posted March 03, 2007 11:34 PM            

This is my advice to you and trust me, I know how hard it is to actually be detached when you are anything but, but please try, for your sake and dignity and for hooking your Aqua, this is the way to go.

Draw a line in the sand. Tell him you love him and think he's a great guy and you want to be HIS FRIEND, but he doesn't know what he wants and right now, you guys are better off just being FRIENDS. And be that. Be his GREAT FRIEND. Be the greatest FRIEND he ever had. Let him be free as a bird, but don't let him have his cake and eat it too. Eff that!!! You deserve better.

Don't ever underestimate how much we Aquarians value our friends and friendship. I love my friends so much and I would do anything for them and those few that have been my true friend through thick and thin over many years, I EXALT THEM beyond anything you can imagine. I could kiss their feet I love them so much. Being a great friend is truly the way to an Aquarian's heart.

The worst thing you can do to an Aqua is crowd them, be needy, pushy, whiny, over- emotional or pressure them into a relationship in any way shape or form. You have to leave them to be as unfettered as possible. And we the greatest friend they ever had. If you want to capture an Aquarian's heart, the truest, most altruistic friendship is the only way... and unfortunately, most water signs are too subjective and emotional for that. Not that they are not capable of true friendship, but when a water sign is in love, it's hard for them to be detached when their "friend" may be romancing someone else or when their "friend" is simply being elusive and they water sign person is deeply in love.

But please, whatever you do darling, DO NOT let him have his cake and eat it too and take advantage of your feelings for him.

posted March 04, 2007 11:36 AM            

being a cancer myself ,my experiencs have taught me one lesson , air signs ain't really meant for us .

but life doesn't have rules .

what i know and understand of aquas , they are pretty emotional people buti dont know why they dont want to show it or even acknowledge it at times .
and we being the cardinal signs , need double assurances when in love , the kind that a scorp might give .

being with an aqua , one rule that you will have to adher to is , never ever think he is all yours . NEVER !
and believe me , i dont think they can be as committed as we would like them to be .

its not that they are not truthful or honest , they ofcourse are , infact the best among the air people but its about the way we see committment and the way they see it .

my basic friend circle consists of air and water people , majorly .
and i have always found a readinness and liking for my quirkyness and impulsiveness among aquas .

great as friends but i dont think we are cut out for them and viceversa .

be detached , i know its tough but you will have to learn this . i did and i am quite comfortable .

apart from this rlation , i would advice you to learn a bit of aloofness . that helps .

best of luck!

posted March 04, 2007 08:48 PM              

I don't want to hurt your feelings, because I have a tendency to be blunt.

posted March 06, 2007 05:10 AM            

I don't know how close you guys are or how comfortable you are expressing your feelings, but I'll tell you what I know as an Aquarian and with the few Aqua guys I've been good friends with... I know they have a bad rap, but I haven't personally known a bad Aquarian... I can see how a water or earth influenced gal could get hurt and played with, but for the most part Aquarians are honest and straight forward... but just REALLY hard to tie down. From what I've seen, they won't lie and commit to you and then cheat on you. They won't tell you they love you and you're the only one for them and then have a million other chicks on the side. But it's just hard to get them to give up their freedom.

OK... sorry... sidetracked... I was gonna say... depending on how far along your friendship is and what you guys are comfortable expressing (don't ever force anything)... the greatest thing you can say to an Aquarian is that you have a strong feeling of deep platonic love. I love you, but I don't want anything from you. It's with absolutely no strings attached, you're my great friend and I am so glad I know you, please don't take this in the wrong way you silly Aqua, you are just a really great person and I have so much affection for you. You're my cherished and dearest friend.

But pleeaaase... don't say anything like that unless the moment is right and it's totally sincere... I have felt that way before, I said it and it was rcieved in the exact way that I meant it. But I'm an Aquarian and so was the guy. HE WAS THRILLED TO BITS!!! Unfortunately, it had the bad reaction of him deciding that I am the one for him, rotfl... but then he got over it (we were like 20 year old party kids.. I was like... noooo dude!!! go and sow your royal oats and sh*t, what are you talking about?). Our love and logic and friendship is totally compartmentalized... yet... melded into one and interchangeable, kind of like parts of a machine. For a Cancerians I don't think Love and Logic are even in the same hemispheres! LOL! And, you know... that has it's pluses too. Sometimes I wish I could do away with all this objectivity and coolness, strange to say... but sometimes people misunderstand and think I don't care and sometimes it seems to romantic to be swept away in those watery depths, you know? All that feeling and sensitivity. Anyway...

Hey, look... with my Uranian Pisces... I was always afraid of putting a foot wrong. I was always afraid that maybe I would be too cool and he would find someone else. I was afraid of returning his feelings because he had a tendency of getting freaked out... but then he might freak out if I don't respond...I couldn't win! You know what... in the end... whatever will be will be. You can agonize over this day and night (and I did)... but in the end... if you guys are supposed to be together, then it will be. The Pisces, we are not for this lifetime, is what I've decided. If the Aqua gets someone else pregnant, then that's his destiny, you have to let it go. If he's meant to be yours, you'll realize it by being his friend.

Please, don't ever underestimate how much Aquarians value friendship and how much we value platonic love, and ultimately, that's the only way to an Aquarian's heart. You will never be the love of an Aquarian's life without also being his or her most cherished friend.

I really know how hard it is to not obsess about this and just let things be and work out for themselves, but if there's anything you can keep busy with, work, friends... and leave the outcome of this to the universe... that's how you will have the best outcome.

Just be his friend and leave the rest to the universe