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Topic: Delusional in Love? Pisces?
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sthenri
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posted January 03, 2007 09:44 PM
 
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posted January 03, 2007 09:48 PM
does his rising sign opposite your venus(degree wise)?------------------
your pain is my pain, is that love? IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted January 04, 2007 06:05 AM
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mars446
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posted January 04, 2007 07:13 AM
He needs to find someone first and then he'll let u go? I don't know, but if I were u, I'd dump him in no time. He's just using u as a stepping stone. He even said that he needs to find someone better....if he doesn't find u good enough, he ain't good for u either. IP: Logged |
OzMeg222
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posted January 04, 2007 07:42 AM
Oh gosh! For a long time I thought our situations had a lot in common but now I realise they don't. My heart breaks for you natasha knowing how difficult a pisces man is to deal with in the first place without the added crap he seems to be putting on you.Do you think he may be trying to get you to move on but as you are still there he is merely using you as convenient? If that sounds harsh I truly don't mean it to be. The fact you have told each other you love other is a huge thing, I have no idea whether you are in a mess like I am (slightly more dramatic though!!!) or if he's off his head. My pisces lost the plot and has since begun chasing me in a very formal, serious, courting way since he found out with certainty (from me) about cancer-guy. Do you think if your pisces saw you actually interested in someone else it may force him to decide something? If you see other people don't hide it from him. Sorry I can't help, you sound truly frustrated and hurting. I hate that! IP: Logged |
Xena
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posted January 04, 2007 11:41 AM
Hi Natasha, Pisces can't say No. I had this trouble with a Pisces crush I had. They won't tell you in no uncertain terms to bugger off, as Aries would. Personally I think that everything woudl be a lot easier if people only had the courage to say "bugger off and leave me alone". If he won't tell you, you'll have to be the one to tell him. Tell him to bugger off and mean it. IP: Logged |
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posted January 04, 2007 12:15 PM
With those placements of yours,what did you expect from a guy like THAT??:
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Pisces Venus in Aqua/4th house? Mars in Libra/1st, Moon in Aries, Libra ascendant
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sthenri
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posted January 05, 2007 05:29 AM
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sthenri
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posted January 05, 2007 08:31 PM
Xena, we have to take it slow and taper it off for a lot of reasons, there is no other choice. I can't just tell him to bugger off due to his pride and mine and I don't want him to get mad and get self destructive and blame me again.The best way is slowly and gently with a pisces although it drives me nuts too, it's the way here. I just need to get more support for it through other people and go slow. I am not as available to him as I once was, and I do not chase him down when he is not available. I don't need him. Now it looks to others as if we are fighting and that makes him sad but it's the only way. Natasha
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posted January 13, 2007 09:33 AM
Pisces Sun with Venus Aqua can set up a harsh mind boggling passive aggressiveness. Pull up to you--with emotions flowing afast and furious is PISCES SUN. Retreat and demand physical and mental space is PISCES and feel misunderstood and alone is Pisces MEETS AQUA VENUS which is entertain me with your ingenuity orginality and creativity but please do not get too close and for god sake do not need me in any mooshy langorous way.I know too people with heavy Aqua/P{isces mixtures and I spend alot of time watching how they relate to me and others and the tide and tempo are almost clodkwork--it's in and out. They're in -- then they're out. Warm and needy then cold and abrupt. I find that ignoring them gives the partner time to cool off from the frustration this causes and the Pisces Aqua person then has to get in there and approach. Laso Pisces/Aqua will let someone do all the work so if you're fiery and giving you'll be spinnjung yourself out of control while they're standing there watching amused, then annoyed, then longign, then amused, then annoyed... But I do think it is paradoxically a very tough combo becuase the emotional needs, the needs inside that person tend to be quite great and quite complex but the message that goes out can be quite detached and abrupt. IP: Logged |
Xena
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posted January 13, 2007 12:45 PM
Take your point, Natasha. Hmmm, I know with a Pisces it can be difficult - worked very well with me and a Libra abt. a week ago - God, I'm glad I've got the little b*stard out of my system. Ahhh...it feels good...those two little words..."BUGGER OFF!!" Love it. Hugs, Xena IP: Logged |
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