posted September 22, 2007 01:44 AM            

thank you so much ...

me
12/16/1970
Roanoke Virginia
1:55pm

posted September 22, 2007 09:46 PM            

This is your chart (in case anyone else wants to reply and give some insight they tend to respond better to actual charts)

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synastry chart

Sun in the Fifth House 5th hs

Sun in the fifth house of the composite chart is one of the best positions for a sexual relationship. It is also the house of creativity, children, self-expression, amusement, and good times in general. The Sun in the fifth house gives a strong emphasis to any of these elements.

In a personal relationship, a composite fifth-house Sun implies that your relationship will give you good opportunities for self-expression, for being yourself and enjoying it.

This is a good position for friendship because it indicates a light-hearted relationship in which you genuinely enjoy each other's company.

Sun Conjunct Jupiter

Sun conjunct Jupiter is one of the most useful configurations in a composite horoscope. In fact, there will be growth, expansion, and luck in many areas of your lives together.

First, you will have a general sense of well-being, of comforting each other when you are together, even of nurturing and protecting.

Second, there is likely to be material prosperity. Even if you are not wealthy, you will feel that together you have enough.

Third, this aspect will have the effect of expanding your consciousness of yourselves and each other, and of increasing your understanding.

Sun Square Moon

Composite Sun square composite Moon indicates a fundamental tension within the relationship.

There is a sense of tension on the psychological level, which prevents you from being really at ease with each other. However, this can also work in a positive way by making the relationship challenging and creative, so that it doesn't fall into stale patterns and behavioral ruts.

Sometimes, for reasons that are not entirely clear, the Sun-Moon square can create a rather strong mutual fascination. It is as if each of you sees in the other something you want very much, even though you cannot handle it very well. A Sun-Moon square is quite likely to be found in the composite chart of an intense love affair.

Moon in the First House 1st hs

The composite Moon in the first house makes clear that in this relationship your feelings and emotions are very prominently involved.

Obviously, this placement is favorable to any relationship in which you want to relate on a close, intimate level.

You have a deep emotional understanding of how you get along. But the Moon can also create such a strong emotionalism that you are unable to stand back and look at yourselves clearly in terms of your relationship. Be careful to avoid such extreme emotional involvement.

One thing i noticed in the composite is Moon square Uranus. Itsa definately hard aspect. It brings surprising fights seemingly out of no where. But at the same it could be overcome. My bf and I have a lot of Uranus oppositions. You have many positive aspects in your charts. I most definately wish you all the best.

He is going through a first house Saturn transit. U can read about it here:
http://www.cafeastrology.com/saturntransitinghouses.html

Also a 7th into 8th house Uranus transit
http://www.cafeastrology.com/uranus_transits_houses.html

I hope this helps at all...I tend to write too much. Best of luck to you

posted September 23, 2007 03:21 PM              

re:
** I'm just beside myself with hurt .. and anger * .. and more hurt.. ** ..

t.jupiter has squared your natal lillith .. ** and currently sextiles natal uranus ..
t.chiron is squaring the mid-point between your natal venus and mars **
t.chiron is opposing your natal moon **
t. lillth has just conjoined your natal mars .. and descendant .. *

t.saturn squares your natal neptune ..
t.pluto is about 2 degrees past your natal sun

chiron is still retrograde ..
but jupiter and pluto have recently gone direct ..

so as far as your chart is concerned ..
i'd speculate that your reacting to transiting chiron .. in the main ..
i.e. the hurt feelings ..
with added 'anger' courtesy of aspects to and from lillith ..
( from my own experience i'd say that lillith has a tendency to add feelings of 'hate' ..
( on a bad day .. that is .. ;-)))

unfortunately chiron is hanging about the 10 degree mark till november ..
( i.e. opposite your moon )
it's basicly at the end of a retro cycle .. more or less stationary ..
i.e. moving very verys low .. before it turns direct ..

probably be a good idea within the transiting chiron period ..
to think thrice before reacting to any perceived emotional wounding ..
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hubbie's chart ..

again transiting chiron ..
currently about 2 degrees past squaring his natal saturn ..
so when it goes direct .. it will re-aspect his saturn

transiting saturn is only a couple of degrees past a conjunction with his natal mercury ..

transiting lillith is currently opposite his natal saturn ..
transiting jupiter is currently opposite his natal moon **
transiting uranus currently trines his natal lillith ..
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lillith transits last about 10 days ..
lillith does not go retrograde ..

t.jupiter can exaggerate emotions quite easily ..
add t.chiron and t.lillith to the mix ..
potentialy much hurt and anger ..

t.jupiter is moving on fairly quickly ..

the last time chiron made the same aspects to ..
your moon .. and his saturn ..
was january - feburary 2007

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