posted July 14, 2007 05:47 PM              

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I have an aquarius Sun/Cancer Moon and my daughter is a libra with an Aquarius moon. I have learned that while I am comfortable with feelings....she is not. Although with her moon in the 1st house she can be quite emotional. However, she's very uncomfortable with her feelings and it distresses her when she has strong emotions. Anyone else have a child with an incompatible moon sign?

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posted July 14, 2007 06:36 PM              

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There is nothing incompatible about her moon sign. With Sun and Moon in a Air sign you must remember airs signs are emotionally detached people. I have moon in air sign and i analyze feeelings. When emotions come on too strong it is very uncomfortable to me. All though that may be fine for you it is not for her. You can help her make more of an emotional connection but do that at her speed not yours.

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posted July 14, 2007 06:47 PM              

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hee hee

My daughter is a Libra Sun/Aquarian Moon and yes, she also is overwhelmed with her stronger emotions.

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posted July 14, 2007 06:56 PM              

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Mudmama,
Thanks for your post. What are your daughters other sign placements? And which house is her moon in? I think its the Moon in the 1st house that accounts for such strong emotional reactions as well as her sensitivity to other peoples emotions (she's like a sponge). But the poor girl is so distressed by her own emotions....she just wants any emotion besides happy to just disappear.

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posted July 14, 2007 07:17 PM              

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Here is her chart, she is highly empathic which became extremely apparent early this year , she comes from a long line of empaths but hers just emerged.

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posted July 16, 2007 02:16 PM            

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Hi Lady Neptune! I am actually the opposite of you and your daughter!!! I am an Aquarius moon and my son is a Cancer moon. Incompatible yes, but we actually connect fine, because he has an Aquarius Ascendant, which must help oodles!
I wouldn't worry too much - the fact that her moon is in the same sign as your sun and quite possibly conjunct, is a wonderful, beautiful connection to have with your daughter and I would say that you'll both understand each other quite well in time! She'll be grand, you'll see!!!

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posted July 16, 2007 03:36 PM              

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me and my mother...
She has an Aries moon and I have a cancer moon.
IT SUCKS!

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posted July 16, 2007 03:57 PM              

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I think air moon signs can rationalize their feelings so much and can have so many judgments about feelings that they forget to FEEL them. (which is what you do to heal them.)

On the other hand, they are pretty good about figuring out where the emotions are coming from and analyzing the causes, which is good for self-improvement. It is possible your daughter is feeling your feelings about her aquarius moon and she's not accepting herself as a result. Parents have huge impacts on children with the "unsaid" feeling stuff.

Not accepting your emotions to me is a symptom of not accepting a part of yourself. If you can feel your feelings around it and learn to accept how your child is wired instead of viewing it as a hinderance for you it could probably help a lot.

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posted July 16, 2007 04:11 PM              

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I forget that communicating through the computer is often misunderstood, without body language and tone of voice etc. I don't think I was clear on my original post. Sorry about that. My point was one of interest sake. My daughter and I understand each other and have a good laugh over our differences (she's all grown up). And if you think the moon signs make for interesting communication....we also have our mercuries in opposing signs. And we enjoy our similarities...ie. we both have air sun's. Anyways my apologies if it sounded like I needed help with our relationship. I just wondered about other peoples experiences because I find it fascinating.

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posted August 21, 2007 07:54 PM            

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My mom's a Pisces moon and I'm a Sag moon. We are a drastic mismatch emotionally. She's needy, clingy, has the martyr thing going on, which sends me straight into "Don't fence me in!" behavior. Uck. Nasty.

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posted August 22, 2007 08:40 AM              

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Hmm...that's pretty amusing because my two favorite moons have to be pisces and sagittarius!

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posted August 22, 2007 09:29 AM              

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Mom is a Pisces/Capricorn. Im a Scorpio/Taurus, with pisces in lilith in fourth. Surprisingly our perspectives often clash..

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posted August 22, 2007 10:18 AM              

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hm... This is pretty interesting!=) I'm an aquarius with cancer moon and my mom is a scorpio with aqua moon... And my dad is an aquarius with leo moon. It's all such a big mess of signs:P

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