posted July 05, 2007 07:55 AM              

as Linda says everyone must look to the whole chart and then take the conclusions!

My love is a Libra with cancer rising and aqua moon.
Hes very honest and sincere,and always says thr truth even if can hurt sometimes.

He likes to put a mask in front of people who he dont trust ( colleagues at wokr for example) and he only shows his inner and fantastic inner world to his family and loved one.
its not a matter of not be sincere,its a matter of preserving him and not to let others to know his insecurities ( that are very well hidden) and his fears.
HATES violence and bad manners and people who are hypocrite and disonest.

posted July 06, 2007 10:04 AM              

What are his asc and moon sign?
Dont supect of that cause Libra are knoned for their charm and charisma - its not a bad thing.And they are very sweet yes,which is indeed a wonderful quality for relationships dont you think?
I wouldnt want my Libra to be different from who he is..even being too charm and sweet i know he only have eyes for me hihihi - and when other women start to charm upon him - i just laugh cause i know hes gonna joke

posted July 06, 2007 11:04 AM            

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The on that i like is very sweet and charming. Too sweet and charming, which is why i suspect insincerity.

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Seriously I think I just had my laugh of the morning LOL!

Its the "damned if you do, damned if you don't" senerio; If you don't pay enough attention, you're sleazy. If you do pay a lot of attention, you're still sleazy. Oh the controdictory minds of some people... tsk tsk.

Junity; Comeon... Don't go labling off a guy who may just wants to be nice as insincere. Sincerety is a relitive term; A friend can be sincere and affectionate and would certainly go out of his way to hekp you out of a Jam but that doesn't necessarily means he is into you on a more deeper level.

Why is it that most people end up speculating all sorts of precepitions about a connection even when the obvious signs say that he/she may just want to be friends. As such, the same people end up being hurt for no apparent reason other then the fact that they mistook that connection for something more deeper and end up blaming their friend for being minipulative.

posted July 06, 2007 11:48 AM            

He is such a wonderful human being!

As you can imagine, with all that Libra, he's a goodlookin' somammab!tch too! ROTFL!!!

He has reeeeaaally bad luck with women though. He got divorced last year, and he found out his wife had cheated on him throughout their marriage and used him. Then, the first woman he dated after that cheated on him too. He's a little jaded now, understandably so. I tell him he's not allowed to do sh!tty things to women because every time I think men are all crap idiots and a bunch of @ssholes, I think of him and realize that's not true at all! So he's not allowed to ruin that for me, damnit! (Aaawww!)

He has exceptionally high moral standards and he's really compassionate and probably one of the most loyal people I've ever known. We've had our scrapes in the past (I've known him for 10 years), but we have a friendship that is truly treasured. He can be a little self-righteous at times and soooo nice and polite, probably to a fault. I'm a Libra rising and I think I have this too and this is why people think I'm insincere. It's like my manners and my reactions are so perfect and appropriate, they must be fake and rehaersed, no one could possibly be so sincerely well-mannered and nice ALL THE TIME.

But I am/we are. Librans abhor unpleasantness and just love everything to be shiny and nice, with a big bright perfectly tied bow on it. 99% of the time, it truly isn't insincerity, but does have to do with a somewhat superficial fixation on everything being "nice" and "pretty" and "appropriate". We don't like conflict and we don't like things to clash. Everything should pleasantly flow on and flatter and fit correctly, and if it can be described as artful in some way, whether it is a living room design motif or a piece of prose, or the final conversation you have when you dump someone you've been dating, then that just makes the Libra ecstatic. We love that. We want everything to be just and right and spot on, as often as it humanly can be. I have to admit, just because everything seems nice and pleasant on the surface, it doesn't mean it is always so below the surface, if that makes sense. And this may be the Libran downfall. But Libran types like it to be that way, regardless. It is different to insincerity though. There really is a big difference between craving pleasantry and wanting things to turn out as smoothly as possible, to being insincere and faking your intentions and desires. A big difference.

Anyhow, I rate Libran males very highly.

posted July 06, 2007 11:58 AM            

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Don't go labling off a guy who may just wants to be nice as insincere

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Amen. This is where I think Libra men get a bad rap.

