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izodesmozina unregistered	posted July 25, 2007 05:20 PM Hi, everyone! Can this aspect point to an attraction to large partners? The person who has this also has a Sagittarius Juno (so Jupiter again...). Well... can it? What do you think? There are a few guys who seem to be into big girls... what do you think their placements/aspects are? IP: Logged
darkdreamer unregistered	posted July 25, 2007 06:36 PM sighs I wish I knew where those guys are! And I`m not talking about a L-size in my case, but rather a XXXL (and no this is not a joke, I am that overweighed). HOwever, if there are guys out there liking big girls, I suppose a guy with Jupiter in the 7th house or conjunct DC would be my first guess. The 7th house stands for what you find attractive or like or seek; and if you have Jupiter conjunt your DC then you might like them big I`m a reversed case-scenario: I have a sagittarius ascendant square my Jupiter. Since Ascendant also sais something about the way you look and Jupiter stands for all that is big or expanded, I surely should look that way, big, and yes, I do. I`m not necessarily happy about this. But however, I think Jupiter in the 7th house could like big girls, as guys with Sun, Moon, Venus or Descendant in Taurus or Cancer, I guess. DD IP: Logged
izodesmozina unregistered	posted July 26, 2007 03:47 AM Hmmm... Sun in Cancer... dunno about that... but I suppose Taureans also like their women "stronger". This is good news. I have Jupiter parallel Ascendant... working almost like a conjunction; it is nice with the lucky and optimistic vibration, but I hate what it has done to my waistline . But I do believe a strong will can overcome this influence. DD, if you need an online weight loss partner, I'm here! It is never too late or impossible to start! IP: Logged
cat71 unregistered	posted July 26, 2007 09:14 AM Hi - can I chime in from a female perspective - my Jupiter is wide orb (5) conjunct my DC and lies in Sag 7th hse - I like guys who are taller then me (that's not much really I guess I'm only 5' 4" lol), and beefy, and no I don't mean muscle men types who can flex their pecs etc - eww! Stocky guys, with a few extra pounds and a waist that can keep their pants from sitting on their hips and showing their underwear - lord I hate that! But yeah, big guys for me - no skinnies IP: Logged
Happy Dragon unregistered	posted July 26, 2007 11:04 AM re: There are a few guys who seem to be into big girls... what do you think their placements/aspects are? here's a d.o.b. .. April 17th 1950 0.32 west .. 53.15 north birth time unknown someone i've known a long while .. ( he's always had that preference ) as to why his preference .. i've no idea .. he seems to like his women to 'mother' him .. but that's no indication in itself .. or is it ? the Ceres placement ?? .. its aspect to Juno ?? .. neither ?? re: The person who has this also has a Sagittarius Juno the above d.o.b. has Ceres in Sag .. square to Juno .. maybe 'large lass' equals 'she must be a good cook' in his head .. who knows .. ( i.e. given that ppl are often attracted an 'image' first ) IP: Logged
izodesmozina unregistered	posted July 26, 2007 03:00 PM Well, Cat, that sounds promising! HD, what do you think his rising is? I know someone who seems to be attracted to bigger women and he has a Taurus rising. quote: maybe 'large lass' equals 'she must be a good cook' in his head .. who knows .. LOL! That was funny! Well... people always say the path to a man's heart is through his stomach IP: Logged
cat71 unregistered	posted July 26, 2007 03:11 PM My mum always says that Izo - Lord I also have Taurus rising and Cancer moon - so there you go IP: Logged
ciao unregistered	posted July 26, 2007 04:04 PM I know someone who has Jupiter in the 7th, but she's not attracted to 'beefy' men per se, but rather, very tall men. She likes them at least 6'1" with a lean build, her DC is in Capricorn, so maybe this has something to do with her preference. I've read that having Jupiter in the 7th attracts partners with a nice bank account...it's another form of expansion right? Don't know how valid this is, but my friend with the Jupiter in the 7th does seem to attract rich boys by the mile, lol. IP: Logged
Happy Dragon unregistered	posted July 26, 2007 04:08 PM ~ izodesmozina ~ re: what do you think his rising is? mmmmm .. Taurus rising would not suprise me .. 1 .. he looks quite 'bullish' .. walks slow but sure .. 2 .. his natal Merc is taurus .. he likes to verbalize frequently .. i doesn't matter about what .. it could be relating a story .. telling a joke .. making an observation about life .. or starting a conversation with a virtual stranger .. so .. i'd say potentialy Mercury on or just after his ascendant .. he's forever wanting to take a walk .. and has loads of curiosity about this that and the other .. i.e. anything that might be seen on any given walk .. "hey .. look at that .. let's investigate closer" .. :-)) and no matter where he is .. he always seems to know of some out of the way place that has really good .. if simple .. food .. .. but .. re the ladies .. i've always seen him as 'fire sign boy seeking earth mother ' .. he'd probably agree .. on the other hand there are cultures that see large women as extra-desirable .. not long back was a short tele docu. about woman in some west african state, who were suffering due to being force fed huge ammounts of milk as children .. simply 'cause the bigger the better when it came to marriage .. large wife equals big status symbol .. now in there 40's and 50's .. they have chronic illnesses that are linked to that early force feeding. IP: Logged
