posted October 18, 2006 04:02 PM              

My Venus in his 7th conjunct his DC
My Juno in his 7th
His Venus in my 8th
My Moon in his 11th
His Moon in my 5th *
My Pluto conjunct his Psyche
Mars conjunct Mars
His Venus Square My Neptune
Mercury Trine Mercury
HisSun Oppos. My Pluto
My Moon Square His Mars

posted October 18, 2006 06:20 PM            

I sometimes struggle with my lover who is 7 years my junior not 47 years.

If this is the romantic synastry you are forever trying to get people to answer questions about, I understand why you haven't just posted the birthdata. I think a lot of people would stay right away from answering anything to do with it.

posted October 19, 2006 05:16 PM            

anyway, your business is your business. I won't comment. Though the Saturn/5th house is interesting. My best friend dates guys at least 30-50 years her senior. She's just not attracted to those who are our age, or in their 20s. Physically, yeah....beyond that? Nope.

I've seen that placement in a lot of people who are attracted to those who are older, much much more mature, way "out of their league" (though i don't really believe in that statement), or very successful.

Mercury,Venus, Eros in your 8th
Moon in your 5th

posted October 19, 2006 05:55 PM              

I hope that came out right, I really don't mean it in a bad way.

posted October 19, 2006 10:44 PM            

Future tensed? Like in 4 years when you're 20 and he's 57?

Please don't discount guys around your own age, many of them may feel the same way about not relating to people their own age on a deep level. I always related to older people so much better but I never had any romantic or physical attraction for them. My lover is 7 years my junior and we truly click but we both struggle with the age gap.

I guess when I was your age I had little crushes on guys but was shy and often kept it to myself, prefering to ride my horses and hang out with my friends. I thought I knew a lot about everything but the older I get the more I realise how little I know. I actually take wonder in the world and at the fact that I'll continue to learn things every day.

posted October 20, 2006 04:42 AM            

My gal is 12 yrs younger than me. We don't struggle with age gap. Heck..we even forget we have an age difference. I think that it has a lot to do with her being very mature for her age. She has Moon conjunct Saturn in Scorpio in her 7th house. She is very serious person and takes relationships very seriously. Saturn in 7th can indicate an older or mature partner. Her Moon-Saturn conjunction conjuncts my Sun too, and so her emotional seriousness,maturity strongly affects me. That's probably why I feel that we are on the same level age-wise.

Another thing too...I am a late bloomer. I am also rather youthful. I look younger than my age, and I sound even much younger than my age. I also feel that maybe my Dyslexia,Dyspraxia is connected to being a late bloomer. The Pisces Moon square Neptune in 3rd.

my girlfriend is 23,and I am 34 turning 35 on October 29th.

also...my parents were 12-13 yrs apart.
My mother was 17 yrs old and my father was almost 31 yrs old when I was born. My mother also has that serious,mature nature too with Scorpio Moon and Mars in Capricorn in 7th and Saturn trine Ascendant. My father had that youthfulness. He had Pisces Moon and stationary retrograde Neptune. My father had Dyslexic,Dyspraxic characteristics. Both parents Dyslexic. It was also an interracial relationship too. My mom is white,and my dad was black. My girlfriend is white,and so that's an interracial relationship too.

posted October 20, 2006 04:54 AM            

I think he struggles with the fact that he's 21 and I have 8 and 6 1/2 year old children. He seems to have this perception of how he's supposed to live his life, before we actually met and spoke he'd had a crush on me but he thought I was 22. Lol, I have a baby face and youthful outlook. It surprised him to find out I was older with an ex and kids. Guess I wasn't the fantasy woman he'd created in his mind, the one he "thought he never even had a chance with" (his words, so cute!)

posted October 20, 2006 05:32 AM            

oy, nevermind. before i get too whiny/preachy about this ill just close my mouth and not look at this again, to prevent snapping about something else

posted October 20, 2006 11:20 AM            

Another thing...I don't believe in teenagers should be with adults...especially not over twice their age.

Also..I want to point out that I met my gal this year..it was the anniversary of the day that I found out about my grandfather's suicide which was the day before. So it was a special day in that way too.

Interestingly her name asteroid,my name asteroid were conjunct with retrograde Venus and Ceres within 1 degree that day. It was definitely no accident that we met.

She and I are a lot alike and have a lot in common too. We definitely have spiritual,religious beliefs in common. We even found out that we both have a mystic cross(cross between heart and head lines under the mount of Saturn) and that our heart lines begin between the middle and index fingers.

Neither of us have been married nor have children.

posted October 20, 2006 03:50 PM              

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I've seen that placement in a lot of people who are attracted to those who are older, much much more mature, way "out of their league" (though i don't really believe in that statement), or very successful

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Alanabell, thank you. For you were the only one that posted on this thread that actually recognized & understood how frustrating it is to have and cope with a saturn/5.

And its even worse with Moon Square Venus, Venus Square AC, Moon Conjunct DC/Opposition AC.