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Lucia23
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posted February 17, 2007 02:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi--I'm a Leo (Cap rising, Cancer moon) who's fallen hard for a Scorpio man (unfortunately, I don't know his birthdate or time)...I think he might be interested in me, too, but I'm having trouble telling.

What are some ways to tell if a Scorpio man is sexually/ romantically interested in you? I've read that they go for what they want directly that way, but I get the feeling that this guy might be being shy, or waiting to be sure I'm interested. I know he likes and respects me...he's invited me to group events and drinks afterwards with friends...he seems eager to talk to me...but he never, ever touches me! Once we sat on a bench and he sat freakishly far away from me.

I don't want to be too Leonine and arrogant here, but I'm not usually the kind of woman men want to avoid touching! And, when I'm very attracted to someone, it's always been mutual. But then again, I've always gone for Geminis and Libras, with maybe the odd Aries here or there.

He's sweet and brilliant and I am intensely attracted to him. Lately, we've gotten closer as friends, and I'd like to make a move, but I don't want to scare him off. Any suggestions?

I've been reading these forums for a while but I just recently registered...you guys are great!
Lucia

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maroon_flower
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posted February 17, 2007 05:45 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Lucia.. wow..ur first post! Welcome then!

Hmm.. I reckon the best way to go is to just be your adorable warm loving self. Your scorpio man would have you figured out anyway.. Just enjoy ur times/conversations etc together.. scorpios are rarely shy.. but we may hold back (appear reserved) when we're truly mesmerized/intrigued by someone.. like contemplating a unique puzzle without letting the physical intimacy cloud our senses.

But i do reckon he must obviously enjoy ur company if he takes the time to invite you/spend time with you and introduce u to his friends. Just be your self Lucia.. and enjoy the attention. Sometimes a man holds back when he's with someone he really really likes.

Alexa
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Heart--Shaped Cross
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posted February 17, 2007 09:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heart--Shaped Cross     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome, Lucia!

Honestly, I think it could be anything.

But Scorpios don't usually rush into things.

Did you ever try talking to him about Astrology?
It's a good ice-breaker
(and it separates the open from the close-minded).
Scorpios especially would be curious.
And even more so if you told him about himself (about Scorpios).
You might want to leave out the bit where it says,
"insatiable appetite for sexual and/or spiritual gratification".



hsc
Sun/Venus/Uranus in Scorpio
Capricorn Ascendant
Moon Aquarius 1st house
Jupiter in Leo 7th house

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sue g
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posted February 18, 2007 08:42 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I only experienced one Scorpio man in the past...

Very short lived...

Very intense sexual stuff.....

But me having a heavily laden Scorpio chart, maybe it would have been tooo much of a good thing...

The only advice I would give to you is, try and retain an air of mystery and a little detachment....

Use some allure and dont come on too strong too quickly...Scorpios can like this....

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Alterna
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posted February 19, 2007 09:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alterna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ooo! If he's paying any sort of attention to you, you're on the right track. Eager to talk to you-- that's even better!

I'm currently dating a Scorpio man, and when we were first getting to know each other I was the one who first talked to him, and then every instance after that he would come find and talk to me and invite me out with his friends.

My Scorpio man never touched me either at first, before they touch I think they want to make sure that you're theirs--- They'll try to give you "hints", hints you don't even know exist. I remember one conversation, I can't remember what I said, something about me being slow (Taurus sun here) but it ended with him saying, "I suppose I should be more clear in the future."

I was confused for a while with whether or not he returned my feelings, but I realized that he didn't pay much attention to other women, and he spent a lot of his studying time to spend time with me (he's real picky with his studies!)

Anyway, they will not make their feelings clear until they know for sure that you're in their grasp.

How my Scorpio man found out for sure that I was romantically interested in him, is that I fell asleep on his shoulder one time, and then he let my head rest on his chest instead, saying that his shoulder isn't comfortable. After that day, he would greet me by patting me on the head and putting his arm around me.

Like what maroon_flower said, I think just be your "adorable warm loving self", be honest, and make a slight move! I think you'll be okay. =)

I don't know if that applies to all Scorpios... my Scorpio is Scorp/Sag/Cap ... everyone else he's thinks rock solid, but he needs a lot of warmth and affection.

I hope my rambling helps in some way... I can only give my experiences because I'm no good with interpretations.

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