posted March 01, 2007 07:53 PM              

anyone on here have any thoughts?

I've compared out charts and from what i can see it's not too bad, but I'm new at this.

posted March 01, 2007 08:22 PM            

I'm very attracted to them, but they frustrate the living he1l out of me. You'll never figure the guy out, so it's rather pointless to try. They are sexy, mysterious, mellow, calm, and generally adorable. They are also non-confrontational to a fault, flighty, unreliable, and sometimes deceptive...even to themselves.

*Sigh* This all depends on your own level of patience. Pisces takes a LOT of patience. You have to be understanding, and you can't place a lot of demands on them. Responsibility is not their strong suit. They also need their space and alone time like the rest of us need water to survive.

posted March 01, 2007 08:36 PM              

Thanks so much CrankyCap

I don't think I did this right but if someone has a better way, please let me know

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posted March 02, 2007 09:01 AM            

JG has a point with the Cap moon, but I really think the hot/cold thing is a pure piscean trait. I think they ALL have it, regardless of moon sign. The Cap moon will make him slightly less demonstrative and more aloof, but sometimes he'll be all over you, and other times he'll be in his own little world acting as if you're not even there. That's Pisces.

The reason I was wondering if you had much fire, is that I think that may be the reason you're frustrated. I'm with you in that I can be very patient, and I need plenty of alone time myself (pisces moon), but it was the unreliability and general wishy-washiness that had me climbing walls.

The fire signs are honest, straight-forward, and rather uncomplicated. I have a good dose of fire myself, and I can completely relate to that. Pisces beats about the bush a lot, and often won't give a straight answer, and "I'll call you," can mean later today, tomorrow, or next week. I don't care if someone needs their space for a few days, but at least TELL me that that's what you're doing, so I'm not worried that you got hit by a bus or something.

I think fiery people may interpret this as "deception" or at least highly confusing even if the pisces doesn't mean for it to be. Deception and emotional manipulation are not innate traits to fire people, and I think it makes fishes more difficult to understand. At least that's how I see it...

If you can get past this hot/cold confusion, you do have some nice synastry aspects going on, but definitely some challenges too. You've got double mars/venus squares (by sign, not degree) which will add spark and sexual passion to the relationship, but they can also contribute to misunderstandings, so may want to be aware of that as well.

posted March 03, 2007 09:21 AM              

I'm pretty good at that.

But I think your right that if people aren't upfront it seems like deception.

anyone see any bad karma in these charts

posted March 03, 2007 12:32 PM            

The one thing that is annoying about them is they don't like confrontation and so when you do something that might bother them or hurt them, many times they will not let you know about it, they will just keep it inside and avoid it. They think it is not worth fighting over and think that it may not happen again. Then, after they have been pushed too far, they snap and they completely baffle you with their anger, with you feeling like you didn't really know what you did wrong. They know this too, but it is just in their nature.

posted March 05, 2007 09:13 PM              

Like I said he "SEEMS" sincere but my gut is telling me otherwise , that was why I wanted to know if anyone saw any karma stuff in these charts.

Thanks to everyone who replied

posted March 05, 2007 09:52 PM              

at the same time, I feel so connected on a level I've never experienced. I'm not in love yet but it's just such a strong connection.

posted March 05, 2007 10:18 PM            

These days I don't care if I don't hear from him for a couple of weeks, its not that he's forgotten about me or replaced me (which used to be my biggest fear) he's just off in his own world.
Of course he has a pisces ascendant too so that just adds extra pisces to him!

It took him a very long time to admit to himself he had feelings for me, then longer to admit it to me. But when he did tell me he did it with such surety and conviction I was really thrown. I had seen he was fighting with himself before admitting his feelings to himself and almost lost hope so many times but something wouldn't let me truly let him go. I've never outright told him I have feelings for him, but he knows. Well I hope so anyway!

We're still not an official 'couple' things are so complicated, but we are seeing one another exclusively (Its not a 'rule' though, we just don't see other people). I like the situation we are in (I didn't used to, I was always worried if he wasn't my 'boyfriend' then he was waiting for a better offer) things are developing slowly but I like that. Especially since my heart is in so deep with him I'd hate to rush anything and have it go pear shaped.

I think it takes him a long time to truly trust someone (I know it does for me) and that includes simply trusting someone enough to be yourself.

I believe that to truly, unselfishly love someone you have to accept them exactly the way they are. My pisces taught me this. I have learned to accept all aspects of him and I appreciate so much the way he accepts me for who I am- good and bad. I lose the plot with him every now and again for some silly, insecure reason and he simply ignores my rantings knowing I'll be back to myself shortly.

posted March 05, 2007 10:27 PM              

wow - that's exactly how i feel

and I do beleive he accepts me for who I am

but like I said my gut is telling me something else

thanks for the input

posted March 06, 2007 06:49 AM              

I think i will just leave him be until he comes to me - I think he is in a big funk right now

posted March 06, 2007 07:10 AM              

thanks

posted March 06, 2007 07:10 AM            

That was until I'd had enough of it and pulled so far away I'm surprised he could find me. It didn't take long for him to come running, absence makes the heart grow fonder/you don't know what you've got til its gone/blah blah blah. He's pulled up his socks a bit, but he is still wonderfully maddeningly HIM and I wouldn't want him any other way.

posted March 06, 2007 07:12 AM              

thanks

he's been so moody lately I've just stepped back and let him be