posted August 18, 2007 10:24 PM              

nmg412, no name needs to be mentioned when you're focusing so strongly on the subject.

Diandra23, that's great news!!! I'm glad to hear it!

misterhank, if you'd like, I can ask how to bring more love into your life, but the cards won't answer what your relationships will be like.

MiaMammy08, I'll try and get to your questions soon.

jupitersgirl, I've missed you, too. I've been keeping busy trying to stay out of trouble How are you doing? I'm still waiting to hear how your relationship is doing. *taps foot impatiently*

Hi, miss taurus, nice to meet you.

posted August 18, 2007 10:49 PM              

if you wouldnt mind, I have a question about a guy Ive liked for some time now. Will anything romantic happen with this Gem?

posted August 19, 2007 04:57 AM              

If you do not have a love relationship now, it's important that, even when you are flirting, you present yourself to others in a fairly consistent manner. Make sure that your love interest is not two-faced or superficial. Avoid seeming impatient or desperate.

You may find that you are interested in more than one person now, even if you are in a committed relationship. It's also possible that more than one person is interested in you. There may be quite a difference in your age, station in life, or educational background and that of your new partner(s).

You have to spend a lot of time now relating to many people at the same time, either in person or via telephone, fax, computer, or otherwise. Jealousy may arise because you are flirting or not home or paying a lot of attention to others around you.

Problems may also arise because you, your partner, or both of you have been acting like two different people. This makes trust difficult if not impossible and gives rise to fear and suspicion. It is important that you both feel like you know and trust each other.

If you both trust and respect each other and there are still difficulties between you, the problem may be that you are not communicating well. Both of you must listen as if the other might be saying something important. Avoid the tendency to think about what you are going to say next when your partner is talking. Keep talking to each other even if you get into an argument.

This is a time when reading, writing, learning, and growing must be an important part of any relationship you are involved in. Taking courses or developing your skills can improve your relationship.

2) "Tell me what I need to know now about my attitude towards love and relationships for my highest good and greatest joy", and I got~Aries.

If you don't have a partner now, one may be coming into the picture very soon. The delay may be the result of issues surrounding honesty. Either you or your past partners were too honest or not honest enough. Or the relationships of those you care about could have been hurt or destroyed by dishonesty.

Don't let your fears protect you to the point that you live your life alone, unless that is really what you want to do. All your fears and those of your partners must be faced, understood, and dealt with now or they will work to undermine your relationships. Give voice to all the original ideas and feelings you both have been keeping inside for so long. Even if you end up butting heads a bit. It's time to get everything out in the open. Things are going to start happening a lot faster than you thought they would and anything other than honesty and directness is just not going to work.

It's time for you to bring the theme of "pioneering" to your relationships. Be the first to make your move and don't be afraid. If you're in a committed relationship, it's time to break new ground and take it to the next level. If you are looking for a relationship, you must go looking for it and in places where you have never been before. It may even be a great time to go on a trip that you might normally consider too lacking in creature comforts for you to enjoy. It's time to test and prove yourself and your relationship in a new way.

posted August 19, 2007 05:21 AM              

At this time, your relationships are a reflection of your emotional intelligence. How you and your partner are able to feel and express your emotions will determine how well things are going for you.

If you don't have a relationship now, the reason may be related to emotional upheavals and mood swings. You could be so emotionally demonstrative and moody that you make being with you for long periods of time a time extremely challenging. You could be repelled by anyone who displayed the slightest hint of being too emotional or moody. Or you could be attracted only to moody, brooding people whose emotional intelligence level makes a relationship a nightmare.

Whatever the problem you have with relationships now, it's more than likely that its origin can be found in your experience of your mother or the person who acted as your mother. If you were fortunate enough to have someone like that in your childhood. It's important that you get in touch with any emotional pain that you may have experienced, holding it up to your present difficulties with relationships and seeing where the links are. Then you must forgive your mother as the adult child she was, imagining her having you to care for and how stressful that must have been.

posted August 19, 2007 05:39 AM              

The time for fun and games, and --above all--romance is now. No matter how busy your are, you have to make time in your schedule for romantic interludes. A relationship that allows you to experience the romantic thrill of first meeting will become strengthened and very rewarding. A relationship where there is no romance is in danger of ending.

