posted February 12, 2007 01:45 PM            

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Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer

posted February 12, 2007 01:51 PM              

Seriously, what can of worms are you trying to open here?

I don't really have any non-sexual fetishes. I used to be really into socks, but I'm kind of over that. Now my fetish is going barefoot all the time. I guesss a Pisces moon/Neptune thing.

I have fetish for men's hands. I'm a Gem, with Gem Venus, and Scorpio Jupiter in the 3rd, so it figures.

Another thing - it's not really a fetish but I'm very fussy about it: men's hair. What color it is, how long it is, and if balding, where it's balding. I do like to touch a guy's hair a lot, if we're involved. Again - the tactile thing is very Gem. But the hair fixation, that's Aries, and my 8th is ruled by Aries.

posted February 12, 2007 08:17 PM            

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Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer

posted February 15, 2007 05:46 AM              

Sexual fetishes....yeah them too...but this is far too a purer place to discuss such perversions....I save that for the sex forums haha...

posted February 15, 2007 05:48 AM              

re the foot fetish thing....Ive met quite a few guys who are Pisces and into being dominated and have foot fetishes etc....

posted February 15, 2007 11:51 AM            

I have 3 tattoos, want another, 5 ear piercings and one belly button.

Absolutely LOVE tattooed men, long hair, piercings----tho, those are usually the troublesome ones for me!

I have a former friend who was a tattoo freak--he had Mars conj Pluto and Uranus in Virgo with a Taurus sun---

posted February 15, 2007 12:21 PM              

I hate tats too. I think that's more of an Aqua thing (Aqua mars, 1H Uranus) - a resentment of something that binding, committal. LOL. Most Aquas I knw hate tats, and a couple I have know hwo had them deeply regretting getting them. One Aqua guy I know who got tons of tats when he was young to be different (in his day tats weren't mainstream like they are now) loathes his tats, and goes around preaching to young people that they shouldn't get tats. LOL.

I have a big things for a guy's "natural form" - I don't like tats, piercings, burns, bulky muscles, abnormally low body fat (espcially to get that "cut" look or the six pack abs), or other kinds of body alterations. I like lithe, atheletic bodies, even on older men - ESPECIALLY on older men. God, nothing's hotter to me than a guy over 45 and who's in shape. Blame that on my Gem Venus conj Saturn, Cap ruling 5th huose, my Aqua Mars and all the rest of Uranianness.

I defintiely have a fetish for older guys. LOL.

posted February 15, 2007 12:38 PM              

Mutable signs mostly do not want to have tattoos, because they will afraid to get bored.

Mars Uranus aspects, 5th house also gives extraordinary styles.

posted February 15, 2007 01:52 PM              

Heheh, been doing alot of sulking in forums lately, gah! I wanna be part of the team

I am not opposed to tattoos, my dad was covered in 'em, but he would vehemently oppose any of us (his kids) acquiring any, didn't stop my sister, however me being the eldest, and of course, best behaved got none. I fantasized about having one on my foot, however people say it really hurts in the bony areas OUCH, and I'm a huge sook.

Though, does being very attracted to men with well formed shapely shoulders and arms count as a fetish?

posted February 15, 2007 04:14 PM            

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Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer

posted February 16, 2007 12:30 AM              

My placements:
Mars in Cancer, 1st house
Uranus in Sagittarius in 6th house and sextiles my Jupiter in Aqua (8th house)
Pluto in Scorpio, 5th house conjunct my Moon.

As for guys..I hate long hair on them!! Unless they can have it braided, then Im all for it. I hate it when guys shave their legs, not that I'd like it all hairy but it's just a weird image to see men's legs all silky smooth...

posted February 16, 2007 01:42 AM              

Maybe fetishes are related to which planets are in the 8th house, how those planets are aspected, and also what aspects are being made to the natal Pluto? And then possibly hard aspects to the natal Mars and Venus?

posted February 16, 2007 01:57 AM              

As for Pluto - it's in hard aspect to my Jupiter (in Aries) in the 5th and Saturn in the 7th. I'm not seeing how Jupiter plays into things, but yes I can see how Pluto aspecting Saturn plays a part. Oh, no wait a minute, I can see it a little bit.

Pluto is also in harmonious aspect to my Venus in Gemini (yep, I definitely a "hands" thing going on), and to my Neptune (big on sexual fantasy).

As for Scorpio, I have Uranus and moon there and my moon trines both Mars and Saturn.

posted February 16, 2007 05:58 AM            

I don't have a single Scorpio or 8H placement, and if I use the placidus system I don't even have a house cusp there!! With equal system my 5H cusp falls in scorpio.
I have my mars conjunct my sun in gem, there might be something there, with lots of masculine energy. I do find myself attracted to aries influenced men..
The only sort of "reason" I can se for this in my chart is my Cap DC.
These things I mentioned are a BIG part of me, actually defining my whole character, so "blaming" all this on one lousy cap DC placement doesn't seem right. The DC can't be that influental.. But what do I know..

posted February 16, 2007 08:42 AM              

i have just discovered that the guy i am dating is into spanking. (cancer sun/sag moon/cancer asc/gem venus/leo mars)

I have never encountered this and almost jumped 10 feet high when he started the spanking thing. not rough or anything but he seemed so mild mannered and shy and you would never think that he would do something like this.

posted February 16, 2007 08:50 AM              

My psychoanalytical mind has it down as a fear of pain. Like I am so not afraid to die but I am scared of the hurting!

Sun Cancer 8th
Moon Cappie 2nd
Sag asc
Gemini Venus & Merc
Mars Libra

posted February 16, 2007 09:41 AM            

But no, it's not really common to have this fetish, but that is also a difficult question, since mostly everyone play around with a swat now and then, who here can say that they haven't playfully slapped someones butt or been slapped, and liked it to some degree, or at least not disliked it? Where does the line go from normal playing around and over to a fetish?

As for the stuff said about fear of pain, I'd like to say that I'm terrified of pain, I'm the absolute biggest whimp in the dentist office, or at the doctors, terrified about anything possibly painful, same with the death thing, death doesn't scare me in it self, but I'm afraid of the possible pain... But a spanking does not scare me in the same way, even though it's undoubtedly painful.. But I don't know why that is..

*edited to add* Oh, I almost forgot, one will almost certainly get aroused, or at least show and feel physical arousal when spanked, simply because a lot of the blood in the body will collect at the area being spanked, and what lies in very close proximity to the buttocks? Genitals.. And what happens when genitals gets filled with blood? Physical readying for sex, men have erections and women get wet.. But at a certain point, if it goes that far, the pain will be more prominent, and the physical arousal will disappear. But none if this is likely to FEEL sexual at any point, if you're not mentally aroused...