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Topic: Scorpio men
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pinkitaries2
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posted February 24, 2007 04:31 PM
 
I am aries/ taurus cusp...april 20th 1983...and I have been dealing with my daughters scorpio father (nov 8th 1979) on and off for 3 yrs...we definitely but heads at times...but he comes and goes...but we have a 8 month old daughter and he just refuses to deal...I just can't understand him at times...it's like he won't grow up...he is not involved in her life because he says he needs to take care of himself first...granted we moved to another state, but just recently...when we were in the same state he wasn't involved then either...now he won't even talk to me and won't answer my calls...ugh!! I just feel really frustrated...I want to move on...but it's hard we have a kid together...and I still love his crazy butt. The thing I hate is he comes back right when I will be moving on...I need advice from other scorps or others who get them...does he care?...he says he does...but does he??? should i just move on and let him come to me...I have that aries who wants to fix things here and now...and he won't let me right now...IP: Logged |
MysticMelody
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posted February 26, 2007 12:24 AM
Who cares if he cares? He is only concerned with taking care of himself when he should be concerned about taking care of his child... and for it to be logical and productive for you to continue to be concerned about him, he should be concerned about you. He's a big boy and he doesn't need you to figure him out or fix things.
You have to take of yourself, just the same as he needs to take care of himself, but now you have double duty taking care of your child because he isn't doing his part. You can't waste any of your energy worrying or wondering about him. If you can't stop, then get angry for a while until you can think without pain. Do not continue to allow him to hurt you, which will hurt your child more as well.
If he is going to figure things out, he will do it on his own. You can say a prayer for him, but don't forget to say one for yourself and your child also.
Don't go by who you want him to be, or by his words...
Go by his ACTIONS.
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seveneieghtorange
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posted February 27, 2007 11:05 PM
Oh dear. Sounds like a very un-evolved Scorpio man...and those are the worst kind, right next to un-evolved Pisces men (and believe me, i would know...heaven help anyone who has to deal with them...).
So basically he's your baby's daddy but he's slacking off on all his responsibility? Considering that he is the father of your child and the fact that he is old enough for anyone to think he has his sh*t together...yet he obviously doesnt want anything to do with all this...He really should have known better to get involved with you and have a kid before realizing that he needs to "take care of himself"...trouble....
I hope everything turns out well...Dont waste anymore energy who wont even take care of you and your kid...even if the fact that he is the dad. No one deserves that kind of treatment...IP: Logged | |
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