Neon Artemis unregistered	posted July 26, 2007 04:54 PM I've got jupiter + sun in the 7th, most of my boyfriends have had problems in the finance department except for one. I've also never been married. I prefer tall men, but haven't had a relationship with one. Maybe my jupiter is broken. LOL For whatver reason, I am not allowed to live out my 7th house planets through my partners by projection and have to own everything myself. IP: Logged
Isolaede Newflake Posts: 15 From: Sunny CA Registered: May 2009	posted July 26, 2007 05:14 PM I have Jupiter and Venus in my seventh house, and I�ve never dated any big guys. In fact, I used to date waif boys. Super skinny emo types. But then again, I also have never really cared to discriminate based on body type. I always figured I could date anyone, fat/thin, man/woman, pretty/ugly as long as I had a soul connection with them. So perhaps for me my Jupiter influence in my seventh house means I take a more expansive, accepting, and philosophical view of relationships. Since attraction is something that is often sexual, I wonder if aspects between Pluto or Mars and Jupiter might reveal something? IP: Logged
Neon Artemis unregistered	posted July 26, 2007 05:17 PM I didn't used to care about my sexual/physical preferences in the looks department, but after many years of dating not-so-good looking men, and them not treating me very well, I decided if I'm going to go for it I might as well have physical attraction too as well as a man who treats me well. Why not have it all? Now as far as what attracts me, MANY things do, I'm not really narrow minded about it, and can appreciate all different types of men. I think that's where my jupiter comes into play. IP: Logged
Juno unregistered	posted July 26, 2007 05:27 PM Sun Sagittarius 5�23'19 in house 9 direct Moon Virgo 2�59'25 end of house 6 direct Mercury Sagittarius 2�11'12 in house 9 retrograde Venus Scorpio 3�40'16 in house 8 direct Mars Scorpio 7�42'13 in house 8 direct Jupiter Capricorn 10�05'59 in house 11 direct Saturn Gemini 18�02'22 end of house 3 retrograde Uranus Libra 21�26'13 in house 7 direct Neptune Sagittarius 4�59'49 in house 9 direct Pluto Libra 3�58'38 in house 7 direct True Node Capricorn 17�42'31 in house 11 direct House positions (Placidus)Ascendant Pisces 4�58'45 2nd House Taurus 2�53'39 3rd House Gemini 1�19'16 Imum Coeli Gemini 20�25'44 5th House Cancer 7�39'30 6th House Cancer 28�08'37 Descendant Virgo 4�58'45 8th House Scorpio 2�53'39 9th House Sagittarius 1�19'16 Medium Coeli Sagittarius 20�25'44 11th House Capricorn 7�39'30 12th House Capricorn 28�08'37 Guy's details, I know him very well who seems to just love women generally but all his long term partners have been big girls, he had flings with slimmer girls but never permenant. Has always had problems with fidelity as well. my tastes in men are pretty varied physically from 5'6 wiry to 6'6 and muscles, never very plump men though. I seem to go more for some who uh interlectually stimulates me..... IP: Logged
bluegreyeyes Newflake Posts: 15 From: New York Registered: May 2009	posted July 26, 2007 05:41 PM this is a fun topic. i would love to know the answer to this. i think its definitely a fetish for some men... i know quite a few... a particularly a Cancer guy... ------------------ Christina Aquarius SUN Gemini MOON Aries ASC IP: Logged
OzMeg222 Newflake Posts: 0 From: victoria, australia Registered: Aug 2009	posted July 27, 2007 02:31 AM I know TWO cancer men who are into bigger (real) woman! One is married to my best friend, he's 6' and skinny, she's 5'11" with huge boobs and is a big chick. The other one is 5'9" and all stocky muscle (but not in that gym-body way) very very good looking and just turned 21 He's had a thing for me (I'm not huge but I have boobs and ass) and we've hooked up a few times. The last chick he was with had a huge ass and big thighs. He could have any chick he wants, he used to date skinny girls but I think I converted him lol. I'm pisces w gem asc and I used to only really date skinny musicians and surfers. Mostly jerks, ha had. The pisces I just couldn't get over was a very big boy. 6' and stocky as an ox with a great big beer gut. Manly. He was pisces w pisces asc (his new girl is bigger than me, guess he likes booty too!) The cancer I wrote about above is gorgeous and stocky, not the tall, lean muscle I used to go for. He's got the best chest! IP: Logged
nattie33 unregistered	posted July 27, 2007 08:26 AM neon Artemis i have been thinking about what you said before i read it.sometimes i think women feel men who aren't good looking should be grateful. and why not the standards for women are higher than the standards for men. but in my opinion a good looking hot man has nothing to prove they can get anyone at any time. where as an ugly man will always try to get more. give the attractive ones a chance IP: Logged
