posted October 10, 2007 05:05 PM
What Saturn aspects would you want to look for in a relationship, and how would you pick people to date based on their birth year/Saturn placement?Okay, examples:
* anyone I date around my age that's a Saturn in Leo is going to set off all of my natal Saturn squares (moon/Venus being the real problems for me), and I'll set off any of his. Is that too harsh and hard to do in a relationship?
(I have dated one person who fell into this category, and let's just say he clearly felt less "bound" into the relationship than I did. So from RL experience, I dunno.)
* if I date someone a little younger than me with Saturn in Virgo, odds are he probably won't set off much (if anything) in my chart. Is that good or bad?
(The ex that I was engaged to and with the longest fell into this category. NO Saturn contacts in the synastry or composite! No, we're not together and it was an easy parting on my end (not sure on his), but in RL, this lasted longer.)
* If one wants to have a lasting relationship, should they look for people whose Saturns are placed in beneficial areas to them?
Say, I'm born in 78 and try dating someone who's born in 74, because their Saturn would be conjunct my Jupiter and sextile my Sun. Or someone in 68 because our Saturns would trine and my Mercury would be conjunct their Saturn. Would that be any better than the previous alternatives?