,conflict with his ego,self expression. There can be feeling of not being in sync at times. There will be a need to make serious adjustments in the relationship.

Honestly, this synastry is not good at all. There are 2 t-squares. Like I said already,t-square indicates great stress and conflict. I am surprised nobody mentioned about the t-squares. These are very challenging configurations. There are serious lessons to learn in this relationship. Lessons can be learned. Challenges can be overcome. There can be success with a lot of effort and not giving up. That's the only way to work those t-squares. You have to see yourselves clearly and don't overlook the challenges because ..the more you ignore them,the more pitfalls that you set yourselves up for....especially with his Venus forming a t-square with your Sun square Neptune. Also his Moon in Pisces and Mars square Neptune coupled with your Sun square stationary Neptune, there is a danger of overlooking the bad stuff. So avoid that. Keep it realistic. You can have a spiritual,inspirational love relationship, but you have to be practical about it. His Saturn oppose your Mars and square your Jupiter is stressing that hisrealism,practicalness which conflict with your optimism,enthusiasm. His Mercury conjunct your Saturn is serious,practical communications even though you can restrict,limit his communications. The aspect is good for being realistic with each other. Your Saturn conjunct his Midheaven too,and so your seriousness,practicalness merge with his life direction. Your Midheavens oppose each other with 48 minutes of arc,and this is indicates life directions are at odds with each other but can complement. This also means that your Midheavens conjunct each other's IC's. This indicates that your life diections merge with each other's domestic life,unconscious. This could indicate a soul tie. The midheavens are in contraparallel with 10 minutes of arc and the midheavens parallel each other's IC. So makes those connections stronger. Your ascendant square his midheaven with 22 minutes of arc. This indicates that your approach to life,personality conflict with his life direction. You have Ascendant square Midheaven natally,and so anything that conjuncts or opposes your Midheaven will square your ascendant...so it's not really bad. His Midheaven conjuncts your IC/oppose your midheaven and square your Ascendant. Can be a strong soul connection. Doesn't necessarily mean that you will be together forever. Soulmates aren't necessarily lifetime partners nor lovers. Remember that.

You definitely have serious challenges,but you can work them out. You could help each other evolve. You can teach each other and learn from each other.

I pay attention to the geometry in Modern Western Astrology..especially the aspect patterns like t-squares. That's why we have orbs in the first place. We look at aspect patterns.

posted October 14, 2006 06:23 PM            

But still, aren't there any other positive aspects that balances the negative ones? It's so scary to hear so much negative stuffs lol T_T