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Topic: William Is there any hope?
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lals
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posted November 09, 2006 05:04 PM
 
Life had been wonderful till I got married two years ago. As such I didn't expect anything much in the relationship except that the person to care for my emotional needs. Finally we are living separate now and he wants to get divorce. I made all possible attempts to revive the relationship. I am not sure if that would make things work or I would be going to the same hell. In another 10 days I would like to take my final decision either to make or break it. What would be your advice? Is there any hope?
11/14/1974 5.15 am kakinada, india
8/18/1971 9 pm narsipatnam india
William i need your insights. Please help me.
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posted November 09, 2006 09:17 PM
hi L,
looking at ther composite there is a venus conjunct to the sun ,so there is/was a very real love. but mars is opposed to saturn and square to the moon.which can indicate the tensions betwee the two of you. but the worst aspect is jupiter square to uranus and chiron.this is a aspect of breakout.i would think the marriage was sudden and there may have been financial concerns.was it arranged?
pluto transitted by square to the composite moon in late october/06.i think this was the final knell of this marriage
i will sent you your chart shortly.you are a loving and attractive woman,i would not worry about him.
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posted November 09, 2006 09:27 PM
william thank you for your time. It was an arranged marriage but we had 9 months before we really got married. All the time we had very little opportunity to interact that we were living in different countries and a definite disinterest from his side. We were married and lived together for 14 months and had a forced abortion during that time. I took in my stride that things would improve when in june 06 things started falling apart. though i decided that i would pursue my own career and living in a foreign country I continued to get in touch with him and at all times from my side. today i really wonder whether it is worth prusuing this? I could never understand why he should have got married to me?
whatever it is i really need direction and i really want to hear if it is worth pursuing further and if we get together (at present a far fetched reality) will it last?IP: Logged |
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posted November 10, 2006 03:12 PM
I am going to check your vedic charts.IP: Logged |
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posted November 10, 2006 04:02 PM
Glaucus,
you are always wonderful! Incidentally, we got married based on vedic compatability.IP: Logged |
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posted November 10, 2006 05:20 PM
Your Mars in 1st indicates kuja dosha.
Your Mars is in 1st from Chandra lagna(moon used as ascendant)and that's another kuja dosha. In Vedic Astrology, kuja dosha(Mars in 1st,4th,7th,8th,and 12th) spoils married life. In westerners charts,this often indicates divorce.
the way to negate the effects of Kuja dosha is if you marry somebody else with it.
Your 6th/12th house lord Mercury and your 8th house lord Venus are conjunct your 7th house lord,Mars. 6th,8th,and 12th houses which are malefic houses. Planets that rule malefic houses carry malefic energy. In your case, your 6th/12th house lord Mercury and 8th house lord Venus carry malefic energy that strongly affects your 7th house lord Mars and that would indicate significant trouble in married life. Your Navamsha(9th varga chart)
Your 7th house lord Sun is conjunct Ketu(a malefic)and can indicate loss,suffering,detachment from spouse. You already have 12th house lord conjunct 7th house lord in your main chart that indicates the same thing. BTW...12th house lord has to do with distant lands. You could end up marrying somebody from a very distant land or could meet him in a very distant land.
overall it indicates that you would have seriously major marital problems
He has Mars in 7th from Chandra Lagna,and so he has kuja dosha,and so spoiled married life for him. His 7th house lord Mercury is retrograde and in the dusthana house,the 6th house which also indicate marital troubles.
He has Venus conjunct Ketu,and that indicates loss/detachment from spouse.
Navamsha:
His Mars is in 7th which is kuja dosha. His Rahu is conjunct that configuration which indicates more harm to married life. There could be unstable passions,violence in married life. Rahu in 7th can also indicate that he could possibly marry a foreigner or somebody of a different culture. His 7th house lord. His 7th house lord Moon is conjunct 6th house lord Mercury and 12th house lord Jupiter in 8th house, and that indicates a very problematic married life as well as can add to the theme of maybe meeting a spouse in foreign land or marrying a foreigner or another culture. overall it would indicate that he would have major marital problems too. IP: Logged |
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posted November 10, 2006 06:14 PM
Glaucus, Unfortunately here two negatives are not adding to positive.  Quite insightful as always. Thank you for your time. But you say that to negate kuja dosham one has to get married to another person with kuja dosham. Though both of us have kuja dosham why there is problem? Also, as far as I know, Kuja dosham would delay marriage and not create problems in marital lives. Enough to prove we got married in our 30s.
Aslo, when we got married we were in distant lands ie., different countries.
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posted November 10, 2006 11:10 PM
I think that it has to do with both of your charts looking very challenging for marriage,and so maybe it seems like you both have relationship issues that interfere with happiness.
I feel that you two love each other, you should try to work it out. I am a believer in free will. I feel that we make our own futures. If you two want the relationship,you will be fine.
I wish you luck.
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posted November 10, 2006 11:45 PM
Thank you Glaucus.IP: Logged |
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posted November 11, 2006 12:15 AM
Glaucus, I have a doubt. You believe in free will and practice astrology. How does these two go together?
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