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kaira
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posted June 23, 2007 07:53 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
anything to say i'm not much of a social person, difficulties with interaction, communicating, memorizing, friendship, relationshps, adapating to social situations....?


that's a whole lotta red

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marsconjunctmercury
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posted June 23, 2007 08:02 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bless you, you little cutie. On first impressions it looks like a VERY sociable chart, and some lovely placements overall if i may say. It's funny how quite alot of Moon in Leo people turn out to be loners.
I'm sure someone else might be able to find what aspect(s) might cause this from your chart sweetie.
I guess it shows that aspects are more powerful then signs.
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Mars, that's so spot on!

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I agree with MCM.

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MCM, you are a good guy...

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HEHE Marsconjunctmercury is soo right about virgo moons

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I only read your posts. Everyone else is boring

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marsconjunctmercury
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posted June 23, 2007 08:05 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bless you, you little cutie. On first impressions it looks like a VERY sociable chart, and some lovely placements overall if i may say. It's funny how quite alot of Moon in Leo people turn out to be loners.
I'm sure someone else might be able to find what aspect(s) might cause this from your chart sweetie.
I guess it shows that aspects are more powerful then signs.

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Mars, that's so spot on!

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I agree with MCM.

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...please tell me, what did you to develop those abs?

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MCM, you are a good guy...

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HEHE Marsconjunctmercury is soo right about virgo moons

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I only read your posts. Everyone else is boring

4th December 1974 18:00GMT Isle of Wight U.K
marsconjunctmercury@yahoo.co.uk
neutralcruiser@hotmail.co.uk

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ErickaF
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posted June 23, 2007 08:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well I don't know much about the socializing part but I can say that having 29 degree(yours in Mercury, mine is in Venus) can make one a very indecisive person. Also, in my experience I forget a lot of too. And sometimes I find it hard to say what I really want to say because my brain is scattered lol. But I am pretty social (maybe its my Moon in Aqua).

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MUSTANG
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posted June 23, 2007 08:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The one thing that jumps out for me is Mercury in an anaretic degree. Mercury would affect your memory and communication to a large extent.

A lot of personal planets in the sixth house. That's a tough house to have a stellium in...socializing must feel like work to you.

Your jupiter is pretty afflicted too. (Jupiter being jolly and expansive.)

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Heart--Shaped Cross
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posted June 23, 2007 08:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heart--Shaped Cross     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars conjunct Sun can be antisocial
Saturn Square Sun can be antisocial
Saturn Square Mars can be antisocial
Uranus Square Sun can be antisocial
Uranus Square Mars can be antisocial
A strong Neptune can be antisocial

Virgo and the 6th house are both antisocial.
Taurus intercepted in the 1st is fairly self-contained,
as is the emphasis on the personal houses (1-6).

Venus conjunct Pluto in Scorpio can be anti-social,
even in the 7th house, although this,
along with the Libra placements, suggests some sociability,
or, at least, an interest in social concerns.
Same with Moon trine Uranus.

Basically, what I see is a very unique and independent person.
Someone who can be very social in the right company,
and very anti-social with people who can't relate.

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BlueTopaz124
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posted June 23, 2007 08:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BlueTopaz124     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Very well-said, HSC

kaira, the right people will bring out the best in you.

For a Sun Sag also with Mars, Jupiter & Asc in Sag, Moon in Aquarius, Venus Libra, I can be anti-social too. It takes the right people to connect to to want to be more social.

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comica23
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posted June 23, 2007 09:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for comica23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi there ^_^

just a fast glance, 3 of your outer planets are in square with 3 of your personal planets.. outer planets characterizes our generations as people around our age has them in the similar placements, since these planets moves slowly. So I guess that people around your age might have some negative impressions about you (but it also depends on what personal planets placements they have), such as, for example, their seriousness and idealism can be in conflict with your self-expression, action or way of communication. But you might also have such inner conflicts within yourself that can give some troubles in interpersonal relationships..
With Neptune squares, you might feel a bit confused about yourself, your actions and your thoughts, and others might also feel confused about you as well.
And also, with Mercury retrograde, you might experience a confusing/hard time in communication with others as well.. Maybe you might feel misunderstood sometimes..

hope that it helped.. ^_^

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kaira
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posted June 23, 2007 09:09 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
marsconjunctmercury - You're totally right about the Moon in Leo people being loners, but only going by my personal experiences. I have a Virgo friend with a Moon in Leo, as he too is also very to himself, great to joke with, but there's always something that's just missing to gain some sort of social acceptance and attention from others, which we deeply thrive for. I guess I can see that with myself also. I also too, thought the signs and their descriptions would represent me in some definite way. But I guess there's a larger scale beyond that, I did not earlier understand of.


ErickaF - Again, completely agree with what you have said! I am very indecisive, always picking out the flaws of a situation, taking ages just to decide one little issue, like what chocolate bar to choose, and it could seriously last for minutes! Also, I too find it ever so hard to respond to something or someone, because I get so caught up in my own thoughts, its a nightmare trying to sort them out. Thus always resulting in problems with wording, or nervousness to how, what and when to say something.

