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Topic: Should Virgo be scared of Cancer?
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susie3g
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posted January 31, 2007 10:52 AM
 
I have a repetitive thing going for Cancers, not on purpose. My baby's daddy, my ex-husband, and my last ex-live-in... they were all Cancers. I don't know their rising or moon signs, but none of them acted at all like you would expect a Cancer to be. Now... I've met another Cancer, one who acts the part... very loyal, family-oriented, etc. I've asked everyone I know to please tell me something bad about him because I'm really scared to get involved with another Cancer. They only have good things to say. He seems perfect in every aspect. Should I be scared or am I just being silly? Please help. I am very new to astrology and not well informed.
My info:
Sun sign -Virgo
Rising sign -Virgo
Moon sign - Pisces
Mercury -Virgo
Venus -Leo
Mars -Virgo
Jupiter - Pisces
Saturn -Cancer
Uranus -Libra
Neptune -Sagittarius
Pluto -Libra
N. Node -Sagittarius
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jupitersgirl
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posted January 31, 2007 10:55 AM
Welcome!
The birthcharts make all the difference, not every cancer is the same. Maybe you should learn the birth time of this new cancer and someone can check the synastry or composite. (I think you shouldn't be afraid.)IP: Logged |
susie3g
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posted January 31, 2007 11:02 AM
I can barely look at him...have no idea the color of his eyes even.. get so nervous it literally makes me sick. I don't know anyone who would know his time of birth other than him, and I'm too scared to ask..lol.IP: Logged |
jupitersgirl
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posted January 31, 2007 11:04 AM
Susie, it sounds like you're in love and if I were you I wouldn't hesitate to start something with him at all. Go for it!!!IP: Logged |
artgirl
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posted January 31, 2007 11:09 AM
girl welcome to the club
i am a virgo and have fallen for a cancer guy and from what i can tell up to now he is scared of me and not the other way around!!!! so considering that we are strong and can take a lot of emtional **** which a lot of other people can't i don't think you should be scared of him or anything else. though my experince with this guy is very confusing for me since i am used to having my way around and its not happening now so can be frustrating but you have had the cancer experince in the past from all the chart and research i have read and done its supposed to be a good match. who knows maybe 3rd will be a charm for you. if you are that attracted to him go for it. why not?IP: Logged |
artgirl
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posted January 31, 2007 11:11 AM
girl welcome to the club
i am a virgo and have fallen for a cancer guy and from what i can tell up to now he is scared of me and not the other way around!!!! so considering that we are strong and can take a lot of emtional **** which a lot of other people can't i don't think you should be scared of him or anything else. though my experince with this guy is very confusing for me since i am used to having my way around and its not happening now so can be frustrating but you have had the cancer experince in the past from all the chart and research i have read and done its supposed to be a good match. who knows maybe 3rd will be a charm for you. if you are that attracted to him go for it. why not?IP: Logged |
Seeing Stars 7.21
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posted January 31, 2007 11:12 AM
I dont think you should be afraid... its generally cancers getting hurt by virgo's so he should be afraid of you.. noone is perfect so he might seem that way, but he has some flaw. There are just people that are more closer to perfect then others.. so maybe he is really a good catch. dont be so intimidated. Astrologically speaking he should be afraid and intimidated by a virgo. Cancer
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artgirl
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posted January 31, 2007 11:16 AM
KEvin
U are so right
my cancer acts like he'll be set on fire if he comes near me i mean the guy is so scared of falling for me before he is ready as he says that he hardly sees me!!!!!! that is how scary i am to him. so yes cancer is scared of virgo. don't know why i like him so much. guess i am not used to this kind of treatment.IP: Logged |
susie3g
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posted January 31, 2007 11:20 AM
Yesssss.... the only bad thing my friends could come up with is that he's terribly shy and he collects alot of stuff. The other Cancers I was with were very outgoing (not typical at all)... I never had to make the first move. I emailed this guy a week ago saying... I wasn't avoiding him because I didn't like him, but because I think I might. He STILL hasn't sent anything back. And if he's not interested, that's ok I guess. But not knowing is killing me. We are both too scared of each other that nothing will ever happen. Isn't that sad?
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artgirl
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posted January 31, 2007 11:26 AM
u should not have waited a whole week
well its not too late now i mean send another message or sms and just ask him out or something and see how that goes i mean u can't sit around forever waiting for him to reply i mean i am kind of doing the same but we are in the realshionship already but i am still waiting around!!!!!! lol
but u have to find out if he likes u or not so go for it don't wait anymoreIP: Logged |
susie3g
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posted January 31, 2007 11:29 AM
I can't! I find it impossible to make eye contact with him. We've only said hello, nothing else. My best friend and her husband live with him and I'm over there alot, but I just can't think of what to say. I just freeze up.IP: Logged |
artgirl
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posted January 31, 2007 11:33 AM
well ok easy way out have your friend or her husband ask him outright whether he likes u or not? i mean that is the easiest way out if you can;t seem to do it have them ask. at least you'll be out of limbo you are in now. for me i could not wait that long.IP: Logged |
libraschoice7
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posted January 31, 2007 12:22 PM
That is true Cancer is hurt easier than the Virgo(I should know with all my Cancer placements). So no Virgo should not be afraid of the loving and caring that Cancer has to offer. Take it one step at a time...your Cancer could be ether real moody or real nurturing  ------------------
Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer I "FEEL" therefor I am IP: Logged |
SilverFairy
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posted January 31, 2007 12:31 PM
I'm a cancer married to a virgo man with 5/6 of his planets in virgo... He and i work well together, i believe above us being in a intimate relationship, we have a solid friendship.. we understand each other... I myself can be sort of "cold" or distant in relationships.. so it's helpful.. we both acknowledge these issue's and give each other space.. I swear sometimes you'd think he was the clingy cancer lol Anyway We've known each other for 11yrs... It can work! IP: Logged |
Sweet Stars
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posted January 31, 2007 12:49 PM
Don't be to critical and naggy towards the Cancer, show affection and all should go well.
