posted January 03, 2007 09:05 AM              

He likes people to depend on him, especially me, and he is very dependable. He likes to help fix my problems; he likes to be feel involved and that he is being helpful. He's always ready to serve, here's always there when I need him. I don't think anyone has ever asked him for help or a favour, be it myself or his family, without him "running to the recue".

He is a neat freak, he likes everything to be perfect. His room is organized the way he looks is very tidy. To those who don't know him, he seems quiet, well behaved and orderly. He says that he needs to feel control over the small things in his life because if he loses control ovr them he will feel he can't possibly control the larger things.

He can be paranoid at times and as a child he admits he had obssessive compulsive tendencies.

Things he finds attractive in a woman:
He looks for someone who is potentially suitable to be his wife or his serious girlfriendnd; he does not go for a girl if she's the type he can only have a bit of fun with. He hates girls who are too crazy or dress too provacatively. He likes elegance and class. He likes a girl with poise and good manners. He wants her to have a good reputation and image.

His only negative trait is that he can be very critical sometimes. Its doesn't happen that often and at other times he is the most loving person I know, but when it does, and I am on the receiving end... When he is angry he won't shout or throw a tantrum but he will criticise and criticise and point out everything that is wrong with a situation or person and it will drive me INSANE!!

Hope I helped..

posted January 03, 2007 09:40 AM            

I'm very picky, and don't let people close to me easily, but those who get close are usually dear to me, I don't change my friends like socks. I care a lot about people who are important to me, and I'm quite loyal and expect the same from them. Don't betray the trust of someone who has Virgo rising, they won't forgive easily and even if they do they certainly won't forget and are likely to lose respect for you. I'm pretty helpful and kind, but especially nowadays I try not to let people take advantage of that - I got tired of being treated like a doormat. I get easily nervous, and I worry too much... according to other people, but perhaps they just don't worry enough? I enjoy reading and writing pretty much, many people who have Virgo rising also have Gemini Midheaven, which emphasizes this feature, and even those who don't are ruled by Mercury anyway. In general, I like intellectual pursuits more than, let's say physical. Knowledge is power...

I enjoy being alone at times and get exhausted if I don't have enough time and a place where I can just be alone when I want to (and imagine I'm a Libra...). For some reason I tend to attract all kinds of freaks, perhaps Pisces DC does that?

I hope that helped a bit, those are some basic features Virgo rising people are said to have and apply to me at least. However, of course you can't interprete the descriptions of rising signs too literally. No matter what they say, I'm not obsessed with cleaning, nor am I overly shy, or have the slightest desire to become a secretary or a nurse and gods know what else... You have to get to know the person, and it won't happen overnight, especially with someone who has Virgo rising.

posted January 03, 2007 10:53 AM              

He likes elegance and class. He likes a girl with poise and good manners. He wants her to have a good reputation and image.

This makes my day (smile) because I have nightmares that my son will bring home a Brittney Spears wannabe.

posted January 03, 2007 11:55 AM              

"My outlook on life tends to be a bit dark, which is why I get accused of being pessimistic occasionally"

He calls it realism lol

"Don't betray the trust of someone who has Virgo rising, they won't forgive easily and even if they do they certainly won't forget and are likely to lose respect for you."

Tell me about it! SO true. You betray his trust it's over.

"I enjoy being alone at times and get exhausted if I don't have enough time and a place where I can just be alone when I want to"

haha when his family came to visit, they stayed at his apartment for a week and a half and he nearly DIED because he didn't have one moment to himself.

The Virgin: Awwwwwww your son sounds cute! Typical (lol) for him to correct you!
Glad I made you smile, and if placements mean anything, than you have got yourself a gem, bless him.

posted January 03, 2007 12:26 PM              

"I enjoy being alone at times and get exhausted if I don't have enough time and a place where I can just be alone when I want to (and imagine I'm a Libra...). For some reason I tend to attract all kinds of freaks, perhaps Pisces DC does that?"

Yeah, that's Pisces DC that does that. Pisces needs solitude more than Virgo. Virgo's more stable, being an earth sign, and can basically "shut out" the world, whereas Pisces needs to *escape* from the world, mentally, spiritual and physically at times.

WhalePiscean - my last boyfrined was a Can-Aries-Vir. When it comes to his work, he is very exact, very preicse, very hard working. He's very good at what he does, top of his field. But he definitely has a temper whent hings aren't how he thinks they should be, and he usually channels that temper into intellectual spats with friends or competitive rows/fueds with other people in his line of work (which hasn't always been good for his work rep. LOL.)

