posted August 25, 2007 12:43 AM            

There is a girl I'm friends with - a Gemini.. She is under the impression that every Aries guy she knows can see right through her. She is very afraid of these guys and feels uncomfortable because she thinks she can't even tell a little fib in their presence, since they would know.. As soon as she'd think of something - they'd know it. This includes 'dislike'.. She was afraid because she thought the last Aries guy she met would *know* that she doesn't like him.. This was someone she needed to impress in an interview so it made her very uncomfortable again.

This struck me as very odd astrologically, because it's the sort of thing you would normally read about Scorpio. It hasn't only happened with one guy either.. So far she counted four different Aries guys (very different ages as well). On all occasions, she had the same eerie (they know what I'm thinking - they see right through me/I can't lie to them) - feeling.

I did mention to her that usually this is said about Scorpio and maybe Pisces. She then said that she understands this because she had a Scorpio coworker..and whenever this coworker asked a question and looked straight at her.. Gem girl knew that no matter what she'd answer Scorp girl already read her.. However she thinks this is very different to the Aries guys - because they didn't need to ask anything.. and they usually never did ask. She had this feeling with them in casual conversation - not just on the spur of the moment or during a pivotal question (like she did with Scorp girl)

She also said she had a Piscean uncle - now passed away.. and he had an interesting aura about him but it was more so like he saw a side of her that was somewhere in the 5th dimension, not HER in the here and now, not what she was up to in the here and now.. so she wasn't afraid of him.
This is again different to the Aries guys who seem to be anticipating her every move.. in the present.

posted August 25, 2007 01:14 AM              

All of the aries people I was close friends with shared a telepathy skill with me. We would always be able to tell what and when the other was thinking about one another.

I think all signs can be psychic. It is written up more about scorpios, but that isn't always the case with them. I think they can be perceptive as a group, so that is where the psychic thing came about.

There is something else in the natal chart that would incline one to being psychic. It may be Pluto. It probably has a lot to do with the moon. I would also think neptune would be important.

posted August 25, 2007 11:51 AM              

Corny though it may seem, there's not generally a settled aura around Aries people. With my dad it's electrical sparks struck off flint, and he will tell you exactly what he thinks, regardless of how brutal it may seem (he is a man of few words, and doesn't take the trouble to phrase things delicately) - and yeah, I do get the feeling with him that he is taking everything in and inwardly digesting, as, like me, he's a rampant opportunist.

With my 80-year-old Aries friend I get a more gentle sparkly feeling - although she has done extensive counselling and healing for many years, she finds me a bit of a mystery, and claims not to be able to work me out. I tell her it's because I can't even fathom myself out!!

Hope this helps.

Love,

Xena

posted November 17, 2007 12:50 AM              

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Your Sun in your partner's 12th House: This overlay can be a confusing one. There can be a general sense of mistrust that stems from misunderstanding. In some cases, you might be very fascinated with your partner, as if he or she marches to the beat of a different drummer. However, you may not "get" what he or she is all about, ultimately, and you should avoid finding irrational reasons to mistrust your partner as a result of this. Your actions will have a profound emotional impact on your partner, as you pull up many emotions in him or her. There may be a sense in your partner of having to give up something or to make sacrifices, as being together can bring up some level of pain or heartache, and possibly the need to be secret and private. The relationship can just as easily be very spiritually rewarding.

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Sun 12th house
The placement of the Sun in twelfth house of a partner's chart suggests a somewhat intuitive ability to communicate. You are well "tuned in" to him, and there is a somewhat subconscious connection. You may be something of a "help-mate" to the other, especially with regard to understanding life as a whole. Frequently, this placement brings a complete change of perspective to this person whose twelfth house is visited.

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posted November 17, 2007 01:05 AM              

You know, I think for a Gemini, they can easily get anxious when people try to impose their thoughts onto them. The Geminis are adaptable chameleons afterall... The really frail ones can even *believe* people can easily read them because they flex themselves into what people actually think who she is, mold her, and tell what her "true" secrets are, etc.

I think the key is to assure her that not all Aries men are Svengalis. She needs to be just a little more clever on her part, she is a Gemini afterall, SHE CAN DO IT! And to be true to herself, not to fib around. Don't let anyone else think for her, who she is, because that will really get her thinking and anxious that people control her life and her thoughts. Geminis live in a mental world.. and if powerfully mental people impose on her, then she might as well not exist.

posted November 17, 2007 02:32 AM            

I'll ask what her birth time is and have a look. Maybe she hasn't had this problem lately.. I haven't seen her in a while.