posted November 12, 2006 07:19 PM              

Just wondering what are the aspects in a birth chart that indicates a rapid change in "love interests"??

Fall quickly in love, everything's passionate, time consuming. You think u've found "THE ONE". And then, there's this one day, when u wake up, and just don't feel the same again.

Maybe something triggered that. But oh well.

You've quickly fallen in love & thought it was ur 'soulmate', but one day, u don't feel that way anymore. And are ready to move on.

Ok- I dunno if I'm explaining myself. hah- english is not my homelanguage

So, I'd really like to know- if there are certain aspects that could indicate a "fickle"/"erratic" person in love?

Venus/Uranus maybe?

posted November 12, 2006 07:53 PM              

are you refering to your own chart per chance ??
i do think certain transits .. maybe progressions .. can have that effect .. maybe ..
never have looked into it .. but it's happened once or twice here .. :-))
but i don't remember the times .. as in .. it was pre my interest in astrology ..
so more than 16 yrs back ..
btw: some new tunes uploaded today on audio page in sig ..
'william' be a cool song .. about a boy who refused to cry (or something like that)
should i check your chart ?? .. got a story to relate ??
did ya fall in and out of love overnight? .. over a weekend ? ;-)

H§D

posted November 13, 2006 12:28 AM              

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"WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit"-Khalil Gibran

posted November 13, 2006 03:06 AM              

One of my best friends is a last degree gemini rising- hah! yeah, & I can relate her to what u wrote.
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HappyDragon-

how are u doing??-hope gr8.
Oh yeah, I was talking about myself. Was just looking for clues in astrology, I guess. Because I love the person I am with now, but I just don't feel the same way I did some time ago.

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posted November 13, 2006 08:31 AM              

ok .. will check your chart ..
just got other computer working ..

so how long is "some time ago"

posted November 13, 2006 12:20 PM              

I can also tell you that those flip flopping feelings are deep and intense. They comes from pinges of desire, and it takes a while to reason them away. So, one day you're feeling one way, and the next another. Flip flop. Flip flop. Flip flop. Flip flop!

posted November 13, 2006 03:22 PM              

Yes! I keep myself updated with my transits... I'm checking them mainly on astro.com (extended chart selection)

But I've always been this way, "erratic", "unstable" in love. So I don't think it's a transit thing.

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Kay Libra,

Yeah... I totally understand what u are saying. I'm the "unstable" one in the relationship. And I certainly don't want to hurt anybody.

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Natural111,

Woah!!- I totally relate with what u said!!-

that's certainly me.

And I have Venus Trine Uranus. My venus is in Leo too.

And u said u have Gemini Moon- I have Moon in the 3rd house. 'Feelings change quickly'... yes!- "flip-flop"

posted November 13, 2006 03:51 PM              

However, I must say, looking back... When I really feel it for someone. I mean REALLY feel it. Then there's no flip flopping. But that is REALLY rare. But then I'll flip flop about something else. Like does he really want me as much as I want him. So, the cycle goes on and on.

But I am working on controlling the Venus in Leo tendencies.

posted November 14, 2006 02:48 AM              

I try to control it too, but oh well, is not really working this time...

Anyways, thanks & best of lucks to u too!!

posted November 14, 2006 03:01 AM              

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"WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit"-Khalil Gibran

posted November 24, 2006 07:30 AM              

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Is that like Venus Sextile Uranus?
Because that's me, and I must say, yep, I can be pretty erratic and unstable and changing in love interests.

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I too have that Venus sextile Uranus aspect. The shortest period I was in love with someone lasted 3 years. Doubt that qualifies erratic. Actually, it is kind of funny. My relationships have had sort of sense weirdness and perhaps erratic but my feelings once formed are awfully resilient. So I don't think only Venus-Uranus aspect can have that influence.

posted November 24, 2006 11:57 AM              

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You've quickly fallen in love & thought it was ur 'soulmate', but one day, u don't feel that way anymore. And are ready to move on.

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With fickle, gemini and pisces also come to mind. Gemini cause…well you know but Pisces are so in love with love , that they’ll convince themselves they’re in love…when they’re not. So when someone comes along that we do generally care for, we walk away.

I think Cancer as well for some reason.

So umm yeah avoid all these signs

posted November 24, 2006 12:02 PM              

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how about uranus in the 7th house??wat do u guys say??..

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posted November 24, 2006 06:19 PM              

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With fickle, gemini and pisces also come to mind. Gemini cause…well you know but Pisces are so in love with love , that they’ll convince themselves they’re in love…when they’re not. So when someone comes along that we do generally care for, we walk away

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AI - ouch! you described my problem quite accurately!

~Gemini Asc
~Pisces Moon/11th square Sag Neptune/7th.

posted November 25, 2006 04:22 PM              

Glad you like the signature.

Hope someone knows the answer to your your Venus in Leo question. By my experience they are rather upfront and gracious with their feelings. Even Virgo Suns. And I think they are most stable fire Venus.

posted November 25, 2006 04:33 PM              

Oh yes! I know many people with Venus in Leo and they are stable with their feelings, very warm-hearted, generous and loyal.

We just commented on the 'coincidence' of some of us having Venus in Leo and similar Uranus aspects, and being erratic or unstable sometimes.

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Aquainferno-

Oh oh I love ur nick!!

Yess... all u wrote make senses!. Lunatic Cancerian here