WHen we dated he told me once that from the first time he met me, he could see us married. Ap[parently I met with his "approval." I replied "I don't do marriage." He does like women to be more refined, more desceet, and definitely they have to be intelligent, educated and funny for him to be interested. He did have a fling with a younger woman once that was purely for sex, and he said he found that very unfulfilling. Beyond, his other, fre relationships tended to go on forever. We were only to together for a few months before he learned he had to move back to Europe. He still stays in touch through email - he's the only ex-boyfriend I have contact with. Normally, when I break up with a guy, he's out of my life for good.

As for me, despite my Uranian ways, I admit that I tend to size up men like breeding stock. And even though I'm not looking for marriage, if a guy doesn't pass my prelimary testing, I'm not interested.

I was very serious, sensitive, nervous and quiet as a child. I'm growing more and more into my Gem Sun as I get older, but my Virgo ASC is undedniable. I hate walking into a noisy, crowded room, esp if there's no one there I know. I'm not OCD or a neat freak - one pass through mym house will prove that - but I do intensely hate things to get damaged or broken, or if sets of things are incomplete, like a volume from a set of books or all my flatware's not accounted for.

posted January 03, 2007 01:38 PM              

My ex is a private contractor, an engineer (of course). He had to go out on his own, because working with a permenant supervisor is impossible for him - he has Uranus conjunct his ASC.

He is a very different person at work than he is in his relationships with women. He was always very sweet with me. He is very in awe of (and very intimidated by) women, almost to the point he worships them. That's a Virgo ASC trait - idealizing your mate or the sex you are attracted to. I admit he really made me feel adored. My Aqua guy now can do that - but he's an Aqua, so it's only when he doesn't have othe things on his mind. LOL.

One thing I picked up about my ex was he seems to have that whole "Virgin-Wh*re " complex going on. At times, he would be very critical of certain women - almost vicious, although I don't think he meant it that way. But these were women who fell far below his standard - like dumb women who would do dumb things, like get drunk publically and made a**es of themselves. It is simply too painful for him to watch women, who he indeed idealizes greatly, be so unlike his ideal.

posted January 03, 2007 03:54 PM              

Instead of us telling you what were like, why don't you ask us a few general questions that your interested in. That may be a way of geniunely learning about us, then having us tell you anything.

So, questions.

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Virgo Rising 8'57, Sagittarius Sun/4thH 3'26, Pisces Moon/6thH 8'22

"Our passions are not too strong, they are too weak. We are far too easily pleased." - C.S. Lewis

posted January 03, 2007 06:09 PM            

Ok, so I know he had a crush on me from afar before we hooked up but he assumed things about me that weren't accurate- my age for example, he thought I was a lot younger. Would this cause a virgo asc to pull away cos I wasn't as he'd imagined me to be?

Its been a year since then and he is now gushing with wonder over silly things he never noticed before, like my small pretty feet, small hands that are an identical shape to his much larger hands. Does it usually take virgo asc so long to notice these things or does he have to open his heart first to be able to see them?

This was suggested above in someones post that reputation is very important to virgo asc, it seems he's looking at me through fresh eyes now he knows I am well respected, liked and very much included by a family he has grown up with he respects a lot.

He likes the little wife/mother side to me I've only just started to show him, he was so interested in the desert conversation I was having with my best friend he even made suggestions. Guess thats a virgo asc thing.

Months ago he whispered I was the only one who was ever going to have his children when he thought I was asleep, but left my house pretty jolly quick in the morning. Is it usual for virgo asc to do something like that? Do they scare themselves if they think somethings moving too fast?

Do virgo asc slowly fall for someone, even if they've chased, pulled back then chased again? He's stopped pulling back but at the same time we are moving very slowly, making all the 'right' steps in the correct order. Is virgo asc very traditional and proper?

posted January 03, 2007 06:15 PM              

On General terms, as long as the focus is practical, and makes logical sense in a nice fashion, then virgo rising will be pleased.
Key Word: Practicality

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Virgo Rising 8'57, Sagittarius Sun/4thH 3'26, Pisces Moon/6thH 8'22

"Our passions are not too strong, they are too weak. We are far too easily pleased." - C.S. Lewis

posted January 03, 2007 06:33 PM              

um, whats the condition of his mercury, house, sign, any aspects?

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Virgo Rising 8'57, Sagittarius Sun/4thH 3'26, Pisces Moon/6thH 8'22

"Our passions are not too strong, they are too weak. We are far too easily pleased." - C.S. Lewis

posted January 03, 2007 07:44 PM            

He has always been very shy when it comes to girls apparently, we have mutual friends who've known him all his life. He has never been one to sleep around and when he likes someone he seems to assume they'd never reciprocate. He thought that about me, he had a crush on me and never even bothered to speak to me cos he thought he'd never even have a chance.

He's very shy actually, pisces sun? Of course when he's in his element he's fine.