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Topic: Saggie Moon People
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sinderlou
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posted July 25, 2007 08:30 PM
 
Just wondering how sag moons are like when it comes to intimate relationships. Does the moon keep the intimacy more at a freindship level with a sense that they are always aware that their freedom is threatened? I have heard this but I thought I would get it straight from you sag moons! thanks! IP: Logged |
proudarcher
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posted July 27, 2007 08:06 PM
I think we appear to keep things on a friendship level, because it's much easier that way. I guess it would have something to do with needing the freedom. Most people think that just cause your a saggie means that u talk a lot and I guess u could say a big mouth. I personally do talk a lot, but not about myself. Because I am like that people assume that I trust them and open up to them. Thats where they are wrong. Some time keeping intamacy on a friendship level make it easier untill I can fully trust them and be able to express my true self. But yes freedom is a factor also,lol. I just don't like pressureIP: Logged |
EighthMoon
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posted July 28, 2007 12:00 AM
Hi Sinderlou!My Dad is a Cancer with a Virgo moon, and my Mom was a Gemini with a Sag moon. They laughed and joked a lot, but he is soooo emotional, and she was always much more light-hearted. Great sense of humor...and although she displayed great love in her own way, she was never very affectionate with him or emotional.  8th IP: Logged |
alvarella777
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posted July 28, 2007 05:28 AM
Hi there,I have a Saggie-MOON in 1st house, in a very strong position - and I agree with a lot of things PROUDARCHER said. I am renowned for my humour (sometimes I even go too far with that, for some people...), and there is definitely a need for feeling "free" and being able to "roam", a strong independent streak in me; especially as a woman, I find that some men tend to find it hard to accept that. BUT: It makes me generous - I do "allow" anybody their own freedom as well!!! So, I am not very jealous (only moderately so), and I am definitely looking for a partner who is broadening my world by doing "his own" thing as well, not only cling to me. I am generous and very interested in the individual idiosyncrasies other people have - I want to be accepted for who I am, and I accept other people for who they are. The interesting thing is: My Sun is in Cancer/8th house - so there's quite an opposite streak in me, as well... Cancerian, 8th house energy ... DOES have to do wiht clinging/possessiveness, ecc. In fact, my SAG-MOON is in square to my CANCER-SUN ... So, i do know what commitment means! I am very true, the typical "one-man-woman"-type, not at all promiscuous or sth like that. I just want commitment - without being caged in. And I need a lot of time for myself, for pursuing my own interests. I feel loved and respected, if someone allows me to do so. IP: Logged |
Peri
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posted July 29, 2007 01:21 PM
Sag Moon in the 11th here. I cannot even imagine myself being in a serious relationship with someone without being friends with them first. Friendship is very very important to me. Emotional freedom is vital, I just need it like air or water but it doesn't make me feel 'less', I just get very depressed without it, Sun on Ic and Venus conj Mars opp Pluto make me very deep and sensitive, they make my Saggie Moon suffer a lot; I wish I were more superficial. IP: Logged |
sinderlou
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posted July 30, 2007 09:02 AM
The Cancer Sun/Asc and Saggie Moon person I know seems like a contradiction. This person is very sensitive and a homebody. Also very loving yet there is an aloofness. They are not the jealous type like a Cancer. They could care less if their partner is even out with someone of the opposite sex. I don't know what else to think other than the fact they have this saggie moon. IP: Logged |
jenfullmoon
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posted August 17, 2007 12:49 PM
Another Sag moon in 1st (right before the 2nd cusp- not sure what to make of that).I would second this: "BUT: It makes me generous - I do "allow" anybody their own freedom as well!!! So, I am not very jealous (only moderately so), and I am definitely looking for a partner who is broadening my world by doing "his own" thing as well, not only cling to me." I'm a Taurus sun/Scorpio rising, so I should be rabidly jealous, right? Nope. I am very rarely so, and even when I am it doesn't last long. On the rare occasions when I have been in relationships, I can't help but notice that I tend to date guys who live in other towns, or have to go out of town or stuff like that. Someone who isn't there under my feet every day. When they're gone, I don't feel guilty going off to do my own thing. IP: Logged |
sinderlou
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posted August 17, 2007 02:11 PM
So basically saggie moon people counteract the effects of sun/asc signs that would normally cause clingly or jealous behaviour? so pisces scorps taurus and cancer suns issues with insecurities with their partners are really removed when there is a saggie moon in the chart? this is interesting........IP: Logged |
~jane_says~
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posted August 17, 2007 05:44 PM
I'm a Saggie Moon too...in the 2nd house...I'm pretty possessive and jealous when it comes to lovers! Something very different from the norm here... IP: Logged |
Dreamybecca
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posted August 17, 2007 06:12 PM
Sinderlou, I think it is a little more complex than that, I mean, it depends on other things in the chart, but I am not an expert.
I am a Sag Moon and I really love it, probably because all my love/passion for friendship & people, other cultures, languages, travelling, knowledge, etc comes from it
I suppose I need my little space, I respect other people's space, but so far I can remember, I have never been worried about my freedom, ot other people limiting it.
