posted September 30, 2007 07:59 PM              

he has venus sextile my chiron
i have venus opposite his chiron (his chiron is also conj my DC and his moon)

posted September 30, 2007 08:23 PM            

It doesn't have to be a conjunction. The Magi Society, who coined the "Cinderella Linkages" looks at conjunctions, oppositions, trines, quincunxes, and to some degree sextiles.

They do have to be within 3 degrees of eachother though.

For more information: http://www.jupitersweb.com/magi_astrology_aspects.htm

posted September 30, 2007 10:10 PM              

well, it's a 3.36 degree orb so i'm hoping that is good enough.

the other orb is far too big (his venus to my chiron) BUT his mercury and sun/moon midpoint are sextile my chiron! not the same i guess though..

posted September 30, 2007 11:08 PM              

his moon trine my sun
my moon sextile his sun
his venus sextile my moon
his moon probably conjunct my dc (not sure the exact time)
his sun, merc, venus in my 7th house
his chiron exactly on my DC
my vertex exactly on his mars (my jupiter conj more widely)
his vertex very likely on my NN
his NN exactly on my sun/moon midpoint
his vertex/pluto opposite my chiron (so, his anti-vertex is on my chiron)

his psyche conjunct my NN
my eros conjunct his neptune

our junos are one degree apart (and each form many happy seeming aspects to our individual charts, including sextiling my chiron)
his chrion is opposite my venus..

his isis is exactly conjunct my DC (and his moon) and
his osiris is exactly conjunct my moon
my isis trines his chiron and sextiles his jupiter but there are no conjunctions
my osiris however is exactly on my anti-vertex AND exactly conjunct my mercury and mars AND opposite his mars (exactly conjunct my vertex), so me thinks there is some big door opening here in terms of soul recognition..

my ceres exactly trines his moon/my DC and trines his chiron
his ceres is on my ASC, within 2 degrees and is exactly on my venus/neptune midpoint (which are conjunct widely)
his valentine is one degree off my moon, and mine is sextile his sun..

also, my venus trines his jupiter, exact
his venus trines my uranus exact
his uranus conjuncts my asc, etc.

there are a lot more but these feel like the most significant, i think..

posted October 01, 2007 01:50 AM              

It's probably all the 7th house aspects between you, as well as the NN conjunct the sun/moon midpoint. Chiron is important, but it's not the be all and end all that the magi make it out to be. That said, the chiron-venus opposition, if close, can mask itself as a cinderella aspect, but in the end, can mean heartbreak. It's called the impossible dream aspect, as in, you dream about this relationship continually even though it may become impossible to realize.

Still, don't be led by synastry. In the end, your relationship is what you make it to be. Astrology is but a blueprint.

The magi don't do houses, but as in their stance on the Moon, they're fooling themselves. I love people's personal planets in each other's 7th house. It brings in a natural yin-yang, push-pull chemistry that is important in romantic relationships and even more important in partnerships, as it denotes complementarity.

posted October 01, 2007 02:21 AM              

yep the venus-jupiter trine is exact; 0.32 degrees.

it's really interesting, that venus-chiron opposition (it's actually a 4 degree orb so maybe not SO strong?) because there are so many things happening. his moon is conj his chiron (not sure how close cuz he doesn't konw the exact time), it's on my dc, my venus is on my asc, and there are other conjuntions along my asc/dc axis as well, like my venus/neptune midpoint (they are less than 9 degrees apart on either side anyway), conj my asc, also his isis, saturn and uranus as well.

whew! so there is a lot happening there on MY asc/dc line.. have to try to de-jumble it sometime and figure out what it all means!

posted October 01, 2007 11:16 PM              

Yes, 4 deg is not close. Still, keep an eye on it. I would sort all the aspects you have in three groups:
1) exact or partile
2) within three degrees
3) within 5 degrees.

The last group, especially if it pulls in more than two planets (personal is better than outer), you're good to go. You will feel the effect.

