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Topic: Why I am I so stuck on them.
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awatson4
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posted March 11, 2007 07:48 PM
 
I have a hard time figuring out what this guy feels about me. For some reason, I am completely infatuated with him, and I have NO clue why. The relationship is more frustrating than anything because I am infatuated unwillingly it seems.
I feel like a complete loser, and the thing about it is that I just don;t get him.So could someone tell me why I am infatuated, and what he may think/feel about me?
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CoralFrequency
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posted March 11, 2007 08:10 PM
If you were to be friends, (if you were of the same gender for instance, and not sexually attracted) - it would look great.You have friendship aspects with Jupiter mutually conjunct NN - that's amazing for good fun and genuine affection/love of life.
You have a lot of good will towards each other and a willingness to go out and do things together. This is amplified by the fact that his Jupiter is also conjunct your Sun (again, amazing for friendship).. and your Venus is ON your own Jupiter so 'sort of' conjunct his NN. You have some nice Uranus trines as well coming from your Uranus. Like I said, if you were just friends you'd be fine. Now the negative part comes in with the two main oppositions (probably why you feel un-liked).. Venus opposite his Pluto.. PLUS his Saturn conjunct your Moon and opposite his own Sun/Mercury conjunction. These two aspects together scream trouble for YOUR Venus and your Moon. This will more than likely not be a healthy relationship for you on a romantic and sexual level and you will always feel sort of manipulated/controlled and maybe feel as though he is being cold or rigid towards you. I would suggest to keep it friendly and try to keep your distance romantically. It just doesn't seem good for you. IP: Logged |
awatson4
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posted March 11, 2007 09:14 PM
Well, I figured it wasn't good for me. I am constantly fustrated my him. I feel like he is stifling my expression of self, yet I love being around him.But how do you think he views the relationship or just me? Because I have verbalized to him that I did feel kind of blocked by him on some level. I just want to know if trying to know him is a waste of my time. IP: Logged |
CoralFrequency
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posted March 12, 2007 02:44 AM
On the bright side (your positive aspects), he’d view it something like: “she’s a fun person.. great to be around, very witty and attractive as well.”On the down side it’d sound more like: “she’s overly emotional. Gets hurt unnecessarily.. doesn’t do what I expect her to do.. isn’t the way I want her to be. I’ll *make* her be the way I want her to be” or “she’s attractive but I find this frustrating. I don’t like being attracted to her so I’ll sabotage her” The absolute best case scenario, if he is spiritually mature would be for him to become extra protective of you. The absolute worst case scenario would be for him to hurt you intentionally because he uncompromisingly wants to mold you into his idea of what you should be. Anyways, you *know* this guy.. I don’t. I’m just going on the way the aspects seem to me.. so it’s up to you. Do what you feel is right! IP: Logged |
awatson4
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posted March 12, 2007 04:37 AM
yea, i know. it's just I find this relationship super fustrating, but it has no longevity, which I am totally fine with. I just was going back in forth about the some things. I do feel protected in his company, but...it is complex sometimes for who knows why.
Probably because i am an overanalyzer.IP: Logged | |
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