It is true that I have become quite insecure in certain things because of certain circumstances in my life, and because of it, I have felt jealous in silence in given moments, but I think that is related to other aspects in my chart, nothing to do with moon in Sag.
A while ago, I read this book, and I found it very interesting: http://books.iuniverse.com/viewbooks.asp?isbn=0595269206&page=fm1
Maybe it can help you.
Take care
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BroodingMooodlin
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posted August 18, 2007 06:14 AM
Hmm..this is all pretty interesting. I'm glad you brought this up, Sinderlou! You see, I'd mentioned enjoying my friendly intellectual exchanges with my cousins who all happen to be sag moons, pretty much (or the ones I'm referring to, specifically. It's funny because I always feel free to talk just about anything with them, and this can be mutual on both sides, though I do occasionally feel that I may be talking a bit more than they do...like maybe they kind of hold back in revealing more about their lives, sometimes. In that sense, their occasional "silence" kind of says a lot more about their need for privacy or freedom, I suppose. So now that you've mentioned the thing about talking about others but not necessarily about things that concern them personally strikes me as something familiar and interesting. I've especially noticed the latter in a friend/ potential love with that moon. The whole privacy thing was pronounced even more so in him than the rest because the others are actually family, although it's even more amusing that they all live in different countries so I don't usually have frequent opportunities to see them or talk (but always enjoy doing so when I can). IP: Logged |
alvarella777
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posted August 18, 2007 10:02 AM
To SINDERLOU:You asked: "So basically saggie moon people counteract the effects of sun/asc signs that would normally cause clingly or jealous behaviour?" First: As a Cancer-sun and Scorpio-ASC I don't agree with that jealousy-notion! Sorry, but this is one of the simpler atsrological cliches. ;-) Second: I try to explain the inner workings of the Cancer-Sun/Sag-Moon combo more clearly: As a Cancer, let's say I want to feel NURTURED and have strong PROTECTIVE instincts and a need for EMOTIONAL sharing and real, but private INTIMACY. Moon is the ruler of Cancer - Moon does help to satisfy these strong needs in me. With Moon in Sag i feel nurtured, protected and cared for when people allow me to be independent? That's when I feel appreciated and loved: When people trust me and let me be myself - and, vice versa, I feel able to nurture other people by inspiring them, giving them enthusiasm and be allowed to watch/take part in their very own personal development. That's my kind of caring. I like being "proud" of the people I surround myself with and I let them know. Besides, the sometimes detached traits of Saggittarius PROTECT me from being hurt too easily. I care for my Cancerian need of feeling "safe" by not being too attached too easily (Sag. moon). To me, it seems logical. ;-) IP: Logged |
SparklingSag
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posted August 19, 2007 05:31 AM
Okay, im a leo moon but Saggie sun. Friendship is incrediably important to me. Guys have fallen for me when all ive wanted was friendship...its caused some heartache for sure!But yes, if i want a partner, he has to prove himself as a friend first. But, my leo moon does like to be the centre of attention. I remember being on a date with a theatre actor (maybe a leo) and I love to dance and so did he. But he basically shoved me off the dancefloor so he could have all the space and attention. Needless to say this put my nose out of joint. (I say this laughing).
I recently fell for a cappie /saggie moon guy. Hmm, he was a little hot and cold to be honest. We were friends (after sharing a kiss)and i was falling for him after he made me laugh and shared the dancefloor! But alas, he is in mexico on an exchange study abroad program. My saggie sun is like yeah! that is so cool and i admire ambition and his energy.
anyways, i love being a saggie sun and i love saggie moon peeps. Sparkling
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sinderlou
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posted August 19, 2007 02:26 PM
Dreamybecca- thank you so much for that link! lots of good stuff on there and i have been reading it whenever i have some spare time!
BroodingMooodlin- very interesting perspective. I am really starting to understand this. This sag/moon has been really confusing me and now it makes more sense. I personally have a sun and moon in pisces so my way of thinking is so intuitive that i struggle to think in practical logical terms at times. I have a Libra asc (thank God) that i believe helps me out a lot to try to "get this" though and be more practical in general. thanks again!
alvarella777- wow! the way you described the cancer/sag combo was amazing! I can see it and you know, i think that it is a wonderful combination. thanks for your insight! YOU GUYS ARE GREAT!  IP: Logged |
Junity
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posted August 19, 2007 09:18 PM
i'm a saggie moon. It does keep distance in a relationship. When things get intense from his end, I automatically start looking for an exit. I can't handle intense feelings. I like to keep things light until I want intense. That sounds like a contradiction but I do have sun, venus in taurus and scorpio in mars.IP: Logged |
MUSTANG
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posted August 20, 2007 06:33 PM
I love my saggie moon.  It makes me philosphical, romantic, optimistic(even in the most trying of times) emotional, freedom-loving (and granting..to a certain extent, mind you  )and passionate. It also makes me simultaneously intuitive and logical. It makes me fun to be around, too. It's in my 8th house, which is a great place for the moon, IMHO. There, it takes on a more intense and deep turn, when a sag anything could get washed out. ------------------
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Dreamybecca
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posted August 21, 2007 01:21 PM
You are welcome, Sinderlou, I am glad you like it! Unfortunately, I cannot help you with the rest, since I am still a real ignorant in all these matters.
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