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Topic: weird behaviour of a Gemini
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Ana
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From: Portugal
Registered: Sep 2009
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posted October 29, 2006 02:12 PM
  
I don't seem to get one of my Gem friends.I know about the Mercury retrogade and i wonder if this happens because of it.
It's weird because lately he's not been inclined to talk at all...Few weeks ago he'd talk my ear off, countless hours and about topics i never even wanted to discuss with him about -personal life and so on.The problem is that i believe he goes through a less fortunate period in his life, hence the withdrawn attitude.
The problem is that i really do like him and want to make him get over this period, unfortunatley i can't do this if he doesn't talk...
So, fellow gemenies, are you going through some difficult period in your lives when you don't feel that talkative at all?Esspecialy those of you who happen to have 3+ personal planets in Cancer  Thanks in advance A "worried-in-love-of-a-Gem" Scorp IP: Logged |
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posted October 31, 2006 09:27 AM
Gemini and Virgo rule Mercury. Mercury retrogrades are most felt by these 2 signs. I myself am a Virgo, and during these retrogrades I become more quieter, and keep to myself.
I notice this with Gemini influenced folks as well. Maybe its the retrograde or maybe he just feels withdrawn. Is saturn sextiling his Sun? Well that could be it too, making him come off more serious than usual. Sextile is 6 degrees. Or maybe he needs time to himself, the Cancer in him likes to be left alone and feel things through. Hope this helps. ------------------
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themysteryclub
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posted October 31, 2006 12:53 PM
If you read Linda Goodman's section in Sun Signs about Gemini Men then you might not be so surprised by his behaviour....hang in there! I don't think that his quietness is something to worry about.peace!
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shirty
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posted October 31, 2006 02:27 PM
my roomie is a gemini with cancer moon..
i find that she can go both ways as well.. usually if she's quiet it's because she is extremely upset, so i let her be.its easy for me to know when she's upset and when she's in a good mood just by paying attention to how much she is talking.. usually i just let her be and she feels fine on her own, she is not very open if i do ask.. i dunno how close you are to him, but i find a hug does more for a cancer moon than anything else anyway, assuming his moon is in cancer. all i can say is wait it out, could be the mercury Rx as well. IP: Logged |
Ana
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From: Portugal
Registered: Sep 2009
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posted October 31, 2006 05:40 PM
thanks very much for the replies!indeed, he does have a cancer moon..next time i see him i'll give him a hug.
It's just that i'm afraid most of the time,of getting close to people and be affectionate.I feel like i might get into trouble or make somebody feel uneasy and unconfortable.In this case though, he said that he cares about me and i tend to trust him
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Thethirdbenjamin
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posted November 01, 2006 12:17 AM
I'm a gemini sun with a mars in cancer.I will agree with what you said about gemini suns getting quieter during a mercury rx, i've done it before if it isn't that, thats causing him to talk less maybe he is just really sad. When i'm rally unhappy, not angry but sad i just go completely quiet. I cary on with what i'm doing but don't say anything. He'll probbily think nobody notices, but people will notice a change in him. I was once asked if something was wrong, then was told something was wrong because i wasn't being myself. Maybe you should ask him whats wrong? he probably won’t say anything, but he'll take note of you noticing that he's upset. Just because sometimes i like to be asked if somethings wrong. IP: Logged |
Ana
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From: Portugal
Registered: Sep 2009
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posted November 01, 2006 03:40 AM
Thethirdbenjamin, thanks a lot for your reply, it seems that, in this case, he's more of a cancer than a gem  IP: Logged |
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Registered: Aug 2009
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posted November 01, 2006 03:50 PM
Well to beginning with I'm a Gemini with Cancer in Venus. I can say that I too hate being probed and if I want to divulge anything it will be of my own free will. I also can say if you mess me with me too long or something's weighing heavily on my mind, I'll just shut everyone and everything out and drift off into my own thoughts. Kind of self-nursing in a way, and that bad part about that is, once I get that far, there's not a thing anyone can say or do to effect what's already done. I dare whoever to try and coax me out of that zone. lol. My advice to anyone regardless of being Gemini is to let that person work it out within themselves, which is what's going to have to take place anyway. So I wouldn't worry to much out about your friend, besides, those Cancer influences really can put the moodiness to work in an already ever changing Gemini. ------------------
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