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sthenri
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posted January 21, 2007 06:32 PM
 
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libraschoice7
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posted January 21, 2007 06:57 PM
Is there a way you can go over that superiorvisers head, because he really needs to stay impartial about the situation, instead of just letting it escalate...someone else around to talk to around there? ------------------
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posted January 21, 2007 07:07 PM
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posted January 21, 2007 07:43 PM
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She flirts with anyone who is talking to me and steps in front of me and sometimes on my foot to get attention.
I would seriously slap her...i have no tolerance for such people NONE and you shouldnt have to deal with her. IF she steps ur foot again id bring it to her attention. You can embarass her that should drive it home. quote:
Worse, she recently took a project away from me because the manager who gave it to me was embarassed by her actions, crying, begging, pleading.
OH MY GOD! You have GOT to stand up to her. She was crying and pleading but he already gave it to you. I think you should have come to him and said "its unprofessional the way she behaves and you have already started the assignment and its senseless to suddenly give it to her" quote:
She tells my friends I am dating a married man, and spend all my money on stupid stuff, also that I am practically a hooker and that I am jealous of her beauty.
Dude why are u still friends with this b*tch? Drop her like a bad habbit and forget about her. Dont lend her any money (i know it could be tough and ud feel bad but i had a friend who leeched off like that and as a rising Libra i couldnt really tell her off so i would just say i dont have any for the time) but to a chick like that straight up tell her she makes her own...and why is she telling ur friends that? Better yet why do ur friends know her? And why did they not tell her to shove it? IF someone came up to me and said my friend is jealous of their looks id be like "there certainly isnt much to be jealous of" quote:
My boss seems embarassed to discipline her either because of her enormous assets and because he doesn't want a lawsuit.
WHat lawsuit if u have emails as proof? quote:
My boss seems embarassed to discipline her either because of her enormous assets and because he doesn't want a lawsuit.
She seems SUPERRRRRRRRRRRRR insecure and quite jealous of you. quote:
There are a couple of men she works with who have asked me out but that's normal, she acts as if it's a terrible thing but she does it too
Good for her tell her to screw herself and do your thing. quote:
I am starting to lose control and I told her supervisor that I would lose control and knock out her teeth soon.Any ideas?
Hehe the above statement seems like a good idea  quote:
I am worried she is sleeping with everyone at this point and I can't compete with that. Plus I can't afford to buy people anything.
Why do u feel u should compete? quote:
I will have to rally my friends but how do I do this without ratting her out (and making her boyfriend whoever that is mad) and making myself look jealous?
Ur Cancer moon is too nice...as a Scorpio moon i would do just that. IP: Logged |
hippichick
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posted January 21, 2007 07:45 PM
The fish chick is probably insecure, thus attention wh$#e, uncomfortable in her scales and she obviously needs big time ego boosts (shame to us Fish Folks but oh well.....)You could beat her at her own game and give her what she craves, all-the-while, knowing it is just her ego you are dealing with, but that is VERY hard to do, esp. with women, I tend to knock egos down whenever a big one comes my way. I bet, though if you gave her what she really wanted, she would be putty in your hands. Simple Piscean rule of thumb: give them love and they blossem..... (as you grind your teeth!  ) Good Luck Terri  IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
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posted January 21, 2007 08:31 PM
Ewwww, she sounds like an airhead. I knew one pisces girl who *thought* that every guy wanted her when they really just wanted a$$ from her. She's sooooo easy and not even attractive at all. In most "romantic" situations she's always the "chick on the side" and it's just sad. I don't have a birth time for her or an exact birthdate....all I remember is that her birthday is at the very beginning of March (like the 4th or something).Its too bad that you have to work with this woman Natasha, because my advice would've been to not cross paths with her...but that's obviously impossible. As a Cancer I'd say manipulate her to have her the palm of her hand.......very easy to do to an unevolved fish. IP: Logged |
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posted January 21, 2007 08:47 PM
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posted January 21, 2007 09:21 PM
Women are hormonal. I know many who only have male friends because of it.------------------
I know you see me looking at you and you already know......I wanna love you, you already know. *----------* Gemini/Cancer cusp
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posted January 21, 2007 10:07 PM
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I have tried giving her love and talked to her at home this week but she kept asking about my dating life and said I shouldn't date in the office because I wouldn't be able to take the rejection when it ended. That got on my nerves and I explained my career was first. She's fine for a while and then her boss went on vacation.I am considering calling in sick until he comes back.
WHY fight the damn b*!!! Give her own medicine straight to her. Ask the guy for lunch if she tries to paw him again kindly and politely point out that you were mid sentence and shes being rude that should shut her up for a bit. Yea like Sweet Stars said i have mostly male friends cuz some women tick me off and its hard to find someone i trust ------------------
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posted January 21, 2007 10:19 PM
Has anyone else noticed March Pisces women tend to fit the "needy want a man at any cost" sterotype?IP: Logged |
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posted January 21, 2007 10:22 PM
Yes and they can be very gullible, from what I have noticed.
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I know you see me looking at you and you already know......I wanna love you, you already know.
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hippichick
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posted January 21, 2007 10:23 PM
NatashaSince you know how old she is, have you looked at her planetary placements? Those of us who dabble in the art, know people better than most and know how to handle them... I have tried to put myself in her slu()y place, get into her head so to speak, relate fish to fish to her, but am having prbs. Prb since I a am exhausted from working 4 12's in a row and also cause this Fish chick is nothing like her, never has been. Will contemplate some more as I drift into a blissfull sleep tonight~~~ Terri IP: Logged |
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posted January 21, 2007 10:23 PM
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Has anyone else noticed March Pisces women tend to fit the "needy want a man at any cost" sterotype?
