posted May 13, 2007 04:55 AM            

I have a question regarding the soul mate indicators of myself and the guy I was writing about a few months ago. Its a sad situation, he's so young and has a girlfriend but he's been in contact again.
We had a few drinks the other night and talked, he came round as a friend cos I had other serious dramas going on and I can talk to him about them cos he has similar issues in his family.
As he was leaving he said he hated himself and he was an a$$hole cos he wanted to sleep with me, even though it would mean cheating on his girlfriend. I would never do that though. I asked him why on earth he would risk everything and he confessed he couldn't get me out of his system. For over a year he kept telling himself if we got together one more time he could get me out of his system and move on but it didn't happen. He can't stop thinking about me and he knows its wrong and hates himself cos he has a girlfriend.
Even now he still can't stop thinking of me, we haven't even been together in 3 months and until this week we hadn't spoken since the middle of march.
We should both be over it by now, almost 2 years now and we're still mad about each other. Its stronger now if anything but we can't be together.

I know theres a lot of heavy karma in our charts and I believe much as the situation is hopeless that he is my soul mate. Even if we just remain friends. I don't know anything about asteroids other than what you've written, so I was wondering if you could disect our charts for me. Pretty please!

posted May 16, 2007 04:03 AM            

I'm asking you specifically cos I've had our charts analysed before but the asteroid thing has really got me intrigued. Other than Karma, Valentine, Osiris and Isis I have no idea what to look for, I'm not even sure what the asteroids other than karma mean.

posted May 16, 2007 05:04 AM            

OzMeg, you seem like a cool person.. let this go.. he's a shmuck!

posted May 16, 2007 10:13 AM            

I never said it was easy.

posted May 16, 2007 11:53 AM            

I must admit, I was a little sad to see that this guy has made an appearance in your life again. I know how hard it is to let go, and the fact that he is still physically in your life will not make things any easier for you, and proves his selfishness. He's only in it for himself, and his own personal gratification and satisfaction. Remember that.

I'm with CF on this. These guys don't change...and certainly not over a brief, 2 month long hiatus. You think you should be over him???? Don't kid yourself. You're setting yourself up for failure thinking that way. You've known him 2 years...24 months of your life. That doesn't just go away. You need to remove him from your life - physically. Be direct with him, and let him know that it is your choice, because it is what's best for YOU. Then, please, please, PLEASE take some time to HEAL. Concentrate on other things. Take a dance class, or a pottery class...anything. Spend time with people who care about you.

Your time is the most precious gift you can give to someone, and you've wasted far too much on this guy already.

posted May 17, 2007 04:43 AM            

And I did throw a major wobbly and tell him he is the world's biggest ******* . I pushed and pushed and pushed though before he finally gave me an answer and he admitted he couldn't get me out of his system. He tries so hard to be a jerk and pretend he doesn't care but he does.
Our night as friends was so nice for about 3 hours (very intense and highly charged with issues that had nothing to do with our situation, just similar family and upbringing issues. We now know so much about one another it could be scary if we didn't trust one another with that stuff) but when he went to leave he got silly.
I'm angry that he has a girlfriend (his first EVER, he's not experienced with woman at all) and he shouldn't be with her if he's thinking of someone else, anyone else.
I almost made him cry. Lol.
He tries so hard to be the perfect son and he now has the perfect girlfriend, pity his feelings got in the way.

posted May 17, 2007 04:57 AM              

You are a wise woman. I pray you will be guided all the way on your path. I hope things will turn out for the best for you! Take care!!

Izo