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Topic: Taurean Man / Scorp Girl
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luvscorp
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posted March 30, 2007 03:47 PM
 
If a Taurean man takes you home to meet his entire family (and I mean entire) is that a good thing?IP: Logged |
CrankyCap
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posted March 30, 2007 04:26 PM
Ummm...yeah. I'd say you can probably expect a marriage proposal any day now.  IP: Logged |
luvscorp
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posted March 30, 2007 04:29 PM
even after only 6 weeks?IP: Logged |
libraschoice7
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posted March 30, 2007 04:53 PM
He is definitely looking for a serious relationship with you, if he did that. Does it bother you that he introduced you to his family?------------------
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luvscorp
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posted March 30, 2007 05:24 PM
well waz a shocker. bitta background for you though -
- i live overseas and went to my home country on holiday to see my family and met him very randomly.
- We got very close very quickly over 3 weeks, then he told me his was rolling over at night and missing me
- then he backed off for 2 weeks and i didn't see him at all
- then he came back again
- i asked him why and he told me a load of really really hectic things he was going through financially etc....and that he was embarrased that he couldn't take me out and treat me the way i deserve.
- we spent time together but only little bits and not physically (if you know what i mean).
- then he is desperate to introduce me to his family and does, they loved me and he is over the moon and he seems to come back to life
- then he wants to be with me veryday before i go so we did, he gets more attached but still stays away from the physical side
- 2 nights before i leave we have a huge fight which resulted in him telling me he wants to come over but i must have a new boyfriend when he arrives and we must just be friends. Then he says he is attracted to me but I am leaving! Now he chats to me online but it is like he could take ir or leave it? but still chats - but is very cocky when he talks. So my question is - what on earth is going on? I am not scared of this but he seems to be - or not - just dunno. IP: Logged |
luvscorp
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posted March 30, 2007 05:26 PM
and what was the point of the family event?IP: Logged |
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posted March 31, 2007 03:19 PM
Guys I really need help with this one!!!Anyone got any idea? Thanks  IP: Logged |
Peri
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posted March 31, 2007 03:45 PM
I am sure he is in love, he is very much in love and that scares the hell out of him. He is trying to control things but he isnt in control anymore. He is very vulnerable right now because he does not know if you feel the same, if you want to commit, if you can be trusted, if you are going to break his heart or make him very happy, if..if..if...if...etc
He needs gentle reassurance and encouragement...He can do a lot of stupid things now if given a slight reason to unleash his insecurities, I think, so don't give him any chance to if you are in love P.S. I agree with CrankyCap Taurus Sun
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We are not sinful, shameful human creatures who have to somehow earn Spirituality. We are Spiritual Beings having a human experience ~ Robert Burney IP: Logged |
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posted March 31, 2007 03:59 PM
Thanks Peri ......... you have really made me smile xxx to you !I adore him and have so much time for him. Well how do i do this then? With him showing me he doesn't care if we talk or don't talk and not really bothered and when we do talk he is arrogant and dismissive! What do I do? Do I gently avoid him (like say hi on msn and then disappear for the day). Does he need time on his own to see if this is what he really wants? What do I do? I can't juz let him walk all over me though! IP: Logged |
Peri
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posted March 31, 2007 04:34 PM
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Do I gently avoid him (like say hi on msn and then disappear for the day).
It seems the right thing to do, let him know you are there for him and you are not ignoring him but if he isnt chatting or being arrogant you've got other things to do than just sit around waiting for him to pm you. I also think you should choose the right moment to let him know how you feel (no details!) tell him that he is very special to you and you would like to keep being in touch but you are lost now because he has become distant and dismissive and you did nothing for him to treat you like that. Try to be a little vulnerable, I am sure, being a scorp, you seem cool and very much in control and it may make him nervous and arrogant; do not let him walk all over you! you are absolutely right about that! Just get him realize he has a choice: he is either good to you and you are the same to him or you drift away from each other since you are no more good together...something like that...I don't know him so it's hard for me to advise but I am sure you'll find the right words. Good luck!   IP: Logged |
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posted March 31, 2007 04:55 PM
Thanks Peri ........... am gonna try, juz hope i don't lose him !!! Wish I knew more about these darn taurean moods - if je wants me he knows where i am. Anyone who has any insight into taurean moods plz let em know so i can guage this situation with a cool head !!!!!!!!! I don't wanna lose this one - he's a darlin' Maybe juz some little tips on the do's and don'ts would be very appreciated ?????????? IP: Logged |
CoralFrequency
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posted March 31, 2007 07:28 PM
My opinion: He really liked you. He feels out of control because you're not in the same country.. so he's being arrogant out of frustration. For all he knows you could meet a new guy tomorrow and forget all about him.. He might be trying to detach or keep it cool so he doesn't get hurt that time you come online saying "btw I met this guy the other day"For some reason, this may sound like odd advice but you could send him a present and a little card or letter for his birthday coming up. Something really special to let him know you give a damn.. But don't go online at all for a while imo Then he'll miss you.. wonder what happened.. then get the present on his birthday - nice surprise after stressing over why you're not online.. and then.. I have a feeling he wouldn't be as arrogant.. It has to be something very thoughtful though. Taureans love tangible things, so anything from you that he can *see* and feel and keep.. he'd definitely appreciate.
