posted January 27, 2007 01:36 AM              

they get scared tht they revealed their heart too much, feel a little vulnerable and stupid, and back off. (i am only guessing here, but hey i am half a cancerian, i hv cancer asc). they kinda need to be reassured that u r as much into them as they r into you. BUT, that doesn't mean u pounce on them. it means u agree to join them in their slow, enchanting dance

i think u r doing just fine....go with the flow...just do what your heart tells u to. u will be fine

posted January 27, 2007 02:17 PM              

cancerians are gentle souls. they dont want to hurt anybody. they do this only bcoz they feel too vulnerable themselves. once he gets to see the real you, believe me he will stop this dance. he only needs to know that he can trust you.

if i remember correctly, this one has a cancer stellium with sun/moon and 2 more planets thr. connect with him. tell him how you 'feel'. dont put forward logic and hard facts. it cud be that it is your rational side that is scaring him. making him think that it is only his heart that is on the line. so just go with the flow, show him how u feel. tell him how wonderful u think he is, and that is why u have decided to trust him and tell him the way u feel about him.

posted January 27, 2007 02:41 PM              

Read in between the lines there - he's not sure if you're worth it. After everything you've already done. He's still not sure. That means, nothing you've done so far is amounted up to much to him. He'll be nice, and say nice things - but if he was really into this, you'd be getting a better return rate. It seems he thinks he can still get something he actually wants out of you, so he'll likely contact you in few days, after you've made a big fuss and that has momentarily made him feel better and wanted. But don't think it's going to change anything. He probably in very comfortable with you stressing and using so much energy, while all he has to do is sit back and occasionally drip you a line saying how much he misses you.

posted January 27, 2007 04:33 PM            

Cancer guys are a trip. Good luck with yours. I can tell you that if they like you, they try to be standoffish so they don't seem to clingy. That's my experience anyway. Sometimes they overdo it.

posted January 28, 2007 01:35 AM              

hmmm...opposites do attract....u cud be his 'rock' for him, and he cud be your soothing breeze or gentle rain

posted January 28, 2007 01:38 AM              

They are not the manipulative type at all.

You should take him out to dinner one day.

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posted January 28, 2007 10:24 AM            

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its quite simple really...its called the cancer back and forth dance. one step forward, two steps backwards, one step forward, two steps backwards...and then when he is finally sure...one big leap towards the goal

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posted January 29, 2007 04:21 AM              

I am not a fan of my fellow sun sign men.
Cancerians are too insecure and vulnerable, always being little boys who want momma to soothe their feelings, needing mothering, comforting and so on. Our moods are totally dependent on the lunar phase, and the Moon transit or phase occuring to Natal Sun and Natal Moon.

I think you should totally ignore him and play hard to get, there is no alternative.
He needs to convince himself that he cannot get a better girl than you, only then he will come for you. Cancerians invented the "Bird in hand worth two in the Bush" proverb.

posted January 31, 2007 01:08 PM              

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