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alma_pisces
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posted April 11, 2007 05:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alma_pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am a pisces and my brother inlaws wife is a scorpio, usually I have always thought that Pisces and scorpio get along great, but we can not stand eachother. It seems to me like she gets so upset at the fact that our inlaws are nicer to me and have welcomed me better than they did to her. We had our differences in the past for which I ended up apologizing for and she just turned her back at me.

I want to understand her, I always try to put the bad things in the past, why is it that some people can't let things go. Is this a scorpio thing or what? I am just curious.

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marsconjunctmercury
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posted April 13, 2007 10:40 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Could just be a Scorpio thing. She may find you a bit drippy, and also be jealous that other people like you. Scorpios are Water too but i find most of them like really 'definate' poeple, and get annoyed with wishy-washy ones. I s'pose it depends on other factors in her chart. One thing can be said for Scorpios. They don't fake how they feel.

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alma_pisces
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posted April 13, 2007 10:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for alma_pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I may be wishy washy be she is one uptight girl! "I don't like flowers, I don't like animals, I don't like kids, I don't like parties" those are her words.

I would take the wishy washy a million times over her uptight, boring miserable life! :P

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posted April 13, 2007 10:51 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi alma,
I am a scorpio and all of my significant relationships and friendships have been with pisces. The amazing thing about this is I have been exceptionally close with these pisceans, but there have been times when they were intensly jealous of me and vice versa. It happens.

My best friends are identical pisces and we have been friends for five years, and this past fight we got into was a really deep angry fight and we did not speak for about 4-5 months and then just started talking again. I think this is because pisces and scorpio really do understand each other.

My suggestion is, since you obviously care about this situation, then call her up and ask her if she would like to go to lunch or just talk some time, and then just tell her how you feel, using your pisces kindness, she will relax and probably tell you how she feels. Try to be alone from other people and I would almost bet that she will open up. I say this because if she did not like you she would not be jealous. This is because (Most) scorpios are not jealous of someone because they get all the attention, they are jealous because you have something they secretly admire.
If it does mean something to you, I would suggest that you try this approach. Let me know if you do and if anything comes out of it :-)

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Swerve
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posted April 13, 2007 10:53 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There is some truth in MCM's eloquence.

Scorpio's are unsettled by anything they can't get a definite handle on. You're too complicated for her most likely.

Some people struggle to read Pisces and attempt to pin them down with blunt descriptions and glibness. Especially those who consider themselves "insightful" lol.

Enjoy it. It's up to her whether she shows her Scorpionic weakness or strength.

She will only make a decision if she feels it and no-one else can do that for her.

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alma_pisces
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posted April 13, 2007 10:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for alma_pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thankyou Pheonix1111,

I really like your advice! Actually I did try talking to her once, I went to her door and she just slammed it at me. We live in the same building, so I just came back down to my place and started crying. I am too emotional. Maybe I will try again, it's just that she is not a very approachable person.

We started out getting along real good, and than there were problems between our guys which are brothers and ever since she has been all mad and the brothers are fine now. So I think it is stupid to be mad when they get along now. Understand?

I like your advice! What is the best way to approach a scorpion women?

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alma_pisces
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posted April 13, 2007 11:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for alma_pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
why is it that when it comes to Pisces everybody just looks at their weaknesses!? But when others need someone to listen to them, or somebody to help them out, or just for some pleasant company everybody runs to Pisces? I would like to know that SWERVE?

Yet I am hard to pindown and be definite? What definite do you need? HUH?

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Swerve
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posted April 13, 2007 11:07 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Alma....I'm a Pisces....lol

It's our curse and our blessing.

You use it as you will.

edit: and for Scorpio, knowledge is power.

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marsconjunctmercury
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posted April 13, 2007 11:16 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
It's our curse and our blessing.

What are you saying? It's a 'curse' to be Pisces, but their 'blessing' is not realising it (or anything else for that matter)?
I'm just asking if that's what you're saying.


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Swerve
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posted April 13, 2007 11:22 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Of course not MCM.

It's all part of the experience of being a Pisces.

Being plugged into everyone and everything means you attract those that are wounded emotionally or spiritually because they feel that aura of understanding (which of course can be abused too, Pisces are still flimsy humans after all).

But having that ability means you can step into everyone else's shoes, which in my mind makes everyone's experiences valid and powerful.

To then find yourself amongst all that and make a stand becomes nigh-on impossible.

That's why Pisces is so changeable.

Always look to the essence of someone MCM, rather than just their character. So many things can cloud a person's true aura (for want of a better word).

You are far too harsh on Pisces, it's akin to astrological rascism in my eyes. You like a goading them too.

Honesty is good, prejudice is not.

What do you think?


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alma_pisces
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posted April 13, 2007 11:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for alma_pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hahahahaha Swerve! I didn't realize you were also a Pisces! Well I am pisces sun, but my moon, venus and mars are all in Aries. My Ascendant is LEo. So I am not your typical Pisces! but I will stand up and defend when I am being called wishy washy and being implied that I am stupid in any kind of way!

MCM I am aware of things that go on around me , I am no retard!

