posted June 15, 2007 11:55 PM              

Seriously, ignore their chatter, it will make them insane.

Also, call them stupid and predictable. Don't laugh at their jokes, etc.

This advice would work with any sign, however. I mean, seriously, I'd leave if someone did this stuff to me repeatedly, or even once depending on what stage the relationship was in.

FYI (just in case you're going to try to pizz him off): I would be able to tell if someone were doing it just to get a rise out of me - that is always simple to spot, and it really gets on my nerves, because it's so dysfunctional and sadistic.

Initially, it will annoy me if I realize someone is purposely trying to pizz me off, but I will eventually just stop being pizzed, and view them as the pathetic pawns of their emotions that they really are, and then I will either: 1)laugh at them, or 2) just not care, or 3) both.

(Three is my favorite.)

Word to the wise, just in case you're going to try and hurt him....you'll just end up looking like an azz.

posted June 16, 2007 12:58 AM              

BornUnderDioscuri,

posted October 25, 2012 01:46 PM            

How can I make a Gemini to come back after months of disappearance?

posted October 27, 2012 11:37 PM            

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Originally posted by pennylane:
hi there knowflakes!! how are you doing?
I'm just curious about what kind of things can one do to hurt a gemini man in a relationship or in an argument about the relationship? what does make them feel slighted or humilliated?
it's hard to figure out because they're always so dettached that it looks like they really don't care, but they've got to have a weak spot, right?
I'd really like to know because i'm aware of my tendency to be blunt in this kind of situations, and I'd rather be careful.
any input please?
love,
penny

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posted October 29, 2012 09:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Pldoree:
Linda,

How can I make a Gemini to come back after months of disappearance?

Scorpio here and had known my Gemini man for a lil bit of more than 2 yrs. i fallen for him when we first met but i always play hard to get. Our relationship had been off and on due to his dual nature, he likes to withdraw or completely disappear himself away for a long time and then make a come back. I wont consider myself possesive or jealous of some sorts but i admit i like him to bring or share me his feelings/ emotions out to me. I guessed i drove him away lately as i got a little serious in which i shouldnt be! Thats cus i never knew this much of a gemini, not until i read more and more of his air sign here and there. Please tell me, how can i make him to come back after 8-9 wks of dissapearance as i really want to see him and celebrate my bday with, next month (nov 2012). I love him a lot and can't wait to have him back. But being that he is a Gemini.. I can't make it sound I am desperate for him or being clingy! So how should I approach him back and make him see or talk to me, again!

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posted October 31, 2012 03:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Lucia23:
They're hurt when you ignore them. Or when you genuinely move on.

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yep! my dad is a Gemini and we have a really bad relationship. he has recently been trying to connect with me, but I've moved on. he tells my mother that I am hurting him by ignoring him, but there is no way I'm going to accept him again.

also, when I hit him with the truth he seems to hurt from that.

posted December 05, 2012 01:42 AM            

-Having loads of fun without them.

-Telling them that you have nothing to say to them after they just spent half an hour spilling out everything on their mind (which is also their heart) lol

posted December 31, 2012 12:59 PM            

In work - ideas not being listened/taken seriously

In love - Well its really complicated, we do get "temporary" hurt but its more of like a challenge to us(dont know if it counts) if our partner leaves us be it genuine or not and we feel the need to get them back, also because of the stimulation we derive from winning the affection of someone's heart but once reach our target we feel indequate and whatever that comes ahead of us becomes a new challenge/stimulation(thus the sayings of geminis are flirts/players).Also a common misconception is to make a gemini jealous - we dont get jealous although it seems like it but we are just too rational to get jealous.Another point to note is that geminis recover very fast from any emotional setback especially love the other party may take months but for us days.

I am a Gemini Ascendant,Sun,Mercury and Venus.

posted January 04, 2013 10:38 AM            

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Originally posted by watermonkey:
In love - Well its really complicated, we do get "temporary" hurt but its more of like a challenge to us(dont know if it counts) if our partner leaves us be it genuine or not and we feel the need to get them back, also because of the stimulation we derive from winning the affection of someone's heart but once reach our target we feel indequate and whatever that comes ahead of us becomes a new challenge/stimulation(thus the sayings of geminis are flirts/players).Also a common misconception is to make a gemini jealous - we dont get jealous although it seems like it but we are just too rational to get jealous.Another point to note is that geminis recover very fast from any emotional setback especially love the other party may take months but for us days.

I am a Gemini Ascendant,Sun,Mercury and Venus.

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Absolutely correct! My sister is Gemini and once she moves on she's done! The only reason she'll get back with someone is to prove to herself that she CAN, then she's off again. I've never dated a Gemini but if I did I wouldn't look back once we've broken up.