Neon Artemis unregistered	posted July 27, 2007 12:09 PM nattie33, Thanks for responding. Yes, in a way I did think that these men would appreciate me more than a good looking one (at the time, I hadn't met any good-looking men who were good people or respectful of women.) So, in a way I was settling. I found that these other guys were pretty emotionally crippled and resented me after awhile, I'm sure due to some subconcious vibes I was sending them. I tended to get rather haughty with them and told them I deserved better and let them know I considered the relationship temporary, because it felt awful to have them be so insensitive. I'm sure that felt really good to them and made the situation even worse, but my defenses kicked in and I didn't know enough about it at the time. As you said, I did think they did feel they had something to prove, and they flirted around and disrespected me in various ways - so if I was going to go through that anyway I might as well have gotten with a good looking man who was going to do the same thing, atleast I would have gotten something out of it. LOL I also learned that I was not giving my sexual attraction any say so in the matter, which I think is a mistake. I don't think there is anything wrong with being sexually attracted to someone and having that be important - just if it's the ONLY thing you're looking for at the expense of other considerations it can be trouble. I was also not confident enough in myself and giving myself enough credit to think that I could draw such a man to me, that was attractive and to also have him be monogamous. I didn't trust men or other women, I've seen women throw themselves at men who were taken just because they were good looking. Admittedly, I used to be that way in my teens/20s myself but I thankfully grew out of it. I had some major self-esteem issues. I believe we attract the kind of people that mirror how we feel about ourselves. I think I'll attract much better men in the future. IP: Logged
nattie33 unregistered	posted July 27, 2007 02:12 PM It has just been my experience with the not so goodlooking men that they are always looking. A friend of mine went out with someone many years ago. he was repulsive to the rest of society. and about two feet off the ground, she was attractive. medium height long blond hair and definatly had lots of guys interested in her. the minute her back was turned he hit on all of her friends. and when he was turned down by everybody he would go to her and tell her the girl was hitting on him. she would then get rid of that friend.One day i asked this Loser why he did that he said he was always looking for something better. She is now with someone else. i dont know what happened to him. All i know is when we saw him coming we ran. IP: Logged
sinderlou unregistered	posted July 29, 2007 01:16 PM What I have observed........... Most cancers I know have preferences for bigger framed girls with pretty faces I know a couple leo men that liked fuller figured women as well. IP: Logged
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009	posted July 29, 2007 01:24 PM My mom has Jupiter conj DCS, my dad is a lawyer, he isn't large btw. IP: Logged
Ann7 Knowflake Posts: 28 From: united states Registered: May 2009	posted July 29, 2007 02:42 PM One of my best friends is a Gemini with cancer rising and Venus in cancer and also has Jupiter in Aquarius in the seventh. He LOVES big women but they have to have curves.. but still. Put Angelina Jolie in front of him and -nothing-... She'd be to skinny. But put a girl with curves and a lot of extra meat in front of him and he is frothing at the mouth. I love that about him because it just goes to prove that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and not to get hung up on stereo types. IP: Logged
BornUnderDioscuri Moderator Posts: 49 From: Registered: Jun 2009	posted July 29, 2007 04:50 PM Hmmm very intriguing same with me as with Cat i like guys who are a little chubby. Also like muscular but not the uber chiseled etc (also ew) but just as Cat said "Stocky guys, with a few extra pounds and a waist that can keep their pants from sitting on their hips and showing their underwear - lord I hate that!" I have Jupiter in my 7th and a 9th house sun. IP: Logged
izodesmozina unregistered	posted July 31, 2007 02:16 AM Hmmmm... so partners are jupiterian, but not necessarily "large"... Interesting stuff about Taureans and Cancers! I will keep this in mind from now on. Thank you for all your answers! HD, quote: i've always seen him as 'fire sign boy seeking earth mother ' Well, he has a Taurus Moon, doesn't he? Your friend is an interesting character hehe. IP: Logged
izodesmozina unregistered	posted July 31, 2007 02:22 AM Hmmm... and maybe Adonis and Aphrodite can also point to the type of partner one is attracted to. (2101) Adonis (1388) Aphrodite IP: Logged
cat71 unregistered	posted July 31, 2007 06:45 AM That makes sense to me Izo - cos both those asteroids point to image in our consciousness Okay so my Adonis (perfect guy) is conjunct my DC IP: Logged

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