posted December 01, 2006 08:15 PM              

I have another Cancer question, but first I wanted to let you all know that my relationship with my Cancer fella is so wonderful and we are truly happy. Thank you all for the guidance that helped me know how to get us to this point. Now for my question...my Cancer fella is a college professor. The semester is just ending and he seems to be having a hard time with the change and the fact that he isn't going to be seeing some of his students anymore. Also, student evaluations are coming, but he won't see them for another few days and I think he might be worried about what they had to say about him as this influences his tenure track. I know that Cancers don't handle change well and that they are prone to making lasting attachments to people, i.e. his students. My question is, how can I help him through this difficult time? He just doesn't seem himself, but he won't really talk about it. Also, it's about to be a full moon and sometimes that makes him odd. Your thoughts?

Thanks,

posted December 02, 2006 11:00 AM            

Why don't you suggest to him that he swap e-mail addresses with some of his students, so that they can keep in touch with each other and let each other know what they've been up to, etc...

In the long term, Cancerians are not mad on change - my little boy took 2-3 weeks to settle in after starting school, but now that he's in a routine, it's fine! Crabs like security so warn him in advances of any changes you might want to make!!! Also, the full moon can be an odd time - he'll be back to himself soon enough!