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Topic: 12th House In Synastry
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DayDreamer unregistered
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posted March 12, 2007 03:33 PM
Do we have any Lindalanders in a relationship with someone who's personal planets fall in your 12th house, or vise versa? Would you say it brings more confusion or more of an intuitive/psychic connection between the two of you? What would having your partners Sun and Venus in your 12th house be like or mean? IP: Logged |
Belage Knowflake Posts: 435 From: California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 13, 2007 12:47 AM
In my personal experience, when someone has planet(s) in my 12th house, those planets tend to drive me crazy. I find these planets hard to understand and relate to. I find them unsettling. Conversely, I have dated people with whom I had planets in their 12th house, and I always noticed how those planets drove them crazy. Because the 12th house symbolizes our undoing, I wouldn't want to date someone who has personal love planets like Venus or moon in my 12th house or vice versa. Or powerful and controlling planets like Pluto or Saturn. Other planets would be tolerable, even if they drove me crazy. IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 13, 2007 09:06 AM
Come to think of it, alot of people I've had great mistrust for had their suns or something more personal in my 12th house.IP: Logged |
girlloveboy unregistered
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posted March 13, 2007 09:54 AM
I experienced how is when sby's venus-mars conjunction is falling in my 12th house.... and it really drove me crazy.(and still ) I feel like my deep feelings for him are just above of me, out of my controll, and ya, soo deep. The other thing i heard and also feel is like i should make it up to him for sth, maybe for what i missed or did wrong in our previous lives... it seems impossible to understand these feelings.IP: Logged |
shirty unregistered
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posted March 13, 2007 10:37 AM
Thanks for bringing this up!I have a sort of addiction to people's planets falling in my 12th house. My 12th house is in Cancer, and partly in Leo. The most common Moon and Ascendant sign among those close to me is Cancer. The majority of the men I've dated are Leos, falling in my 12th house. My experience with 12th house in synastry is an incredibly intuitive connection with the person. However, as has been mentioned in this thread, these people drive me absolutely nuts. Sometimes in a good way, other times not so good. I'm really not sure how to handle the energy yet. IP: Logged |
annaf Knowflake Posts: 25 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted March 13, 2007 10:47 AM
same experience here with 12th house overlay. Someone's moon and mars in my 12th house - neither understand his feelings nor his actions. depth of my feelings for this person I cant really understand nor control. Also, on the one hand mistrust for them, on the other hand I cant help but open up Would be also interesting to hear people's experience who happen to have the planetary person. Do you also feel the depth of feeling, the intuitive link and/or mistrust for the 12th house person? IP: Logged |
teaologist unregistered
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posted March 13, 2007 11:10 AM
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Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 13, 2007 12:08 PM
quote: Having someone’s Saturn in your 12th is some serious business… lots of high expectations placed on you. It can be life-altering, but only after much pain and patience. After my experiences with my ex, I don't think I can I date anyone with Saturn in Cancer (March ’76)… >_<
I was going to say that it isn't entirely true because alot of people I know have their saturns placed in my 12th house (generational thing)...but then again, I've never really gotten along with alot of my peers in the past. *edit* Its weird that I don't trust people with the sun,moon,etc in my 12th when I have so many planets there myself.  IP: Logged |
teaologist unregistered
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posted March 13, 2007 12:15 PM
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OzMeg222 Newflake Posts: 0 From: victoria, australia Registered: Aug 2009
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posted March 13, 2007 02:26 PM
My sun was in his 12th house. We were off/on for just over a year and it was kept really quiet. He had a girlfriend for the last 3 months of that and she was suspicious but he'd managed to keep so much about me secret.Weird. I did drive him crazy lol, but the bond between us was very very hard to break (still not sure it'll ever be completely broken). IP: Logged |
wilsontc unregistered
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posted March 13, 2007 02:32 PM
