posted November 09, 2006 01:43 AM
dioscuri,your bf's Jupiter in Pisces squaring the opposition of your Sun in Gemini in Gemini in 9th and Saturn in 3rd for a mutable cadent t-square indicate great challenging communications as well as a highly changeable,restless,bipolar type relationship.
This probably indicates why you two break up so many times. It's like you feel a lot of optimism in the relationship and then a lot of pessimism in relationship....take turns feeling that way.
T-square are very common in challenging relationships.
His Mercury quincunx your Pluto with 1 minute of arc,and that indicates communications that is so intense and requires adjustments. There can be serious trust,communication issues between you two. There could be constant suspicion that either one of you is up to something bad. I call this the paranoia. With this aspect only being 1 minute of arc indicates that it's a very strong theme in relationship.
His Mercury quincunx your Neptune with 23 minutes of arc,and that indicates communications that is so hard to pin down that it is so confusing and requires adjustments. There can be misunderstandings,but there can also be deception.
Your Mercury is quincunx his Neptune-Pluto sextile for a yod. That is like fated configuration...it's called the finger of god. yod looks looks like an isosceles triangle. Any ways...this indicates serious problematic communication issues that really require major adjustments. This is a sign of serious trust issues due to perhaps deception and secrets that one of you or both have. There could be a tendency to keep things from each other,leaving stuff out,and not telling the whole story.There is fear if you disclose certain information that you lose each other.
He has venus oppose moon-neptune,and that can indicate that there is potential to in hard to pinned down relationships with women that can include confusion. There is a possibility that he could be deceived by the women that he has relationships with or he can deceive them. It could also indicate a possibility of codependent relationships with women.
You have Mercury-Mars oppose Neptune,and that can indicate that you can get angry easily with men due to miscommunications,problems understanding the men in your life, and this could also indicate that you can be confused and even deceived by men in your life. It also indicates a possibility of codependent relationships with men....especially being a sucker for men's problems...like he could talk about his issues,and it could really affect you,but it can overwhelm you and stress you.
Both of you have Sun in Gemini oppose retrograde Saturn in Sagittarius, and that indicates that both you could have some insecurities and problems communicating and expressing yourselves as well as possible father issues like maybe father was strict or controlling or maybe he wasn't much of father. Your Saturn is in 3rd house,and it would seem that you could have more problems with communications than he does.
I feel that both of you should resolve any issues that you have with yourselves before getting so serious. If you want to get married, well...I feel that you should deal with any resolved issues. I feel that there could be possible mother problems for both of you. You have Moon conj Pluto in Scorpio and that can indicate problems with mother which could involve trust issues,fear of betrayal,power issues,and there can be intense symbiotic relationship with the mother. His Moon conjunct retrograde Neptune in Capricorn indicates problems with the mother that could possibly neglect of responsibilities,escapism,victimization,deception,and illusion as well as possible mental health issues. His Sun quincunx retrograde Neptune indicates that father was hard to pin down,could have been an escapist,illusive,deceptive of some kind...he might not be sure of his own self because he didn't really know his father well just he might not know his mother well....both parents seem to be hard to pin down. hard neptune aspects involving Sun and Moon can also indicate potential substance abuse issues that his parents might have...there is a possibility that he could have substance abuse issues if he feels the need to escape from life's pressures. When I see hard neptune aspects like that, I feel that those are indicators that you stay clear away from drugs and alcohol for hard neptune aspects indicate highly addictive personality. I also feel that you need to do the same thing too.Your Mercury-Mars oppose Neptune can indicate possible addictions,and I feel that you should stay away from drugs and alcohol.
That's all I have to say.
I hope that this has helped.
I felt that you needed to know the challenges in your relationship. Then you can address them and do something about them. You can turn those challenges into strengths. You can make the relationship work and be successful if both of you put a lot of effort into it
free will is the ultimate factor.
Lindaland
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posted November 06, 2006 10:05 PM
Thanks, im starting to think i should take a little break of astrology because ive been so fixated on it (happens when im upset about something, when i was worried about getting into college i did a Tarot reading like every 15 minutes...) and its just making me sick...i worry myself literally to death, and sadly there is nothing at this point i want more in life than to be happy with this guy. Sad...ugh...perhaps there is hope. I dunno i looked at the progressed composite and the mercury is trine pluto rather than opposite. Maybe im doing something wrong. 
posted November 09, 2006 01:43 AM