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posted April 01, 2007 05:21 AM
Thanks Coral - great advice! I know he has not got anything cos his financial situation is worse than bad, so it can't be anything too expensive - the last thing i want to do is emasculate him. Ummmmmmmmmm .... what about a cd which I have complied myself of some cool songs which we used to listen to? he loves his music - or an ipod (or is that too much for him)? what i could say in the card is - this will keep you entertained on the plane - like a hint that I would still like him to come over if he wants to? I will not contact him between now and then, I am not going to ignore him if he wants to chat but I will be a little 'busy' at times I think - but I am not going to instigate any more conversations. you guys are really helping thanks p.s. i am a typical scorp girl so if you want any info about scorps please feel free to ask ! IP: Logged |
gtufaro
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posted April 01, 2007 12:10 PM
I'm just adding this point because it's just plain old good advice, astrology aside.Money is usually one of the biggest factors towards a relationship breaking up. If he's already in financially dire straights, before I'd get too involved, I'd let him fix those things in his own life. Otherwise, it'll become a problem for both of you, perhaps in his insecurities coming out. I think a lot of what's going on between y'all already is a direct result of that being an issue. It's probably better not to have had too much physical contact, because that's when people start getting in too deep and he's probably being protective of himself and you as well. I don't doubt that love feelings can be felt relatively quickly, but true love, in my opinion is something that is lasting and developed over real time. IP: Logged |
luvscorp
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posted April 01, 2007 01:48 PM
Thanks Gtufaro - agree 100% with the true love comments. I am not sure if it is true love, as you say that takes time - and with me it definately does Well he had no problem with me paying for everything when i was there, actually got to me a bit but i didn't say anything - he really is in a bad way. For example - after a day of me paying for a fab day out he even asked for petrol money when the evening came to a close - not just a bit but almost a full tank!!!! I think he was a little embarassed afterwards - but hey it did make me lose respect for him. But I still think he is lovely! This is why he wanted to come overseas to see if he could find any opportunities, as his home country has no prospects for him. I suppose the cockiness comes from insecurities and that he is in such a bad place. Just wondering if I am wasting my time cos I really don't know how to combat it! What would you do? IP: Logged |
luvscorp
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posted April 02, 2007 08:12 AM
Ain't it funny eh?! So I got up this morning all ready for him to not say hello first and having the willpower to put my status as away on the msn so I could start the process of ignoring him politely ..........and ............. he says hi? wants to know what i did on the weekend, changed his display picture to the same artist as mine and is chatting away! I know he spent the weekend with his family - could they have said something? can you think of anything i can say which will make him feel more secure without being direct or touching on emotional things? any key tips? IP: Logged |
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posted April 02, 2007 08:31 AM
Don't even get me started on the Scorp/Taurus thing! I have had experience in this several times. I would just like to politely ask our Bull friends to stop doing one thing:Plese stop cutting people off for several days with no words as to why. It is unfair and you know it!!! STOP IT PLEASE!!! Thank you. This has been a public service announcement. IP: Logged |
luvscorp
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posted April 02, 2007 08:35 AM
That's hilarious - thanks scorp - needed that lol Well, guess what two can play the game and they hate being ignored, even if the reason you r not around is a really good one. But yes - how annoying! IP: Logged |
Peri
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posted April 03, 2007 02:40 AM
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I would just like to politely ask our Bull friends to stop doing one thing:
Plese stop cutting people off for several days with no words as to why. It is unfair and you know it!!! STOP IT PLEASE!!!
 Huh? I thought that is a Scorp thing, no? 
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luvscorp
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posted April 03, 2007 04:26 AM
Hi!Yes, in a way that is true about scorps - we usually have a very very good reason though such as - something really bad that they've done
- someone becoming too draining or needy but we generally make time for people, we don't just plain ignore them. IP: Logged |
Peri
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posted April 03, 2007 05:00 AM
quote:
we usually have a very very good reason though such as- something really bad that they've done
- someone becoming too draining or needy but we generally make time for people, we don't just plain ignore them
that is true about taureans too IP: Logged |
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posted April 06, 2007 05:54 AM
Hey All! OK now he had an awful week at work, and is back to his usual self cos now he wants to talk more about how to sort his life out. But he is not actually making a direct move to come over to me, instead he is trying to see if he can't do it there and is 'sort of' talking about coming her. He is being especially sweet thouhg. He said - "Baby you are my rock". Is that a friendship thing? or is it looking good on a possible relationship front? Thanks guys
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