posted April 04, 2007 10:40 AM            

RUN RUN RUN!!!

I discovered when my pisces was keen nothing would stop him from replying to me. Even after he found himself a small town socially acceptable girlfriend he would still reply to me even in front of her (we always seemed to have one another on stand by-not pretty). If he's not contacting you something's definately not right. How hard is it to say hi???

Run run as fast as you can he can't catch you you're the gingerbread (wo)man!

Excuse me if I seem jaded, its my recent experience.

posted April 04, 2007 11:35 AM              

What happened with the pisces guy as I would love to know.

posted April 04, 2007 11:36 AM              

What happened with the pisces guy as I would love to know.

posted April 04, 2007 12:27 PM              

That being said, with family members I always found myself irritated if someone disturbed me ..its like I want them to understand and keep away from me or just know what I want without me telling them verbally (think thats all together a different matter)

Again, I got bit of fire in my chart

I think I will avoid someone, though I like someone, only if I am not sure of myself .. as I mentioned its the opposite thoughts at play...Sub-consciously I might like or attracted to someone, however other thought is that I don't want to get into a relation due XYZ reasons. So there would be instances I try to avoid someone though I got feelings for the person (Being single and with Aries Venus, the frequency of being attracted to someone seems to be more, which I don't want it to be).

posted April 04, 2007 09:47 PM            

Someone in the other thread, a Scorpio girl was talking about a Taurus guy who didn't contact her at all for a week or so, and later she found out it was due to his own problems and financial reasons.

I just don't think it's a sign related thing.. and I also don't think the way people react to it is sign related.

For instance, I'm an Aries like you.. but in all honesty if I sms-ed someone and they didn't reply, 5 min later I'd be sms-ing someone else about the same thing - say if I wanted to go somewhere.. I wouldn't be patient, you're right.. and because of that I wouldn't be interested in waiting until he replies, I'd just find someone else to do 'whatever' with.. I'd never ever hold it against someone either. If that same guy called 2 months later, I'd have no problems catching up or having a coffee.

If he sms-ed that same day, hours later and said he wanted to go out.. I’d say ‘well I’m already out now with ‘such and such’, do you wanna meet us at *insert place*?

posted April 05, 2007 06:36 AM            

I can't help but add this now though. I've had a double Piscean in my life, yes double - both Sun and Moon.. with Mercury and Venus in Aries - same year as yours.. and he was completely, absolutely and unequivocally in-fuking-sane - just not normal. I have stories to fill novels (not just one but many), but I've never felt comfortable posting details that personal on here. Honestly though, I completely understand - I know you won't believe that I understand.. but I've been through hell and back, no joke.

And now, much later - when I can be detached about everything and him.. I have this to say..

1. It had nothing at all to do with his sign.. I know a few other Pisces born in that year including my best friend (who has Venus/Mars in Aries) and they ARE NOT like him. They are not even SLIGHTLY like him.

2. I hope that one day he gets the help he needs.. though I'm not entirely sure that there is a psychologist, psychiatrist or drug out there to help with the amount of issues he has. He may be beyond help.. but I pray that he's fine and thank God I can leave it at that.. years ago I couldn't and it was by far the biggest mistake I've ever made.

posted April 05, 2007 08:40 AM            

Yeah looking back so soon I can see certain patterns in our relationship, I discussed it with my psychologist and she agreed. A lot of what he did to me and I complained about I did right back to him, without even realising it. I used to do things to him that he'd complain about and he'd then do to me also without realising.
I was a very big hypocrite in a lot of ways, both of us were. I used him to make me feel like crap so I could avoid other things in my life that made me feel like crap. The unbelievable physical pleasure mixed with intense emotional pain was addictive.
It was always very intense between us, it scared the crap outta both of us but as much as I always knew we were totally unhealthy for one another there is no denying we had a strong bond. I now understand why people stay in abusive relationships when before I never could.
I actually said to someone the other day that I was mostly annoyed cos he was supposed to be MY b!tch-boy-on-standby and I had him so well trained. It wasn't a nice thing to say but true nonetheless. My psychologist laughed for about 10 minutes when I told her about the conversation.