posted December 15, 2006 03:29 AM              

I left England last year to come and live in California, as my husband had got a job here. I found it difficult to adapt and missed home terribly. Because of various complications I couldn't work and we were completely broke. We argued a lot, and I was alone all the time, as I know nobody here. My husband is very ambitious and a workaholic, and very unemotional.

A few nights ago he ended our marriage as he said he doesn't love me anymore. I have suspected he was having an affair with one of his collegues, but have been unable to find conclusive proof.

I am flying home in two weeks, I am terrified of flying, and have to do it on my own. I have no job or money to go back too, and I will be staying with my friends mother, as I have a very troubled and disfunctional family and can't go to them. I feel completely destroyed as I'm sure you would all imagine. I am very terrified of all that's before me. This has happened to me before in my last long term relationship and I feel very disheartened about life.

I would be so grateful if any of you could take a look at my chart and give me any advice about what sort of jobs you think I could be suited to/anything you can see that would indicate how I can avoid this happening to me again/and any other advice/interpretation about my chart.

I would also just like to say that I have passed so many hours reading this site and learning more and more about astrology from you all. I have been so lonely for the past year, and it has helped to come here.

Thank-you

Also I know this sounds stupid and a bit bizzare but I have real problem with hypochondria so could you please not mention anything to do with physical health that you see in my chart as it would be to much for me right now. Mental health is fine, as I have been treated for such things on and off for years.

I also would be interested to know about transits/progressions etc as I do not know how to interpret them.

Sorry to write such a depressing topic, and I can't believe I am writing such personal things, but I am so desperate and haven't had a real conversation with anyone(apart from my husband)face to face in over a year.

Thank-you again.

born on 8 Feb 1977 local time 1:38 pm
in London, ENG (UK) U.T. 13:38
0w10, 51n30 sid. time 22:51:31

Planetary positionsplanet sign degree motion
Sun Aquarius 19°41'17 in house 9 direct
Moon Libra 15°43'15 end of house 4 direct
Mercury Capricorn 26°41'22 in house 7 direct
Venus Aries 5°46'05 in house 10 direct
Mars Capricorn 29°17'00 in house 8 direct
Jupiter Taurus 22°09'08 in house 11 direct
Saturn Leo 12°56'11 in house 2 retrograde
Uranus Scorpio 11°46'12 in house 5 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 15°45'02 in house 6 direct
Pluto Libra 14°02'03 in house 4 retrograde
True Node Libra 26°34'03 in house 5 retrograde
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.

House positions (Placidus)Ascendant Cancer 13°31'56
2nd House Cancer 29°13'19
3rd House Leo 17°18'20
Imum Coeli Virgo 11°26'31
5th House Libra 17°02'36
6th House Sagittarius 4°03'54
Descendant Capricorn 13°31'56
8th House Capricorn 29°13'19
9th House Aquarius 17°18'20
Medium Coeli Pisces 11°26'31
11th House Aries 17°02'36
12th House Gemini 4°03'54

Major aspectsSun Trine Moon 3°58
Sun Square Jupiter 2°28
Sun Opposition Saturn 6°45
Sun Square Uranus 7°55
Sun Sextile Neptune 3°56
Sun Trine Pluto 5°39
Moon Sextile Saturn 2°47
Moon Sextile Neptune 0°02
Moon Conjunction Pluto 1°41
Moon Square Ascendant 2°11
Mercury Conjunction Mars 2°36
Mercury Trine Jupiter 4°32
Saturn Square Uranus 1°10
Saturn Trine Neptune 2°49
Saturn Sextile Pluto 1°06
Uranus Trine Ascendant 1°46
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1°43
Neptune Quincunx Ascendant 2°13
Pluto Square Ascendant 0°30
Numbers indicate orb (deviation from the exact aspect angle).

posted December 15, 2006 04:01 AM              

midheaven sign pisces: artistic work, compassionate work, dance, drama, taking care of those less fortunate. its ruler neptune is in the 6th. the hypochondria prob comes from this placement, ha and with neptune its definitely a sign of your imagination going out of control. if you direct it to something creative youll likely be plagued much less by that affliction. with this combo i see nursing work, an aide in a hospital, or doctor i suppose and with neptune being strong to your career look at alternative methods of healing -- something that stands a bit away from "Traditional" medicine as that would prob not be in tune with your dreamy nature.

pisces midheaven trine uranus square neptune: the strong trine indicates showcasing your immensely unique creative efforts [uranus in the 5th] and also the square indicates the apparent indecision that been on your shoulders regarding career [neptune makes things cloudy].

again at the midheaven, you have venus in the 10th in aries [another indicator of strong artistry in the career, this time it involves tho forging out on your own in an entrepreneurial [sp?] way (aries)].

cancer asc ruled by moon in libra in the 4th: interior design/decoration perhaps? beautifying the home in some way. women/mothers [moon/4th] and beauty [libra] -- running a svc out of your home tending to helping women improve their appearance. either way the idea of being at home and being and at work simultaneously rings out for me with this combo, as well as working with the way things/people "look" [libra].

so from my p.o.v.: creative + service + health + home + women/mothers + beauty + entrepreneur = working from home or close to home running some type of alternative healing svc that benefits women. maybe something that markets to pregnant women specifically? i dunno there are other possible combos. write back if anything i wrote made sense

posted December 15, 2006 04:42 AM              

Yes I have read before about nursing/caring work from the pisces midheaven, but it's never got me burning so to speak. If anything I've often thought it's the libra/venus part of me that's horrified of hospitals.

