posted March 15, 2007 07:06 PM            

I try not to post new topics asking for advice too often, but this last week has brought so much heartache, I hope to find some help making sense of it all.

The symptoms I’ve noticed are both my boyfriend and myself have incredibly short fuses and a lack of patience with each other and life in general (Mars transits? I have them he doesn’t). I have also been very blue of late. Naturally thanks to our short fuses, my boyfriend has been impatient and irritated instead of comforting. Which in turn seems to spark and extreme level of neediness and resentment in me. It’s just a bad situation. Right now it seems we’re no good for one another, and completely unable to meet each other’s emotional needs.

The thing is I know how unreasonable what we’re feeling is. I can’t be really mad at him because it’s all so silly. But I feel like I’m in the driving right into a wreck and just can’t seem to stop myself. It’s just silly, so I have to conclude that there are some rather tough transits going on, but for the life of me I can’t see anything in the stars that is drastically different between this week and all the ones that came before. I have a few tough Saturn transits. My boyfriend and I are both going through Saturn square Moon for the last few months. But at this point I don’t think that transit would suddenly start wrecking havoc in our lives. I don’t know.

I’d love it if someone could take the time to take a look at my transits and his and see if there’s any reason for us to go from blissfully happy to at each others throats this week. : )

My birth info is as follows: July 10, 1977 St Paul, MN 5:17 PM
My boyfriend’s info June 29, 1970 Detroit, MI 7:53 AM

Thank you in advance for your help. As always, I appreciate the care and support of every person on this forum.

Kindest regards,

posted March 15, 2007 11:51 PM              

If you are looking for a tough, brief transit to birth Mars, currently your transiting (planets in the sky) Mercury (thinking, also talking) is squaring (energy needs to be combined with) your birth Mars (being, also anger), resulting in angry communication. This is a very quick transit, so try to be nice, avoid confrontations and wait it out!

Waiting it out,