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alma_pisces
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posted April 13, 2007 11:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for alma_pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Def. of wishy washy: Lacking in strength of character or purpose; ineffective.

I don't like to be called that!

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Swerve
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posted April 13, 2007 11:30 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Which is exactly the reaction that was being hoped for.

I know many Pisceans who would eat MCM alive for his amusing comments.

I also suspect he would enjoy the debate at the same time.

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alma_pisces
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posted April 13, 2007 11:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for alma_pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hahaha, I enjoy if he enjoys the debate because I love them!

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marsconjunctmercury
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posted April 13, 2007 11:55 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
For the record alma, and Swerve you both come across to me as great. Alma i think the planet positions and Ascendent you've mentioned you have are awesome. Swerve always seems to have sense of humour and a fair-handed way of expressing his-self.
Yes i do goad alot, and am a bit of a bugger. I guess i like to force people to show what they're like. It either alienates them from me or i end up liking them.

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alma_pisces
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posted April 13, 2007 11:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for alma_pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
awww MCM, you really do know how to get to a pisces heart!

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Swerve
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posted April 13, 2007 12:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Fair enough MCM.

Don't go all soppy on me now lol.

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alma_pisces
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posted April 13, 2007 12:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alma_pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Swerve do u know how to post a picture I have been trying for days and I can't! Must be the pisces thing! Do u know how? :P

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Swerve
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posted April 13, 2007 12:25 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You have to sign up to a site called photo bucket I beleive, then paste the url of the picture in this text box.

There is some advice in the Free For All section with the photos of members thread.

Give it a shot.

Away for the weekend now, have fun guys!

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alma_pisces
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posted April 13, 2007 12:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alma_pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thankyou! Have a very nice weekend!

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alma_pisces
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posted April 13, 2007 12:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alma_pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://i148.photobucket.com/albums/s8/alma_pisces/me1.jpg


lets see if this works

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posted April 13, 2007 03:11 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Alma, if she slammed the door in your face when you were trying to talk to her, then she is just a !@#$% ! and has issues to deal with. When me and my best friends (the twin pisces) met, one of them and I butted heads really bad for awhile, which caused the other to team up with her.
And then go fiqure, we end up best friends for a long time now. I mean we did EVERYTHING together.

I would try again if you are compassionate towards her. You two might become friends too. One time one of them wrote me a letter telling me they were sorry and that they really did appreciate me as a friend. That worked. It made me feel like I was really loved and we made up. I would never have slammed the door in her face if I was angry though, I would just be cold. I have more manners than that.

I think even if your second attempt may not work out, then eventually you two will find a way to see eye to eye. Sometimes whatever is wrong is so simple. All you can do is try to understand her, and I believe she will open up to you.

Oh, by the way, I read where ya'll are talking about the weaknesses that pisces have, I found that interesting because there was a time that I believe that I was always the stronger of us two. Whoever it was friendship or relationship) I found out one day that I was very wrong and ultimately Pisces is the stronger of us two, ya'll just wear you kindness, good-nature on your sleeve, or aura, and Scorps hide the passion of their devotion and compassion for awhile until we are decided about something or someone and have found trust with that person. Pisces are VERY strong people, they are at the end of Zodiac for teaching us to have faith, hope, and to believe.
That is what my Pisces friend truly taught me, is to truly believe and to hope in something, and to dream. I had such a emotional thick skin before I met her, that I didn't know how and she taught me how.



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posted April 13, 2007 03:56 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, I am a scorpio female with a pisces moon. Curiosity got the best of me and I had to look at your post because I couldn't imagine why a scorpio and pisces wouldn't get along.

I can say that as a scorpio, I've never slammed a door in anyone's face or gotten physical either. Really, she should be talking to the mother in law if she has a problem and not taking it out on you. I say just leave her alone to work out her issues. You don't deserve to be a punching bag.

Oh, and what's this business about wishy washy pisces? I love pisces. Standing firm on everything=obstinance. It is good to be flexible. You guys and gals are nice and squishy. I just love 'ya.

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Kamots
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posted April 13, 2007 04:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kamots     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm Pisces and I really get along with Scorpio.

Feel fascinated and drawn to Scorpio women.

My best friends are either Scorpios or have high Scorpionic/Plutonian influence in their chart.

They easily hurt people, but if they admire you in some way and consider you a true friend, they'll be there for you no matter what.

To the thread starter: some of these friendships didn't start well at all, so maybe things will get better for you. My advice is always stand toe to toe with them (but with integrity) and look them straight in the eyes at all times

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alma_pisces
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posted April 13, 2007 04:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alma_pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thankyou , you are all giving me good advice! And u are right! I do have some scorpio friends that are amazing. I have two scorpio cousins that usually are very secretive about everything but when they are with me they let me know all their secrets with no fear of being judged.

I don't have a problem with scorpio's. They are loyal to those who have one their respect and when they trust you they can be the sweetest people on earth!

I am just gonna try to give her some time and try not to mess with her. Usually I wouldn't care so much when I have a problem with somebody, but once that person becomes my family I feel like we should just get along! Not be best friends or anything but be able to tolerate eachother, specially at family reunions.

Thankyou all for being so kind and understanding!

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