If you don't have a relationship, you soon will. The Fifth House is the house of romance, so have fun and you will find love. Sometimes you have to take a chance on the fact that it's possible to find love and this is one of those times.

Relationships with children will also be very good now. If you do share in the raising of children they will be a source of pride and joy to you both.

Problems in existing relationships may be the result of not making time for fun and romance, or poor results from investments and calculated risks. There's also the possibility that children may be the problem, or your views on children may conflict, especially about the conditions that have to be present before children can be brought into the world and reared properly.

posted August 19, 2007 05:44 AM              

I'm so nervous!!! I haven't liked having my picture taken since I was 7 yrs old. The pics stopped being cute. I'm such a critical Scorp, especially when it comes to myself.

posted August 19, 2007 02:02 PM              

May I ask another question?

My question is..

posted August 19, 2007 05:50 PM            

Could you please tell me what I need to know about friendships & romantic relationships please?

posted August 20, 2007 05:54 PM              

I will deeply appreciate if you can do one for me.

Tell me what I need to know about starting any new Love/Relationships for my highest
good and greatest joy.

posted August 21, 2007 03:50 AM              

what do i need to know about the future of me and___?

posted August 21, 2007 05:31 PM              

Please, please, please read the first post. I tell all the info about the book and even put up some example questions.You can even look through the other posts and see how I phrased questions and get an idea of what to ask and how.

Let me know. I'll be lurking like the serpent I am.

posted August 21, 2007 05:39 PM              

If you do not have a relationship now, you may find yourself drawn to a person as if you had a spell cast over you or you may be the one who becomes the seducer. Don't do anything that goes against your better judgment to get what yo think you desire or you will regret it later.

Problems in your relationships now may be the result of you, your partner (if you have one), or both of you judging each other too much or having confused sexual attractions for love. On rare occasions, drawing this card when asking about love and relationships is an indication that the concepts of sexual pleasure, the exchange of power, and the control of one partner by another can all be involved in your relationship.

Thinking that sex is a sin, except for procreation, leads to all kinds of problems. The desire for sexual pleasure is as natural as our other bodily functions. However, the life-altering consequences of creating a child and the life-threatening consequences of sexually transmitted diseases require that sex be treated with the utmost respect and care. Within a committed relationship, sexual passion can strengthen love and trust.

Look within and find the origin of any confusion you and your partner may have about sex and sexuality. When you find it, recreate your relationship so that the passion you now seek through the sexual intensity and excitement that others may misunderstand will last beyond the bedroom and extend into every aspect of your lives together. If you love and cherish each other for every aspect of your being, and not just as sexual playthings, you will discover many joyous aspects of life that you would otherwise never experience.

With great love comes the fear of losing it. Many people do. This is the price of love.

posted August 21, 2007 06:32 PM              

May I ask another question? =D

posted August 21, 2007 06:50 PM              

If you don't have a partner now, one may be coming into the picture very soon. The delay may be a result of issues surrounding honesty. either you or your past partners were too honest or not honest enough. Or the relationships of those you care about could have been hurt or destroyed by dishonesty.

Don't let your fears protect you to the point that you live your life alone, unless that's what you really want to do. All your fears and those of your partners must be faced, understood, and dealt with now or they will work to undermine your relationships. Give voice to all the original ideas and feelings you both have been keeping inside for so long. Even if you end up butting heads a bit, it's time to get everything out in the open. Things are going to start happening a lot faster than you thought they would and anything other than honesty and directness is just not going to work.

It is time for you to bring the theme of "pioneering" to your relationships. Be the first to make your move and don't be afraid. If you are in a committed relationship, it is time to break new ground and take it to the next level. If you're looking for a relationship, you must go looking for it and in places where you have never been before. It may even be a great time to go on a trip that you might normally consider too lacking in creature comforts for you to enjoy. It's time to test and prove yourself and your relationship. in a new way.

Any complexity in your relationships will not fare well now. It's time to simplify your love life and all of your relationships.

posted August 21, 2007 07:02 PM            

Sorry about the vague question
I hope this ones Ok

"Tell me what I need to know about
finding a loving relationship for my highest
good and greatest joy"

Thanks