MUSTANG - Wow, spot on! You guys are great! Nearly always I feel socialising is a waste of time, particlary because of an insecurity that no one will understand or accept me. It's pretty hard to know that, and having to deal with it, and always recognising the fact that.people arn't nearly always paying attention to me, as a person, because of how I come across. Just basically not working enough, or giving a damn, to socialise. But I will never change how I am for another. Although sometimes it takes its toll, and I would give anything for some acceptance and true friendship.

Heart--Shaped Cross - That's completely true, and the sad fact is, sometimes I wish I was just like everyone else, and have the ability to have a fluent, enjoyable social life, without the constraints of some difficult insecurity that really doesn't want to be felt, but still is anyway. I am independant, I always make through situations on my own, and sometimes I wish no one would help me. But when I feel so lonely, especially when that Venus in Scorpio kicks in, I get so depressed I just hope someone notices, no questions asked, and gives me one big hug to tell me I'll be ok.

Also, the right company never seem to be anywhere, and most of the time I have nothing to say in a conversation with the people who aren't, because I feel like I'm not connecting with them mentally, however close we are emotionally, physically, spiritually. Which makes those dry silences creep in, and it's really annoying, to be honest. I don't consider myself a boring person, it's just my mind working in a different way than the people around me, and no one can take that into account yet. Not even I have figured myself out yet, so no one else is going to. Sorry, I'm just rambling on now.


BlueTopaz124 - I just hope I find the right people soon. It pretty much sucks having to experience what I am at the moment. I guess we'll just have to be pateint, and find our own way with things, with our time and effort.


Thank you all for your input. =) <333

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MUSTANG
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posted June 23, 2007 09:39 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You'll find people who are more in line with your personality. It may take some time.

Maybe you're in the wrong environment...? By your age, it looks like you'll be going to college soon and there will be plenty of people there to meet. Some of them are bound to be on your wavelength.

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marsconjunctmercury
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posted June 24, 2007 10:04 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Doesn't kaira sound lovely though people. Typically heartfelt, earnest and profound. Don't take what you think are you're own short-comings to heart kaira. They're not. You just operate on a much deeper frequency then all the superficial crap that crops up in typical social interaction. You've been made for better things. I've always said the quieter a person, the better the things they say when they do speak.
I'm a bit like you. I can be really untalkative if i'm in the wrong setting. You just need to know what you're setting is. That will come with age.

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Mars, that's so spot on!

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I agree with MCM.

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...please tell me, what did you to develop those abs?

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MCM, you are a good guy...

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HEHE Marsconjunctmercury is soo right about virgo moons

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I only read your posts. Everyone else is boring

4th December 1974 18:00GMT Isle of Wight U.K
marsconjunctmercury@yahoo.co.uk
neutralcruiser@hotmail.co.uk

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wilsontc
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posted June 24, 2007 06:23 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
kaira,

Since you have all your planets focused on the right (others) side of the chart, you naturally focus on others. However, since your chart has mostly challenging interactions (red lines) in it, these interactions with others are challenging. As you get older and learn how to USE your energies in a helpful way, you will develop your social skills and find out what doesn't and what does work with others. That will take time, but when you do that, you will also learn how to USE all your challenging energy...and then you will be a social force that demands (and gets) respect!

Respectfully,

Tim

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For information on basic astrological chart interpretation see: http://www.geocities.com/wilsontctc

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marsconjunctmercury
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posted June 25, 2007 09:17 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Good knowledge well put Tim.

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Mars, that's so spot on!

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I agree with MCM.

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...please tell me, what did you to develop those abs?

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MCM, you are a good guy...

quote:
HEHE Marsconjunctmercury is soo right about virgo moons

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I only read your posts. Everyone else is boring

4th December 1974 18:00GMT Isle of Wight U.K
marsconjunctmercury@yahoo.co.uk
neutralcruiser@hotmail.co.uk

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kaira
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posted July 15, 2007 07:54 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you guys for all your comments and insights. Seriously, you really made me feel mre comfortable being myself, and I've solved alot of inner conflicts recently by thinking and feeling them out, tryng to gain some sort of positivity from it all. Thank you so much. <3

I have a boyfriend that really supports me, and understands me so well. He knows how I think, feel, act, respond, and I'm so grateful to have him in my life. I sometimes see him as a Godsend, because he's the only person I've known that has gotten to know the "real" me, and it feels so great. His moon conjuncts my sun, so that may be a contributer to it all, but I love him so much, and I would really like to be with him forever. Maybe thats my venus in Scorpio talking, but honestly, I know I would never let myself to anyone else apart from him. But we do have some communication problems, as sometimes I have no ideawhat to say, so he's mostly the one with the stories to tell. I don't think he minds, but I just don't want to be considered boring.

Anyways, thank you again, guys. <333

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