posted April 19, 2007 07:19 PM              

I'm a Virgo who met a Scorpio, and immediately upon laying eyes on him, the attraction was INTENSE!!!
He felt it and I felt it too. We exchanged numbers, and immediately upon our first telephone conversation, we got into an argument and I became just as equally repulsed by him!!!

Here's the kicker though...His Mars conjuncts my Venus, and his Venus opposes my Mars!!! In addition, his North node is in my sign of Virgo and my North node is in his sign of Scorpio!!!

I can't stand him...but I think I like him.

With the strong Mars and Venus activity that already exists, do you think it's even worth me evolving toward my North Node with this particular Scorpio when such sexual dynamics already exist??? Not to mention the possessiveness AND the extra sexual tension that he will bring to the table quite naturally...

HELP!!!!

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Tanae'

posted April 19, 2007 08:19 PM            

j/k... I know that feeling... kinda like a fire being lit..
Love/Hate relationships with Scorpio's...
(sighs)

love to see the chart

here is a good thread;

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/001634.html

posted April 19, 2007 08:34 PM              

J/K! Intense Love, Intense Hate. Us Virga girls always "learn" in these relationships.

good luck to ya,

posted April 20, 2007 02:34 AM              

Not joking!!!

I looked over the charts of guys I've dated and really liked and they all have a heavy Scorpio theme, most have Scorpio AC's. I heavy Scorpio influences (Venus in Scorp conjunct Pluto by 2 degrees and Vx in Scorp!) so that explains it. I'm finding that other water signs might be better for working out these issues and meeting my needs. Scorpio energy I find is way too secretive, possessive, and broody for my Sag Sun, Aqu Moon, and Gem AC.

posted April 23, 2007 05:39 PM              

I've actually been brushing him off like crazy lately and after one of our spats, I even deleted his number out of my phone saying to myself, "Well that's that, I bet I'll never hear from him again"... only to find myself, days later, searching for his number like crazy only to program it back into my phone again.

This is MADDENING...it's like looking a white hot flame slowly burn and nonetheless wanting to reach out and touch the white hot fire.

OUCH!!!

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Tanae'

posted May 19, 2007 03:57 PM              

He had a really bad habit of sending me text messages, which I really didn't have a problem with at first, but I started getting the feeling that the messages that he was sending me were Blasts that he was sending out to various women in his phone book.

His messages would always be very generic, though very caring, like Good Morning, Happy New Year, Happy Valentine's Day, etc.

Well, that was somewhat tolerable to me for a while, until then he started sending me forwarded text messages and chain text messages too. Now that irritated me!

Then finally, the straw that broke the camel's back was a text message that he sent to me with a sexual undertone...which in my opinion was VERY inappropriate, and besides, he didn't really even KNOW me like that to be sending me messages of that nature.

So I sent him a reply back stating, "Please do not text me," which was about a month ago, and I haven't heard a peep out of him since.

You think I embarrassed him or perhaps I hurt his feelings? I mean I only asked that he no longer text me, I said nothing about him calling!

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Tanae'

posted May 20, 2007 08:56 PM              

No lines to read between. No mystery. Scorpios do that, they erase. He erased you, as you did his number. Don't feel bad, it's for the best.

If his intentions were good, he would be calling you and asking you out on a date, wanting to take time with you, and get to know you.

He sounds like he's on a binge or something, and really, do you want him playing basketball with your heart?

I had an intense attraction to this scorpio man. He had uranus conj his moon, conj my mars, and I was also going through transiting neptune sq my natal venus. I was obsessed, to be sure.

He was nasty, and selfish. I won't pigeonhole scorp men, but he was a jerk of a scorpio man! He relished in my obsession with him, because it guaranteed a free lay whenever he wanted it.

You haven't heard from him because you set a boundary with him, and made it clear that you weren't someone willing to let him toy with. Good for you.

Take it for face value, there are no lines to read between.

You aren't "useable", and won't be used.
And he knows it, so he's not giving you any time or attention. Period.

posted May 20, 2007 10:24 PM              

That's not a good thing to say to a Scorpio if he's interested in you. I think it was kind of stupid and pointless to tell you the truth.

Scorpio's like a woman who is open and sexual.

posted May 20, 2007 11:48 PM            

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lol You should've sent messages back with everyone's names there.. like Good Morning Andrew Alex and John, how are you all feelin' today? I had this dream last night - we all had a fourthsome. It was hell good! so I thought, why not? Try everything once, right? but probably towards the weekend.. I'm kinda tired now, k then bye bye.. take care now. Wouldn't want you to brake somethin' in the mean time and ruin my fourthsome 4 me

hehe, do it! do it! jk I'm being silly..

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