Um, *NO*. None of my Pisces friends (all born in March) fit that stereotype.
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posted January 21, 2007 10:25 PM
pearlized...I am March 10 and I HATE neediness in anyone, man or woman, especially....God I HATE it!!!!!! But, that is because, I have Mars, Merc and Jupiter on top of eachother in Aqua opposed to Uranus~~~Thank god for that. This Fish chick will go to her grave singing Helen Reddy...I Am Woman Hear Me Roar!!!! Too independent for neediness and needing my space like I do..... NO such nonsense! T IP: Logged |
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posted January 21, 2007 10:42 PM
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I have Mars, Merc and Jupiter on top of eachother in Aqua
Yikes.
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I know you see me looking at you and you already know......I wanna love you, you already know. *----------* Gemini/Cancer cusp
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posted January 21, 2007 11:24 PM
Hippi,
i have Aqu in mars, mer, and my asc so i understand. You have the same birthday as my bestfriend. In the past she would do the "i need attention now" routine with men who could care less. So glad she got married and calmed down. Im a Pisces too.IP: Logged |
MysticMelody
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posted January 22, 2007 01:13 AM
You walk up to her and say quietly in a tone of voice she can't ignore:"If you continue to mess with my job or my life Then you better hope
your boyfriend
trusts you Because I will tell him EVERYTHING that has been going on here." Then you walk away and you DON'T SAY ONE WORD MORE NO MATTER HOW TEMPTING. She will try to engage you in conversation, saying stupid things like Are you threatening me? How do I mess with your job/life? What are you gonna tell him, I do nothing wrong. ETC. Just IGNORE it all and REVEAL NOTHING. Go on with your life and NEVER SPEAK TO HER AGAIN OTHER THAN IN A PROFESSION MANNER or in a polite office co-worker forced to exist in the same space sort of way. No matter how many times she attempts to BAIT YOU into continuing interacting with her, WALK AWAY. This will be a great time of change for her and things might get ugly for a while, but the dust WILL settle.
Just keep your integrity during this difficult time.
Do not allow her to incite angry emotions in you that cause you to lash out at your co-workers or bosses. Continue to keep A WRITTEN RECORD of her harassment and if you are forced into a conversation about her with a superior, calmly let them know that you have been keeping a record of her harassing behavior. Pray about this. Ask for guidance and assistance and clarity of thought. Ask for what you are meant to learn from this challenge and what path you are meant to take next.
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posted January 22, 2007 06:20 AM
Natasha
You shouldn't pay so much attention to her. I don't understand, why you do work for her and pay for her. Stop it!
If you always pay attention to such persons, you will never achieve your aims.
Best wishes,
Jan
P.S. Could you tell her , what you think, in joke form? Just like in comedies! 
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posted January 22, 2007 07:32 AM
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libraschoice7
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posted January 22, 2007 05:38 PM
Does any other woman in that place have problems with her also? It will be hard for that superviser to overlook other people being disrupted by her, power in groups...because that is after all a work place.------------------
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posted January 22, 2007 06:15 PM
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posted January 22, 2007 06:50 PM
It depends on whether you like the drama.
I don't do drama. I have Cap moon and I will give a few airy Libran joking warnings and then will give a final firm Capricorn earth sign warning and then I will cut the person out of my life either completely or for an extended period of time. If I need to talk to the boss or call the police or whatever is required, I have no hesitation once the final warning has been ignored.
You can send a rat all the love and light and happy thoughts you want, but if your Jesus vibe isn't cutting it, then at some point you need to kick the vermin off your leg before it chews through.What the hell does your style have to do with it? Geez. The only thing that is going to change other's opinions of you permanently is your behavior, not whether you look as hot as she does or not. If you keep participating in the gossip game and trying to get one up on her with the guys in the office you will end up looking like a fool. If you firmly warn her and then go back to focusing on your work and keep a record of concrete instances when she does not assist with work projects, you will come out looking mature and dependable and classy (as a Taurus woman can easily do) and she will end up causing her own Piscean downfall.
Be calm and patient.
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posted January 22, 2007 10:53 PM
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My Pisces b/f says he's helping me look but he spends more time socializing. Recently this pisces chick said she's going to a shopping trip to Bangkok and he said he would go with her-just for fun.
Why would ur bf go with HER? quote:
That makes me look jealous and controlling of him, when I want it to be his choice.
Wattt??? im a moon in Scorpio and im VERY jealous and controlling and i would have him killed for just JOKING like that. Thats insane....hes ur bf....why the heck would he think its ever ok to go somewhere with another woman? Am i totally out of line here? Because im really sorry if i am but it baffles me. quote:
I feel like my heart is torn out because of this and I can't express it anywhere. Plus I know I look like a fool if I come off like a jealous controlling fool.
Ayyyy you are soooo nice! There should be more people like you really, im too vindicative for my good. Sigh. You should seriously tell ur bf he's out of line. And i get exactly how you feel such girls irk me. quote:
I am trying to get out of here back to NYC where there are normal people, not skanky chicks of 33 acting 5 mentally who rake in twice as much money as I do just to shake their **** in my face everyday
Sadly NYC doesnt have a shortage of those... quote:
I suppose that's why they call it an earth sign because it's barren and cold and nobody wants to pay attention to it. They just want to lean or sit on it.
Awww sweety, Taurus women are some of the best in the world! You guys are the sweetest and you just need the right people to pay attention to you! *BIG HUGE HUG* Feel better cuz we appreciate you here thats for sure  ------------------
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posted January 23, 2007 12:50 PM
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Thats insane....hes ur bf....why the heck would he think its ever ok to go somewhere with another woman?
Yeah, fo' real. I wanna know the same thing....
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