posted August 31, 2007 04:20 PM            

And, what is it about these evil Cancer men that just suck me in like a freaking black hole, despite my conviction to never go there again?

posted September 01, 2007 01:09 AM            

My first serious relationship was with a Scorp .. I liked it but after a while I wanted to move on.. but she clinged on for a long period of time after I broke up with her.. so it was basically freinds with benefits for a while after that... I think I would date another scorp.. If I wasnt in love with my gf.. it is a good match.. just make sure the rest of the planets fit.. I couldnt stand her cancer moon always trying to be my mom and telling me whats wrong and whatnot and always worrying about me.. oh and her ascendent aquariius both of them I think drove me away from her.. despite my sun being in cancer I just dont think I do good with those moons..

posted September 01, 2007 01:39 AM            

I am kind of hoping that two mature people from both sides wouldn't have that problem and be able to benefit from the great aspects and potential of this combination, but I have not heard of a successful partnership between the two. The good aspects are absolutely fantastic, so I see a lot of potential (from both sides).

Yeah, I know it would be more than just sun signs... This new Cancer guy has his sun exactly trine mine and Libra moon trine my Gemini moon and we both have the same ascendant (though, not conjunct). We have some good aspects and some bad, so I suppose time will tell.

I would love to know my exes exact birth time to try and find the dysfunction. It has crossed my mind that perhaps it was his Leo moon, as I have somehow turned two of my exes with Leo moons ballistic... The last one not quite so bad as the first, but it was eye opening... Perhaps, instead, I should be studying my own chart and why I am attracted to men like this... LOL! Actually, the second, didn't go ballistic until the relationship ended after 7 years. Who knows...

Question, would a rather forward partner scare a Cancer guy off? Do they like to be the definite aggressors in the relationship or can there be a give and take in that department? It has been about 10 years since I played the Cancer game...

Thanks for your response!!