posted January 06, 2007 07:50 PM            

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Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer

posted January 06, 2007 09:04 PM            

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Venus Opposed or Square Saturn

Saturn has many lessons to teach Venus, and Venus won’t be anxious to learn them. It will occasionally be a struggle, but it’s your karmic destiny (every Saturn aspect is), so you may as well make the best of it. Venus will endure some unhappy experiences in this relationship, especially when Saturn blames Venus for problems they encounter together. This is decidedly unfair. But there’s nothing fair about karmic lessons unless you happen to know the primordial cause of them, which requires total recall of many “yesterdays”. If you’re able to remember the original reincarnational misbehavior that started it all, the balancing of the karmic scales is easier to bear. Should you be fortunate enough to posess this rare gift of total recall of one or more past lives, I congratulate you. Should you not posess it, I sympathize with you.

Check this long string of adjectives. No use avoiding them! Saturn may not always, but periodically behave toward Venus in a disciplinary, limiting, selfish, condemning, resentful, critical and disapproving manner. Quite naturally, it’s difficult at such times for Venus to give affection to Saturn, except when it’s inspired by anxiety or fear. Venus could feel frustrated and dominated, or just plain unhappy. It should make the burden lighter if we remind Venus that Saturn’s sometimes admittedly harsh lessons are rooted in Saturn’s unexpressed but very real concern and caring, an urge to guide a “lost soul” protectively. Believe it or not, this is the way Saturn demonstrates genuine love – in a sort of parent/child pattern. And so, Venus, tell yourself that you are loved beneath the occasional cold front of Saturn’s personality. Does that comfort you? It doesn’t? Well, then try to recall what you did eons ago to Saturn to deserve this karma. Because you did do something, or it wouldn’t be happening. The plus side is that Saturn will probably never leave you but will hang around to provide you with a large measure of stability and emotional security. And this you very much need, right? Right. You agree. That’s good. Let’s quit while we’re ahead.

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posted January 06, 2007 10:15 PM              

I have this aspect with one of my close friends...I have known her since middle school (about 9 years)...I certainly don't hate her and the last time I checked, she certainly doesn't hate me (I'm Saturn and she's Venus).

I also, have this aspect with a guy I ummm let's say...I really like, heh. Again, I'm Saturn and he is Venus. Saturn (and Cappy) are very prominent in my chart. So, personally for me it is quite simple and natural to take on the more 'parental' role in any of my relationships... It also helps if the Saturn aspect is reciprocated (so that one person in the relationship doesn't always feel like the 'disciplinary' figure). Example, my saturn is square his venus and in turn, his saturn is trine my sun.

John Lennon had the square aspect with Yoko Ono (Venus square Saturn). Simply put, I choose to believe that, 'love conquers all'. All in all, I have had 'wonderful synastry' with people and in the end; it just did not work out (even without the 'hard' saturn aspects).

I just think it depends on the person...and each individuals natal chart. Some, people may act more 'negatively' to this aspect than others (may find it to be more restrictive). As for me, it just doesn't do much... Keep in mind that, in both cases I have been the 'saturn' individual; so I really don't know how it would be for me the other way around.

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'Virgo Ascendant, Libra Moon, Aries Sun'

posted January 06, 2007 11:13 PM            

However, I won't dismiss it as doomed. Sometimes it serves as a longevity factor in relationships. I heard it was a very karmic aspect anyways.

posted January 13, 2007 03:55 PM              

We had another "red flag" aspect too, but forget what it is.

posted January 15, 2007 07:16 PM            

That said, I think my ex with Saturn conjunct my sun was probably more oppressive.