posted December 06, 2013 07:53 PM            

My personal relationships, in particular, have always been difficult. I feel intensely too.

posted December 18, 2013 04:03 AM            

I have two stelliums.

1st house:

Uranus (conjunct my ascendant) in Leo
Venus in Virgo
Pluto in Virgo
(Part of Fortune in between conjunction of Venus and Pluto)

3rd house:

Sun in Libra
Mars in Libra
Mercury in Libra
Neptune in Scorpio
(Vesta between/conjunct Sun and Mars; Sun and Mars conjunct. Sappho between Mercury and Juno, which is nearly exactly conjunct Neptune. Juno and Neptune in Scorpio.)

4th house (mostly in Scorpio) is loaded too, mostly with asteroids.

Pallas, Valentine, Eros, Cupid, Jupiter. (Eros conjunct Valentine and Cupid.)
Ceres in Sagittarius. Jupiter conjunct Ceres.

1st house has played out as me being more Virgo in expression. Quiet, reserved - until I get to know someone. Then I'm quite communicative. (Libra; later) Hate being the center of attention in a large group, but love surprising a small and familiar group with my sleeper wit (and somehow manage to enjoy the attention, even! Leo...) My Virgo is frugal and organized. Honest and loyal.

3rd house. I'm pretty dang intelligent, articulate in speech and writing, love to write, think, discuss, bounce ideas back and forth. But my Libra loves to beautify. Which often means spending money. Which Virgo doesn't like. At this point, I've managed to find a way to satisfy both extremes by shopping sales, clearance, even garage sales and thrift stores for lovelies. Libra is happy in her beautiful surroundings. Virgo is happy with her bank balance. Most of the time. (They do still fight now and then...)

4th house.

I'm still trying to figure this one out. Too many one-sided attractions/loves. One devastating long-term marriage that recently ended. I was totally in love, completely devoted, and somehow blinded to/resigned to his lying, cheating, manipulations, deceptions, abuse. (Neptune conjunct Juno and Pallas, along with Jupiter conjunct Ceres.) I cared far too much for my own good while my ex cared only for himself and believed in an illusion (of my ex) that never existed. I was a narcissist magnet and that's exactly what I got. (God, I hope I don't do this one again....)

All of these "love/sex" asteroids in Scorpio, especially Juno, seem to emphasize my sexuality. (Neptune there, Uranus on my ASC in Leo and Psyche in Aquarius square my Neptune seem to activate the psychic stuff too.) Pretty funny, actually. All of my former lovers have been pretty surprised that this quiet (Virgo Venus) woman is actually seething with sexuality.

I'm curious. Does anybody see anything different in this scenario? I'm such a greenhorn that all input is so welcome.

posted December 20, 2013 03:55 PM            

I have Leo in the 9th Sun, Venus, Merucry, Chiron, Ceres, Pallas, and Vesta.

posted December 21, 2013 08:56 PM            

Tell me how I work! lol

posted January 14, 2014 01:47 AM            

It helped me bring out that creative side in me. I tend to be aloof but as it's forming a square to my Scorpio in uranus, boy, stay on my good side. Sometimes I don't take things lightly.

--What you said is so true Garnet. I have a leo stellium in 3rd house which also squares my uranus in scorpio.

posted January 20, 2014 05:39 AM            

I don't even have that many friends.. I've never really done any charity or humanitarian work

But I do want to have more friends, do charity and humanitarian work

LOL?

posted March 01, 2014 11:14 AM            

I don't know if I'm pretty much cappy but my friends say I'm serious, sometimes too much. Well, I'm just being ambitious still in a Pisces way, quite passive and lazy, also I love to daydream of myself being successful a lot hahaha thanks my cappy energy which keeps me going, making some dreams come true.

posted March 16, 2014 12:51 PM            

Anyway, the home focus and early life is accurate in fourth house emphasis.
-stable home life. family never moved once. Till this day my mother owns the house I grew up in. Never switched schools, neighborhoods during childhood hold very special memory.

Chiron- trauma associated. Interesting point, As an adopted mixed race child I looked different than my white parents and predominantly white community. This led to still existing feelings of poor self esteem and confidence, despite blossoming, these feelings still exist and prevent successes, all because of experiences during childhood.

Home comfort focus can exist, attention on making the home comfortable, warm, inviting. Upon moving to New York the main priority was scouring houzz.com and home stores to create the perfectly designed living space. Most people would save money in New York, but no I spent it on making my home the mos comfortable thing ever.

-career can be discovered via stelliums. Careers pertaining to the issues of the house the stellium exists in that is.

posted March 16, 2014 12:55 PM            

Anyway, the home focus and early life is accurate in fourth house emphasis.
-stable home life. family never moved once. Till this day my mother owns the house I grew up in. Never switched schools, neighborhoods during childhood hold very special memory.

Chiron- trauma associated. Interesting point, As an adopted mixed race child I looked different than my white parents and predominantly white community. This led to still existing feelings of poor self esteem and confidence, despite blossoming, these feelings still exist and prevent successes, all because of experiences during childhood.

Home comfort focus can exist, attention on making the home comfortable, warm, inviting. Upon moving to New York the main priority was scouring houzz.com and home stores to create the perfectly designed living space. Most people would save money in New York, but no I spent it on making my home the mos comfortable thing ever.

-career can be discovered via stelliums. Careers pertaining to the issues of the house the stellium exists in that is.

The house across from the stellium house can be empty, hence displaying the area in life where less energy can exist. In my case it's the 10th house of career in scorp. Career ambitions have always been a struggle, I have artistic passions, but hustling them into a money making strategic career has been challenging. I just don't have the natural focus for it. I'd rather experience my passions and a lot of times I just love staying home and being comfortable and cozy. Working from the home could be a good idea for 4th house stelliums.