posted August 13, 2007 04:52 AM              

She also has moon square Mars and moon square Uranus, so maybe her energy lends itself to sudden outbursts also? It may just be something you both need to work on... maybe after having being together for a while, your natural energies are coming out (and not necessarily in a good way). How long have you been together?

You also have moon square Mars in composite as the apex of a T-square, so it could be a problem that this relationship needs to work on (not just the individuals).

I'm no expert, but those are just some thoughts.

posted August 13, 2007 07:13 AM              

venus / uranus / neptune / pluto / chiron .. are all currently Retrograde ..
check on how those planets are aspecting your charts ..

posted August 13, 2007 12:20 PM              

**.. sometimes I feel it is 100% me and she never needs to apologize or own up to her mistakes
maybe she doesn't feel like she's making mistakes to start with ..
mistakes acording to who ??? .. you .. ?

i'm starting to think maybe that Pluto to Mars transit in the .. composite ? .. is at the bottom of this .. something of a relationship control issue going on .. maybe ? ..
and as for that transit .. it would have thought it's been going on for a long time

posted August 14, 2007 02:14 PM              

** .. Things are feeling better now. .. **
that's good news .. :-)
sorry carl .. i may have been a bit impatient yesterday .. ( merc square merc transit )
i guess if i were in your state of mind over a lass ..
i wouldn't want to be trying to decipher chart degrees and what-not .. :-))

re: things feeling better .. well you've just had a transit from Saturn to your Node ..
i.e. the one on your astrodotcom chart ..
the nodes are a pretty sensitive point ..
( your true node is at 27.26 .. and t.Saturn is at 27.27 square to your true node ..
so .. that transit is by-byes now ..

i think i have your charts here .. will look at them later on ..
i.e. regarding outer planet transit timing .. 'n post when i can ..
those outer planet transits have been going on a while .. they are pretty slow movers ..

and .. your lady has a Saturn transit on as well ..
she's not long passed having been thru saturn sqaring natal saturn ( her saturn being at 25 degree )
BUT now .. she has transiting Saturn applying to oppose her natal Mars

one thing saturn can bring out ( so to speak ) is 'fault finding' ..
so maybe her 'nit picking' is part of her expresses that ..
( i'll have to re-read your posts ..
( but .. could you elaborate as to what her 'nit-picking' is ? ..
( aha .. i just scrolled up and noticed her gemini influence .. ;-))
( and t.saturn is moving to oppose them ..
methinks your going to have to develop some 'nit-pick' protection .. :-))
you mean she might come across as 'fussy' or similar .. ?

posted August 16, 2007 08:47 AM              

re: ** Hope that makes sense. **

yes it does .. :-)

turns out i just had her chart here .. ( without birthtime ) ..
anyhow 'input' both now .. was looking at them yesterday .. yet to write down notes ..
but as far as transits effecting both your charts .. it's mainly Saturn to an extent and Chiron .. the latter is hitting on both your sun positions plus the composite sun .. which sits right on the composite midheaven (mc ) .. thing is .. it's by retrograde movement .. so it's not the first hit ..

at the moment Chiron is applying by retro movement to square her sun ..
it was squaring your sun ( exactly i.e. 'close orb' ) about 6 weeks ago ..

currently .. saturn / merc / venus .. are squaring her natal saturn ..
plus they are all close to her leo ascendant in the first house ..

with saturn about .. folk can often go about 'fault finding' as it were ..
and with chiron about .. folk can end up feeling wounded ..
and wounding in return .. scapegoating to an extent ..
( not neccesarily aware that they are doing so ) ..

i'll get back once i've written down time-spans ..
( a few days maybe )
'cause when chiron goes direct ( 19th october ) .. it will be re-aspecting placements ..
( actually it will be 'exact' squaring her sun by then )

posted August 20, 2007 12:16 PM              

transiting Pluto squaring composite Mars .. 2005 thru 2009
transiting Chiron conjunct composite Sun/MC/Venus .. March 2007/August 2007/December 2007
transiting Lillith conjunct composite Pluto .. mid August 2007 ( ditto for both natal charts )
transiting Mars conjunct composite Chiron and Ascendant .. August 2007
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~ carlfloydfan ~ .. to natal chart ..

transiting Saturn squared natal Sun and MC .. August 2006
transiting Chiron squaring natal Sun and MC .. April 2007 / July 2007 / January 2008
transiting Chiron squaring natal Saturn .. March 2008 / August 2008 / January 2009
transiting Saturn square natal N.Node .. August 2007
transiting Saturn square natal Mercury .. September 2007
transiting Saturn square natal Chiron .. November 2007
transiting Jupiter conjunct natal Venus .. November 2007
transiting Lillith conjuct natal Sun / MC then natal Saturn .. November/December 2007

current transits in close orb ..

transiting Neptune sextile natal Venus
transiting Uranus trine natal Saturn
transiting Saturn square natal N.Node
transiting Chiron sextile natal Uranus
transiting Lillith conjunct natal Pluto
transiting Nodes square natal Chiron
transiting Mars conjunct natal Chiron / sextile natal Lillith
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~ gf ~ .. to natal chart ..

transiting Chiron squaring natal Sun and MC .. June 2006 / Feburary 2007 / October 2007
transiting Saturn conjunct Ascendant / then square to natal Saturn / then opposite natal Mars / then opposite natal Chiron .. mid 2005 thru till mid 2008
transiting Neptune opposite Ascendant / conjunct Descendant .. early 2007 thru till early 2009

current transits in close orb ..