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Topic: Question about the Composite 1st house
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alanabelle86
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From: Somewhere over the rainbow
Registered: May 2009
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posted January 10, 2007 10:51 AM
  
My boyfriend and I have a composite chart with a super heavy 1st house.. I heard this could mean the relationship is all about appearances and has no depth but I've been with him for over 2 years, and it's the most intense relationship of my life... there's so much depth between us it's literally draining and I often have to be able to detach myself from him so I don't become too worked up and too "lost" in emotions and passion and all kinds of other stuff....Here's the chart:
What do you guys think? And what are your experiences if you've had similar placements?
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Gemini Nymph
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posted January 10, 2007 11:36 AM
Well your natal charts would shed more light into this. Your composite only says that as a couple, your relationship's focus will be about indentity, indiviudality and putting yourselves "out there." This indicate to some degree a "public" relationship, or better or worse. Other around you may feel energized by your presence as a couple, while others may find you pushy, even obnoxious. There may also be a tendency to seek out approval from others, and/or react intensely when you don't get that approval.How you two cope with that depends on how you charts relate to this composite indiviudally. If either or both of you have likewise a large number of planets in the personal house (1H-4H), then that may indicate your approach tot his relationship is mostly self-serving. But if your planets's house placement are more evenly distributed, then you can likely find a balance.
BTW - I *love* that Monroe quote in your sig. 
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william
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posted January 10, 2007 01:17 PM
the emphacize on the 1 st does not just mean appearance.this also indicates that this relationship is shaping how your interact with reality and your future.the feeling of drain really has more to do with pluto on the ascendant cusp.the is a deep connection to the unconscious unrecognizes ,this can lead to a drain.psychologically,the pluto position can indicate a great deal on selfishness is in this relationship.the unconscious nature of pluto indicates that neither of you may see this but with your feelings of being drained,i would think there is extreme possesiveness and jealously on his part.
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