Dreamer,Since the 12th house is a "hidden" house, energy which is there is "hidden" from the view of others (or even ourselves). When someone ELSE's energies are in our 12th house, we can feel that they are "hiding" something from us or that they are just kind of "lurking" over our shoulders. Unless we are VERY comfortable with these people personally, this can be a VERY uncomfortable feeling! In plain sight, Tim IP: Logged |
libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 13, 2007 05:03 PM
What happens if there's a Moon conjunction Moon synastry aspect connecting in the 12th house? Is that suppose to be extra intuitive? ------------------ Sun in Libra Moon in Cancer Jupiter in Cancer Venus in Virgo Mars in Cancer Ascendant in Cancer I "FEEL" therefor I am IP: Logged |
Neon Artemis unregistered
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posted March 13, 2007 05:56 PM
What about a person's mars & neptune + NN conjunction in their 1st - in your 12th house? What about things that conjunct your ASC from the 12th? Are those put to the forefront more?IP: Logged |
Ling unregistered
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posted March 14, 2007 07:29 AM
I also seem to have unconditional love and trust for the people who have virgo sun in my 12th house. Proven many times with many friends. That said, I have jupiter and saturn in my 12th house in virgo.. i no idea why...  ------------------ Leo Sun, Aquarius Moon, Libra Ascendent. "If you love a flower which happens to be on a star, it is sweet at night to gaze at the sky. All the stars are a riot of flowers." IP: Logged |
wilsontc unregistered
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posted March 14, 2007 12:53 PM
Neon,Planets that conjunct your Ascendant from the 12th house is like someone directly behind you putting their hand on your shoulder. You are aware of them...but you STILL can't see them! And it CAN get a little uncomfortable unless you trust them a LOT!  From behind, Tim IP: Logged |
hippichick Knowflake Posts: 588 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted March 14, 2007 01:12 PM
Tim---What would you say about someone's true node and Mars in another's 12th?? I totally agree with the feelings you have described. I have a Sag co-worker of mine whose plantes are the above mentioned and while at times I know he is standing behind me it "feels" like he is lurking, both emotionally and physically (and psychically!) It is not an uncomfortable feeling for this Pisces sun, Scorp asc, and we share a Taurus moon so there is a great deal of comfort between us anyway....but the feeling of "lurking" is like none I have ever experienced and is quite intruguing to me! Thanks Terri IP: Logged |
wilsontc unregistered
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posted March 14, 2007 03:05 PM
Libra,People with their Moons (home, also emotions) conjunct (energy is combined with) each other in the 12th house have a STRONG emotional bond so they always "feel" connected to the other person...it is like the other person is just around the next corner all the time!  With feeling, Tim IP: Logged |
wilsontc unregistered
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posted March 14, 2007 03:09 PM
Terri,Since Mars is the "active" planetary energy, a person whose Mars falls into our 12th house is actively lurking...kind of like the way you described!  Actively, Timly IP: Logged |
mars446 unregistered
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posted March 14, 2007 03:49 PM
Well.....how about neptune in 12th house? It is already a deceiving planet, how more lurky can it be? Or did I get this interprettation messed up?IP: Logged |
Neon Artemis unregistered
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posted March 14, 2007 05:22 PM
"From behind"ROTF. sounds good to me. IP: Logged |
teaologist unregistered
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posted March 14, 2007 05:40 PM
quote: "From behind" ROTF. sounds good to me.
You said what I couldn't.  Back dat a$$ up. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 4416 From: Pleasanton, CA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 14, 2007 05:45 PM
My 12th house is mostly Taurus, and I probably have more Taurus friends than any other sign.IP: Logged |
hippichick Knowflake Posts: 588 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted March 14, 2007 05:52 PM
Neon and Teo~~~My Sag/Mars in my 12th friend and I had a joke about that VERY thing the other day----  IP: Logged |
wilsontc unregistered
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posted March 14, 2007 05:58 PM
mars,Since Neptune rules the 12th house, it is VERY good at remaining "hidden". If someone's Neptune is in your 12th house, you might not notice it...unless you notice the strange way that they seem to "get" you and what you are about. Getting it, (no dirty jokes now! ) Tim IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 14, 2007 06:55 PM
So Tim, someone's neptune in your 12th is not that bad??? And I hate to pester you, but what about my Ascendant falling in soemone's 12th?
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