Also... for example, the Libran brother of my friend. He's a really goodlooking guy. Women go apeshit over him on a regular basis. Well, one woman (a Capricorn, as a matter of fact!) was really into him. My friend set her up with her brother and they dated a few weeks. Now this guy is really humble and quiet and yes... nice. Very soft-spoken, unassuming. Anyway, the Capricorn chick was getting too intense too quickly and he was very busy with work and asked for a breather. She went apeshit at him and sent him like 50 text messages in one night hurling all kinds of accusations and abuse at him, claiming he was seeing other women and leading her on.

She would probably say he was an insincere Libra

The truth is, Librans are air signs, and dating a few weeks doesn't constitute having to account for your where-abouts or having a weekend apart to MOST people, and especially to an air sign, lol.

He may have been nice, romantic... I know he invited her over to dinner once, maybe there was candlelight and canoodling and she built whole swag of expectations upon that and now he is labeled The Insincere Libra.

posted July 07, 2007 03:12 PM            

So Darn good looking women swooned over him, HUGE flirt and could not be alone- i always suspected he was cheating but could never find definitive proof. He hated conflict and intimacy, real intimacy scared the hell out of him. I don't think that's a libra thing but the not being able to be alone is - i swear the day we separated he had a date!!

The week before he got remarried he called to tell me he still loved me- now that is insincere.

sorry if this is scattered - brain jogging ahead of me.

posted July 09, 2007 12:23 PM              

ladya22

posted July 09, 2007 12:51 PM            

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That, and I end up feeling like I just ate 10 glazed donuts after the fact.

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And you're actually complaining about that?!? Lol! Most girls I know are off an on about how they hate the caloric count in what they have come to affectionally call "lard rings." We Libra males give you such a nice alternative; All that sweetness without the calories .

posted July 09, 2007 02:42 PM              

yes i totally understant that.
The more we try to preserve ourselves and just be in our own little and secret place~,the more others judges you.

And if for example you were very active and social,and charming, people tend also to say you only want to please others ( and so,in somehow be insincere/disonest or not trustfull person).
I understant all this cause i tend to put myself in others place and try to know why they act like that and what they feel.
So, i understant the need that we have to be discrete and hidde ourselves from others ( but only the parts we want to share just with a special person).And also the part of wanting others to accept you for what you are ( but without showing them more than what you want)- thats also the way my bf is and i know why he acts like that.
He also has a cancer rising,so somehow you act similar and thats why you understood what ive said.
He has the Libra charm,awesome good-looking and the social skills,and so he also values a lot what other people think of him and tries to be involved in the socials.
What usually happens is this:he´s very sensitive to others moods,at the same time he is also very moody(cancer).Others tend to judge him as being snobish also and insincere( whenever some situation or person goes against his justice values,he goes inside his shell).People look and see a person who rebells against what is stated because its unfair and harms others,but at the same thing that harms inocents,impells the guilties.
The guilties are usually the ones of his job companies and at the same time he wanted so much to be involved with people and have real friends,feels repelled by their vallues and acts. His Libra push him to be with them ( needing the salary and others reassurance of financial garanties) - and his cancer makes him sick to be with them.The Cancer Pushes him this time for his inner world.

When he´s simply a man who is afectionatte and caring,he´s seen as insincere and snob when has to be at the outide as he isnt in the inside.
Its a hard demanding situation that many passes but inside no one knows how much it destroys someone.

posted July 09, 2007 09:46 PM            

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And you're actually complaining about that?!? Lol! Most girls I know are off an on about how they hate the caloric count in what they have come to affectionally call "lard rings." We Libra males give you such a nice alternative; All that sweetness without the calories

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posted July 09, 2007 10:10 PM            

I think that Libra men kind of "emotionally bond" in a way with women...including friends...that most other male sun signs don't unless their interested romantically.
Hence the confusion.

When he and I met, he always flirted and acted like he was interested in me. When I found out he had a girlfriend, I was appalled. (Not because I liked him, but I felt bad for her.) Then I got to know him better and realized that he was like that with everyone...that is a female.