I have actually always been drawn to more libran occupations. I worked in a library for years, and loved it, but got very worn out from the customer service aspect. I was also very involved in trade unions and got immense satisfaction from that, I even wanted to be a lawyer at one point in my life. I have also been involved in acting and was on the right path(my dream was always to be an actor/perfomer)but dropped out as I couldn't cope with stage fright.

posted December 15, 2006 06:00 AM              

yea saturn in leo traditionally wasnt paid much attention to as a child and so has a complex regarding attention/recognition: they want it so badly but theyre afraid to go for it. did your father not pay much attention to you? you dont have to answer on here but to yourself: break ties, the past is gone and he;s not living your life -- YOU ARE. break free of the brainwashing and just plain --go for it-- your Venus in aries's confidence and pride should help to move you along.

posted December 15, 2006 03:14 PM              

You said:

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I would be so grateful if any of you could take a look at my chart and give me any advice about what sort of jobs you think I could be suited to/anything you can see that would indicate how I can avoid this happening to me again/and any other advice/interpretation about my chart.

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Since you have 7 planets focused on the "Others" side of your chart, you tend to work with and through others. This suggests that your best chances at employment is through referrals or contacts with others. Go to job "mixers" and get to know the people there. Explain what your work background is and why you are looking for a job. People will help you if you let them.

Since your Moon (home) conujunct (energy is combined with) Pluto (transformation, also power) is focused in your 4th house (home), it is possible that "coming home" will re-power you in your life. This home focus is even stronger, since there is an Easy Opposition focused on the Moon-Pluto conjunction.

This situation seems to be an indication of your Saturn return, the time when Saturn returns to the place it was at your birth. This is a time for becoming an "adult", growing up and facing the challenges of life. If a person has faced their challenges all along in their life, the Saturn return can be easy. If, however, they have not faced these challenges, the Saturn return can "test" the person. Since your Saturn is focused in the 2nd house (physical, also values, money), you are facing tests of your own values: what do you value in your life, why, what will you do to get what you value in life? This directly relates to money and issues of getting money. How much money do you want? How will you get this money?

Since your North node (future goals) is focused in the 5th house (self-expression), you may want to have some type of career that gets you recognition of some type. Since there is a T-square between the Nodes focused on Capricorn (duty, also career) modifying Mars (being, also action) conjunct (energy is combined with) Mercury (thinking/daily work) focused in the 7th house (relationships), it is possible that a job that involves some type of active thinking/negotiating with others will interest you.

Keep your eyes open, your spirits up, and your ear to the ground...and everything should be fine in the long run!

Being "upbeat,"

Tim

posted December 15, 2006 07:30 PM              

You and I have some interesting correlaions in out charts. You're only 4months younger than me. This past year we've gone through our Saturn Returns, yours @ 12*Leo and mine @ 14* Leo, both in the 2nd house. This time is a huge turning point for all humans and it just so happens to be our turn right now! Now that Saturn is moving retrograde again it's almost like the lessons of this transit are being activated again for us to work on. Saturn in Leo in the 2nd is a lot about self-worth and ego stuff, and also financial security. You have Saturn opposite Sun & I have Saturn opposite Moon. My Sun is conjunct your Moon & Your Sun is conjunct my Moon. That's really cool, I think we could probably relate with each other pretty well.

I need to leave work now, but I will check in later, as soon as I can. All IS Well even if this dimention's illusion is so convincing otherwise!!

posted December 15, 2006 07:47 PM              

Here is husbands data. I figured all the Sag activity(transits) is hitting him hard as he has(I think)a sag stellium in his fifth house.

born on 2 Jan 1973 local time 6:18 pm
in Derby, ENG (UK) U.T. 18:18
1w29, 52n55 sid. time 01:01:02

Planetary positionsplanet sign degree motion
Sun Capricorn 12°13'59 in house 6 direct
Moon Sagittarius 21°26'35 in house 5 direct
Mercury Sagittarius 27°14'03 in house 5 direct
Venus Sagittarius 18°41'58 in house 5 direct
Mars Sagittarius 2°06'04 in house 5 direct
Jupiter Capricorn 18°13'37 in house 6 direct
Saturn Gemini 15°10'43 in house 11 retrograde
Uranus Libra 22°47'00 in house 4 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 6°17'32 in house 5 direct
Pluto Libra 4°25'24 in house 3 stationary (R)
True Node Capricorn 16°46'50 in house 6 retrograde