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I know you see me looking at you and you already know......I wanna love you, you already know. *----------* Gemini/Cancer cusp
Cancer Ascendant
Mercury Gemini
Taurus Moon *29
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NAM
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posted January 31, 2007 01:59 PM
I think Cancer should be scare of Virgo.
had a little run around with Virgo man once, he was too critical, in the end he said he wanted to stay away from me because I was a much better person than he was
go figure....
I think I just like to scare men  IP: Logged |
Stargazer
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posted January 31, 2007 02:07 PM
I married 2 Cancers... The first one....Well, he was the typical Mama's boy. He was also a liar and a cheat..very short-lived..I was very young. Too young! Rebelling against my parents and all.. i can't blame it all on him. But he was still a liar and a cheat! #2 I was with a long time. Our moons conjunct in Aries and he was almost a Leo with a B-day of 7-22 29' 58 degrees of Cancer. He had a bad relationship with his mother. This spilled out in all kinds of ways... insecurity, fear of being alone or abandoned...
As long as I was June Cleaver by day... very affectionate and made him feel like he was my everything all the time and then a tramp in bed.. all the time... everything was peachy....
However here in the real world of a Virgo..
the need to spend time alone.. be with my friends or be interested in something that didn't involve him was hard on him.
He would become jealous and go into punish-you-mode.
On the other hand... Virgo's show they care by their actions .. the little stuff we do... the attention to detail.. and remembering likes and dislikes...This was a good thing... he needed that.. it made him feel wanted...
The problem came about when he didn't appreciate it anymore.... I think Virgo and Cancer is a good match...
It depends greatly on if the Virgo is willing to accept the clinging nature.. and if the Cancer can accept the independent side of Virgo. Hope that helps IP: Logged |
Atlenta
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posted February 01, 2007 07:46 AM
Just an add, even though I'm none of both signs - but my moon is in virgo so I might be able to understand a little.Virgo and cancer I feel could be frustrating, because the basic nature of earth and water are quite different. Cancer especially needs and desires emotional contact, while virgo prefers mental connection. With effort, this can work though, but it is frustrating.
I would guess that both parties would be unfulfilled, and you would in turn feel pretty drained after all this. However, you have a water moon, and you may be able to understand this, and adapt.
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susie3g
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posted February 01, 2007 11:16 AM
Stargazer, the other Cancers I was with were liars and cheaters also... usually with my best friends...ugh! They had no nurturing bones in their bodies. This is why I am so afraid. And Atlenta, I do understand.. for I want the emotional connection, too, probably more so than the mental connection. Thank everyone for the info. It's really appreciated.IP: Logged |
susie3g
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posted February 01, 2007 11:16 AM
Stargazer, the other Cancers I was with were liars and cheaters also... usually with my best friends...ugh! They had no nurturing bones in their bodies. This is why I am so afraid. And Atlenta, I do understand.. for I want the emotional connection, too, probably more so than the mental connection. Thank everyone for the info. It's really appreciated.IP: Logged |
Stargazer
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posted February 01, 2007 11:46 AM
Susie My second husband never cheated on me. I truly believe that. I think its only fair to say that you can find the cheaters and liars in any sign. They are out there.
You say that he seems perfect and that everyone has only good things to say...
Thats a good start. Trust yourself and "believe" it when he shows you things about himself ~ good and bad.
Maybe you had to kiss some frogs to find your prince...
A friend on this board gave me a quote that has stuck with me.... "Good judgement comes from experience ~ Experience comes from bad judgement" 
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tbone
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posted February 01, 2007 09:38 PM
 Wow Susie; I am a Cancerian female- I have not known many Cancer men, but i can tell you the Cancer females (including myself)
Are NOT Cheaters or Liars!!
I am very nurturing, caring, generous-with people i love. I have been hurt in relationships with Virgos as well. Just be kewl and let the cards fall where they may.
If it was meant to be, it will be. CHeers! IP: Logged |
NAM
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posted February 01, 2007 11:16 PM
^ yes, i agree with the statement above, I am a true Cancer and there is no way in hell i would either lie to anyone or cheat on anyone.
If anything I get in trouble for being too honest with my feelings But, the male cancer I don't know since my only experience has been with a guy that cheated on his girlfriend... damn!
And i still beleive it when he used to tell me that he has never done that before.
We both stay away from each other now, it is just too dangerous when we see each other. IP: Logged |
susie3g
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posted February 02, 2007 01:17 PM
Lol... I'm in his bedroom. There are socks everywhere! I think I said that my other Cancers were not typical.
P.S. What would he do if I picked his socks up for him?IP: Logged |
thedividedsky
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posted February 02, 2007 01:19 PM
OMG i had a very similar experience.....It took everything in my power not to clean something at "his" place.......and then in the end, I did it anyway, but i did a crappy job, so i comprimised with myself!! You poor thing! IP: Logged |
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