posted January 06, 2007 12:49 AM              

Anyhow a friend got me his birth data sans an exact time. Turns out he's a Scorp-Gem.

But get this:

- My Venus-Saturn conjunction is conjunct his Saturn and opposes his Venus and Mercury; likewise, his Saturn opposes my Neptune-Jupiter conjunction - obvious aesthetical and philosophical differences, and that certainly explains why I feel like I'm suffocating whenever he opens his mouth. And why I feel such a compulsion to hammer down on him. I'm not denying that I'm being judgemental.

- His Mars squares my Venus-Saturn conjunctions, and square my Jupiter-Neptune conjunction as well - no wonder why I find him so repulsive. I think this is largely responsible for why, when in his presence, I can't stop looking for flaws in him.

- His Sun squares my Mars - yeah, I'd love to just sock him in the mouth, at least once. Yes, he makes me feel like I should compete with him...and pummel him into the dust in the process. I never said I was egoless, y'know.

- His Mercury inconjunct my Sun - god, I so find him intellectually irksome, as well as intellectually inadequate

- His moon squares my moon - I'm just never gonna like him, am I?

We have almost no good synastry contacts with major planets. All we have is:

- his Venus-Mercy conjunct my Jupiter-Neptune, but I think that's overpowered by those hard Saturn-venus cross aspects

posted January 06, 2007 01:21 AM            

And, yes, he irks the living **** out of me.

posted January 06, 2007 02:26 AM              

The worst boss (well she wasnt THE boss, she must have been second in command in the department because she was head once upon a time) I have this huge feeling she was an alpha female Leo. She was big, short red hair, looked like a dyke. She would never say good morning, hello, how are you. She wouldnt even look at me when passing by her in the hall and wouldnt acknowledge my presence even if we were the only two people in teh room. Of her class she said, a few times actually, that she was like Castro, the dictator of her class and her students were her subjects. Only what she says goes. In her class no one talked, made a peep or leaved their seat without asking first. She loved talking about herself, giving people advice and telling them what to do and how to do it, even if her way wasnt the best or most efficient way. She wouldnt acknowledge peoples ideas even if they had better ones.

posted January 06, 2007 02:48 AM              

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You are not a human being in search of a spiritual experience. You are a
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posted January 06, 2007 02:54 AM              

My sympathies to the both of you neverthless.

posted January 06, 2007 04:29 AM              

we know what we know because we know it.

Your Virgo pluto-asc tends to rip into and disect the hell out of people doesn't it?

i wouldn't be surprised if this guy came down with a horrible cold tonight. you're energy is that strong GN.

posted January 06, 2007 05:02 AM              

Having said that he does sound like an annoying little bugger doesnt he....maybe he is lonely?

posted January 06, 2007 07:03 AM              

I loathe this one guy on myspace named "Whateva: PUBLISHED AUTHOR". I want to kill him. OH MY GOD are you a published author? REEEEAAAALLLYYY? Ohhhh, can I shag you?!?!... (/end sarcasm) LOL!

I was in a group with him and his posts would ineviably go like this: "Blah, blah, blah. My publisher said...blah, blah, blah...when I published my whatever...blah, blah, blah...I'll have to ask my PUBLISHER..."

LMAO...everytime. I wanted to scream: WE KNOW! YOU HAVE A PUBLISHER!!! Don't get me wrong, I am not in the least envious or whatever, I just cannot stand blowhards...

*sigh* I loathe him..

posted January 06, 2007 10:51 AM            

My best friend and I have our moons exactly square.

You have to look at the whole chart
to see what the real difficulty is.

posted January 06, 2007 12:28 PM              

I have to ask myself if it's the chicken and egg thing. Do we loath a person "irrationally" at first sight and then find everythng they say/do irritating or is it something about their conduct we instantly hate and that's where it develops from.
A few times it happened to me that I actually loathed a person at first sight withut knowing anything about them and later it turned out they were dreadful people. I'm not talking about mild dislike here or being annoyed with them. I'm talking about a gut turning feeling.
Sometimes I just don't like a person's FACE and it has nothing to do with esthetics. It can be someone ugly, average or beautiful. I happen to think that for some people, their (bad) nature/inner core simply shows through and at least to me it's clear.

posted January 06, 2007 02:42 PM            

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My best friend and I have our moons exactly square.

You have to look at the whole chart
to see what the real difficulty is.

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Actually, I've had that feeling of annoyance with other people whose moons exactly squared mine....not just my sister.

posted January 06, 2007 03:03 PM              

I'm not nearly as perturbed about him now as I was last night, immediately upon getting back from that function and having my guy goad me on the way home. It's worst immediately after contact, and then the next day, like this morning, I'm like "I can't believe I let him get to me that much."

I thought the synastry stuff is interesting and enlighting. I often strongly dislike those strong Plutonian feelings of repulsion I sometimes get, because they DO feel irrational, and being so airy, I am very uncomfortable with that. I don't claim it's all *his* fault - I'm a good deal to blame for my own reactions, it's quite true. He is what he is, and that I may not like him really doesn't amount to much. LOL

Duality - I actually didn't loathe him at first sight. I've done that before, and I was very open to this guy at first (although I admit, there was something off-putting about his physical appearence). But it wasn't long before he grew too sleazy for me to stomach. Now, I just have a hair-trigger reaction to him when I see him, and yeah, it's irrational and that only makes it worse for someone with a Virgo ASC and 4 personal planets in air signs!!!

ScorpSagSag - I don't know how he feels about me. Honestly, I don't care. I'm that ego-centric in my reaction to him, and I'm that flippant to him in general. It's all about my repulsion and mine alone!! LOL. However, to ponder that intriguing possibility, I don't think he gets a "kick" out of my reaction, since he doesn't seem to target me. He's just "around" and we bump into each other. I have seen him target other people though, people who's gladly flatter him, and he seems to get a buzz off of that. I'm not one of those people, so apparently, I'm not of much use to him. I wouldn't be surprise if he was completely oblivious to how I felt.

Sue - to me, someone with a 1H Pluto, "loathing" is a little mild. It's when I start talking about giving people the Pluto Glare of Death when it's *strong.* All I can says is thankfully, I have a wacky peregrine and wildly inconstant Aqua Mars, so when I do loath someone, it usually fades out pretty fast unless there's something that churns it up again (like running into that guy again).

lovely - "Your Virgo pluto-asc tends to rip into and disect the hell out of people doesn't it?" In word, **YES**. And there's no denying it. As my friends like to say of me: I don't suffer fools gladly - if anything, I suffer them spitefully. I think this is amped up by my Pluto opposed Pisce moon. My moon's very open, forgiving, quick to turn a blind eye to a lot of things. But when I feel someone's exploited my Piscean naivete and openness, especially through insincerity (the one thing that Piscean the saddest, and Pluto the maddest), my Pluto turns on its heels in full force.

Daydreamer - it's very possible to have a few hard aspects in a relationship or frriendship, if there's other things to balance them out and keep the energy this hard apsects create for being too tense, grating or sour. I just though this was a good example of when there's overwhelming hard aspects in synsatry, especially when person has a lot of hard aspects natally. In this case, however, both us have a lot of hard aspects natally.

posted January 06, 2007 03:39 PM              

So they would trine...is that right?

posted January 06, 2007 03:48 PM            

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Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer

posted January 06, 2007 04:41 PM              

Dont worry girl I aint after you

I just always felt an ease with certain people and you are one of em....thats all!!

posted January 06, 2007 10:30 PM            

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My best friend and I also have moons that are exactly squared also and obviously we get along very well. I don't have the birthdate of anyone who really annoys me to see where the problem might be.

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