House positions (Placidus)Ascendant Leo 8°30'51
2nd House Leo 25°00'48
3rd House Virgo 16°32'17
Imum Coeli Libra 16°33'28
5th House Scorpio 26°50'30
6th House Capricorn 7°38'19
Descendant Aquarius 8°30'51
8th House Aquarius 25°00'48
9th House Pisces 16°32'17
Medium Coeli Aries 16°33'28
11th House Taurus 26°50'30
12th House Cancer 7°38'19

Major aspectsSun Conjunction Jupiter 6°00
Sun Quincunx Saturn 2°57
Sun Square Pluto 7°49
Moon Conjunction Mercury 5°47
Moon Conjunction Venus 2°45
Moon Opposition Saturn 6°16
Moon Sextile Uranus 1°20
Mercury Sextile Uranus 4°27
Venus Opposition Saturn 3°31
Venus Sextile Uranus 4°05
Mars Conjunction Neptune 4°11
Mars Sextile Pluto 2°19
Jupiter Square Uranus 4°33
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1°52
Neptune Trine Ascendant 2°13
Pluto Sextile Ascendant 4°05
Numbers indicate orb (deviation from the exact aspect angle).

posted December 18, 2006 06:18 AM            

Obviously your MC is strongly connected to the 6th house with Nep placed there, so your vocation in life is one of service and with your MC in pisces and nep in the 6th it is of maybe a spiritual quality that involves compassion. Nep sextiles both your sun and moon and whatever you will do will involve positively bringing your self (sun) and emotions (moon) into your profession. Likewise with jup, the ruler of your 6th. Don't be scared of the squ between sun and jup, it probably adds a self-confidence about you and its trine to mercury adds an intellectual component as to your vocation. As to your second, you value cancerian things, maybe security, nurturing, domesticity etc and this is highlighted by the moons position in the 4th and in libra. However it also indicates maybe with the connection to the other things a bringing of a very personal self to your vocation. Your moon is very well aspected and being in libra might give you some emotional balance. For some reason, I can very much see you maybe as a social worker or counsellor or nurse or maybe some sort of mentor/teacher, this is where the moons balance might help. As mentioned by Tim, the focus of most of the planets is on the western sde of the chart so you are people focused rather than focused on youself. It is also interesting to see that neptune conjuncts your sun-moon midpoint giving you compassion (I also have this too!). Mars also in capricorn is also exalted and in the 8th and would be able to give you the ability to see through issues perplexing people (also this is probably highlighted by moon-pluto conj and probably the cause of "emotionality" that you mention on the other post) and having jupiter in the 11th means that you are also good with dealing with community.

Hope that helps and sorry to hear about what has happened
As Tim said, you are or might be going through Saturn return. Maybe this is what is happening to you and giving you a chance to re-evaluate life.

Is interesting to also see the duplication of your 1st and 7th houses - there is obviously issues that you have to deal with here. Maybe a balance between yourself and others.
http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/duplicated_signs.htm

Also you have an interception of the 5th and 11th houses:
http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/Intercepted_signs.htm

posted December 18, 2006 06:26 AM            

Most of his planets would fall in your 6th, which is good for dealing with mundane things but its not the most romantic house. Otherwise, his saturn falling in your 12th house doesn't seem nice. His ura also sits in your 4th so there was always going to be a bit of ground moving at home.

posted December 18, 2006 02:30 PM              

More interesting correlations...
I also have a MC11*Pisces. Neptune in Sagi in the 6th house too. This makes us a bit confused on what we should be when we grow up.

What do you like to do? You can now start a new adventure! It should be something that allows you to escape into your own fantasy world of imagination a few times a day. For example, I'm in Insurance (8th house Moon), but I am able to check in here on this Astrology board during the day from time to time which satisfies my need for escapism hehe. I also am a free-lance make-up artist. This vibes well with my Libra Sun & Pisces MC as well. So you, with your:
9th house Aqua Sun,
Pisces MC
Libra Moon conj Pluto (Moon/Pluto quincunx MC)
6th house cusp Sagi...
Something that allows you to help people, and even better yet, help transform people in some meaningful way. Perhaps you are going through such a tough emotional time right now so that you can earn the 'tools' to help other people through the same kind of thing?! With tUranus in Pisces on our MC right now is a fabulous and opportunistic time to start a new job!

Just keep putting it out there that you are looking for work and that you need divine inspiration on what you should do and things will come forward at the perfect time.

Keep in touch, let us know how yer doin.

posted December 18, 2006 04:19 PM              

So, maybe you should look into that as well.

posted January 09, 2007 07:43 PM              

Love & Light to you!