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bo unregistered	posted January 03, 2007 12:49 PM Is he in love with me? Am I in love with him? Are we both in love? Is the attraction inevitable? Should I run away to stop all this? (He is married and has two children, I'm in a longlasting relationship.) my planet/angle/.. - aspect - his planet/angle/..: (deleted) Greetings, bo IP: Logged
Gemini Nymph unregistered	posted January 03, 2007 01:25 PM Er, are you serious? Anyhow, Having both your Suns square the others' moon, plus Saturn conjunct Moon, Saturn square Sun, Saturn opposed Chiron, Neptune opposed Sun, Venus square Chiron...I ask again, are you serious? That's all of very hard aspects to have for any relationship, and without good Sun-moon rapport between you I don't know what you're expecting. Sun and moon form the basis of any relationship, and if those are already at odds, other hard aspects, esp from Saturn or CHiron, will only make it worse. This looks like it could be a very explosive and painful relationship that will extend the damage well beyond just the two of you. And he has kids, who don't deserves to get caught up in any of that. I could tell you what I think you should do, but it's not really my business. Plus, it should be obvious what I think anyhow. IP: Logged
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 117 From: Registered: Feb 2010	posted January 03, 2007 01:39 PM Hee,hee GN: your in rare form...hee,hee.. IP: Logged
hippichick Knowflake Posts: 588 From: Registered: May 2009	posted January 03, 2007 01:50 PM Even the most awe-inspiring synastry does not matter----- Been, there, done that He is married with kids......... Nuf said IP: Logged
bo unregistered	posted January 03, 2007 03:28 PM Gemini: I'm not serious, but he's my boss, so the only way out is to resign. But it's a great job I don't want to lose, so I just need to find a healthy understanding with him. This could be tricky, maybe not. I thought Saturn and Chiron are significators of a deep karmic bond and handled wisely they could bring much stability and connection too. Hippichick: He is unhappily married and his kids suffer a great time. He and his wife can't seem to compromise. I sense that he has a loving interest in me. But I can be wrong. And I just wondered if he could be a great life partner or if it could be I'm already in love without realising it myself. My love partner and me let each other free, because we know in the end people are destined to love more than one person at the same time (not necessary sex involved). IP: Logged
sue g unregistered	posted January 03, 2007 03:35 PM Do you know how his wife feels about this...does she think it is okay for her man to love more than one person at a time? I wouldnt like it if it was my husband I try to stay open minded most of the time, but for me other women's men are a NO GO area.....whatever the state of the marriage/relationship. How would you like it if it was your man....maybe that is a good way to put all of this into perspective? IP: Logged
bo unregistered	posted January 03, 2007 04:20 PM Sue G: I don't know his wife, so I don't know how she feels, I don't know if she knows her husband could have feelings for me, and so on. I don't have the intention to show possible feelings, but I can't help it when he would sense them and he would react on them. I guess I'm more relaxed than other women when it comes to my own man. My man does attract women and he laughs and chitchats with them too. But I don't see a problem/flirt in that. I guess it's because we are both active in the business world, so we realise how important it is to have good social skills. And to talk easyily/joyfully with other people (man or woman) is only a proof of those skills. Actually I just wanted feedback about the whole of my synastry aspects. I didn't expect this would turn into a principled discussion. IP: Logged
hippichick Knowflake Posts: 588 From: Registered: May 2009	posted January 03, 2007 04:46 PM Bo Sorry you are not getting the feedback from synastry that you wanted, just gotta say this again.... BEEN THERE DONE THAT!!!!!! Had/have amazing syastry with a married man with kids, horribly unhappliy married, the both of them are, however... I believe in the SISTERHOOD and karma is real!! The sisterhood is the reason I am speaking to you of issues other than astrology and the sisterhood is why let my married friend go----after I found out he was married!!! Not only do I love him very unconditionally I love his wife and kids as well and I do not even know them--I love them for the brothers and sisters they are to me, to all of us. Ever heard the saying "did it with you, will do it to you....?" Honer is honer and if he took vows of any kind in any kind of a spiritual/religious setting, i believe those vows should be honered. If someone is unhappy he/she should make it right karmically and sprirtually before going toward another. Apologize if I seem harsh--- I will go to my grave and beyond supporing the sisterhood!!! Blessings Terri IP: Logged
sue g unregistered	posted January 03, 2007 04:50 PM Hmmm.... But I feel quite sure that it is no coincidence that you were meant to receive these replies...... All for a reason hey? Gem Nymph is a good astrologer...she used words such as painful, damaged, explosive.... I would listen to her, she has helped me in the past.....she is normally "spot on" I would consider these replies as blessings, albeit they may not be "music" to yer ears Good luck to you.... IP: Logged