Also, check out any grand trines or conjuncted trines between you. Conjuncted trines are stuff like, you have a conjunction, and one of his planets trines that conjunction. The orb of ONE of the aspects between the planets can be all the way up to 5 degrees max. Same goes for the GT. ONE aspect can be 5 degrees, no more. As soon as you get into more than 5, the intensity goes down. Think of it in terms of music and a guitar strings and orb strengths will make more sense.

posted October 02, 2007 04:58 AM              

Also, if you look into Magi-astrology, don`t forget to check the parallels and contraparallels. If an aspect is repeated in longitude and declination, a so called bi-level-aspect, like Venus conjunct Neptune and Venus parallel Neptune, it`s definitely a "hot spot", and I guess, it makes you feel wider orbed aspects more intensely, if they are bilevel.

posted October 02, 2007 05:31 PM              

so.. i'm just wondering, are the many conjunctions we share extra potent then? like it seems to me we have an inordinate amount of conjunctions (but i'm not really sure). and if that is true, are they extra-fated? that's how it feels to me..

posted October 02, 2007 07:17 PM              

venus trine jupiter 0.36
uranus trine venus 0.32
moon sextile venus 0.25
asc conj uranus 0.41
sun sextile saturn 0.06
jupiter conj sun 3.34
desc conj chiron 1.21
chiron trine neptune 0.46
sun trine moon not sure the degrees quite, but probably within 5
moon sextile sun 8 degrees - but up to 10 is okay with sun and moon, right?
neptune conj uranus 3.29
saturn sextile mercury 2.47
MC trine chiron 3.28
pluto trine moon 1.45

we don't know his exact birth time but it PROBABLY puts his moon exactly (1 or 2 degrees off, into my 7th) on my DC and puts his ASC conj my DC as well (with a few degrees). also, his sun, merc, venus, sun/moon midpoint, and chiron all fall into my 7th house! this is really good right?

and the asteroids are more interesting to me, and chiron.. i'll post those next, it just might take me a bit.

posted October 02, 2007 09:25 PM              

Diandra is right. The Magi say that if there's a Venus-Chiron opp (or square) in the synastry and if both or one of the people involved have a Chiron-Uranus opp or square in their natal charts then somehow that equips the person(s) to weather the kind of push-pull the Venus-Chiron might cause. Maybe 'cos they're used to the push-pull in their personal dynamics... dunno.

And yes, they hold up Will Smith and Jada Pinkett as examples. But I think we need to find more of those before we can say anything definite about this.

As for the declinations, I disagree about their strength. I think parallels and contraparallels, if close, can be tremendously powerful just by themselves. But they need to be within 35-50 mins for this to happen.

posted October 02, 2007 09:29 PM            

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Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer

posted October 02, 2007 09:38 PM              

i have

jupiter square chiron 2
nep ses chiron 0
mnn ses chiron 0
msn ssq chiron

(i don't know anything about minor aspects.. but i guess these are challenging?)

he has

moon conj chiron (not sure degrees)
mars ssq chiron 0
jupiter sextile chiron 3
uranus opposite chiron 2

posted October 02, 2007 09:43 PM            

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Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer

posted October 03, 2007 02:10 PM              

we have his birth time within 10 minutes and it puts his DC on my ASC (well, within 6 degrees, but that is really good right??!), his moon on my DC forsure, his MC is *exactly* on my sun and 4 degrees from my merc/mars!

oh and it means that we each have venus in eachothers' 7th houses!! (also, his sun, sun/moon mp, merc and chiron are in my 7th, and my neptune and ascendant are in his)

and we have one grand trine sofar (i just checked):

his moon
my pluto
my sun

posted October 03, 2007 02:16 PM              

but one of the orbs is 7 degrees.. i wonder though, could it maybe sort of kind of count? it seems significant; the planets involved..

my chiron
my saturn
his neptune

okay and there is one more. does SN count? this one is exact degrees:

my sn
my uranus
his venus

and..