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 117 From: Registered: Feb 2010	posted January 03, 2007 05:19 PM bo: You can do better, I do not know you or anything, but I think that you prolly don't have to settle for someone elses husband. Experience is a good teacher, I have never been with a married man never been interested in one..Not interested in a man with a girlfriend not interested in a man that still has feelings for an old girfriend.. You are going to do what you want to do you are a grown women and thats your business, but just remember later on when you find someone that you want to really spend your life with and this sord of thing happens to you. Just try and see things from both ends love. Don't do anything that you would not want done to you.. I inspire you and encourage you to do better.. IP: Logged
bo unregistered	posted January 04, 2007 06:07 AM Mama Mia: I'm not quite sure anymore this is an astrology forum, or a moral one. Astrology isn't about good or bad, remember (or acknowledge that). And indeed, people have free choice. So if he comes to the point telling me about his possible feelings, he will be the one to make that choice. Same thing for me, if I would come to the conclusion that I love him. Personally I think people are wrong that they think they're destined to only one person. It's a social grown disease. In fact you are destined to everyone and everybody. You live in this world and you have to learn to love it. There will always be people you love more than other ones. But in the end you love the other ones too. Sue G: No, I didn't want these replies. I added the information between brackets to describe the surrounding where the aspects are active. Gemini is the only one who answered (and stayed) on topic. And yes, saturn aspects are difficult/restricting ones, but there are also lots of promising ones (jupiter/expansion, venus, mars). I don't see a lot of explosiveness, except mars-jupiter, but mars and jupiter receive a lot of harmonious aspects too. IP: Logged
sue g unregistered	posted January 04, 2007 06:29 AM So why ask for help if you arent going to take the advice. I totally understand where you come from. In the past I have been tempted to get involved with people who may be wrong for me, and yes when I gained valuable advice I felt like opposing this too....yes I understand this. But guess what....I am SO glad now I listened to those women... My sisters....wise and knowing, for sure. It is your own path Bo.....you will do what you feel is right.... All we were trying to do is help.....really that is true... Good luck IP: Logged
bo unregistered	posted January 04, 2007 06:50 AM Dear Sue G You don't get it. I didn't ask for so called valuable advice. I asked an ASTROLOGICAL analyse of the relation between the aspects. The whole of the aspects could they stand for love. If so, I'll have to balance it with my life. People you call wrong, aren't wrong. They just use their energy opposed to yours. But that doesn't mean they use their energy badly. I don't believe in sisterhood, but in humanity. Human life is varied. You should embrace that. IP: Logged
sue g unregistered	posted January 04, 2007 07:14 AM Okay Bo I apologise if I offended you.... Maybe I wont contribute to this thread again... Sorry Wishing you luck in all you do Edit: and thanks for pointing that out to me....maybe I needed to hear these things re the should thing....I try these days to use maybe or could....should sorta sounds a bit harsh dont you think? IP: Logged
OzMeg222 Newflake Posts: 0 From: victoria, australia Registered: Aug 2009	posted January 04, 2007 07:51 AM From an astrological point of view maybe you should state the orb values of the aspects, I know the ones involving chiron and eros are invalid if over 3 degrees. It also seems like you may have accidently doubled up on your aspects in some places. For some scarily accurate input, ask william to have a look at your composite chart. He's seriously amazing, not just with composites but with natals as well and he won't pull any punches he'll tell you how it is. Thats my astrological input, you really don't wanna hear my moral opinion... IP: Logged
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 117 From: Registered: Feb 2010	posted January 04, 2007 09:46 AM Ok, I understand how you feel..and if ppl are destined to be with others and you feel that in your heart, why question it period.. As far as your synastry with him looking at it from a astrological point, with all those sqaures and stuff you all's synastry suck..Thats only from a astrological point which is what you asked for.. Take care.. IP: Logged
hippichick Knowflake Posts: 588 From: Registered: May 2009	posted January 04, 2007 09:51 AM Maybe....The difficult synastry is manifesting before it begins....... IP: Logged
Kay Libra unregistered	posted January 04, 2007 09:58 AM Yes, have William take a peek. He's very much on indeed. I was in a situation that lasted for 1.5 years and a child came of the union. I wanted to know about reconcilation and William informed me, that reconcilation was remote. That crushed me, but I thought it's probably for the best. He also told me I was holding on basically trying to make it work in so many words and the truth of the matter was that I was because family is a priority to me. But anyway, check him he's really good. Just don't expect all roses :-( IP: Logged
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009	posted January 04, 2007 10:07 AM With a double whammy sun square moon its gonna be really irritating for you guys to be around eachother after while.Trust me, I've had this just one way with people and they always get on my nerves fast. So won't ease the harsh contacts you guys have with the outer planets. IP: Logged
BlueEyes24 unregistered	posted January 04, 2007 10:31 AM Yeah, that double sun square moon looks like a real downer. Though it shows that you have a connection in some way, it can be very irritating. My friend had this just one way with her ex, and they could NEVER see eye to eye on things. I don't think there was ever a day when they wouldn't argue about something. Edit I didn't realize that there's also a double whammy of Sun square Saturn and Moon conjunct Saturn....wow.... IP: Logged

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