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posted October 15, 2007 12:25 AM            

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Her venus in my 5th house (synastry). How does that play out? How am I affected and how is she affected?

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posted October 15, 2007 06:13 AM            

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Venus in 5th house in synastry is usually a good sign of deep attraction and love...it helps for more stable romantic relationship. it's actually imho one of the best placements for Venus compared to 7th or 1st house.

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posted October 15, 2007 07:13 AM              

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So what about if his Venus falls into my 12th house? Does it means that somehow his way of loving is hidden to me?

The way i see 12th house is somehow strange-some says its the misterious and others the past lives house !

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posted October 15, 2007 07:20 AM            

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Venus in 12th house doesn't account for very much, at least not for me...I've had Venus in 12th in synastry with a few people I cared for alot, and just end up feeling bad in the end. It also depends on what sign Venus is in too as to how it really plays out, there might be some sort of hidden love there expressed in a different manner that is not of the usual 'kissy face' type of affection. A far as past lives, there might be something to that...karmic love that must find its way, a different path

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posted October 15, 2007 07:54 AM              

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Thanks for your appreciation on that.

His Venus is in Virgo(my sun sign) and in sinastry trines my Moon

We have in composite venus conj sun in 1st house in Virgo

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posted October 15, 2007 10:27 AM            

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I appreciate you guys helping me! My question is which person is affected by the 5th house description, the planet or house person?

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posted October 15, 2007 10:38 AM            

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I would say the planet person..If you think that 5th house Venus is bad talk to people that have someone's mars fall in thier 5th house..Aaarrrggghhhh!!!! My mars fell in this guys 5th house and I had to knock him out because he could not control himself when it came to touching me...

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posted October 15, 2007 12:15 PM              

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haha
But having people Mars in your fifth is fun!

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posted October 15, 2007 12:59 PM              

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I dunno about that, most people who have had mars in my 5th house came across as really selfish and agressive, and "me me me" when it came to 5th house issues. I was always asked to do something for them and touch them instead of them letting it happen naturally.

(But I also have my own mars there so that could be why it was irritating.)

I have a relationship with someone who has their moon in my 5th, and it feels much sweeter. I like to touch him all the time, but emotionally he enjoys it.

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posted October 15, 2007 01:07 PM              

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I think both people are effected in different ways.. the house person feels it like those planets are transiting their chart, and the planet person feels like their planets are expressing in those houses. I don't think it's ever one-sided.

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posted October 15, 2007 03:55 PM            

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So is it safe to say that she feels the effects of the 5th house? Basically, its like she is in my house feeling my hospitality (so to speak)? (I know, I know LOL, its a bad analogy LOL)?

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posted October 15, 2007 04:32 PM              

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yes, that's how I always approach it. People say it's one way (the house person) or the other (the planet person), I don't see why it can't be both. It makes more sense to me.

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posted October 15, 2007 05:31 PM              

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The person I'm dating has his 10th house moon and saturn in my 5th house and he always feels playful like a teenager when I'm around, we play, it gives him good feelings and and a break from his career, but maybe even stimulates him more there - plus my mars and venus are there revving him up, he's wanting to change his career to something more enjoyable for him so he can express himself (my mars) and have more fun. ( my venus) He's also wanting to lighten up on himself and not be so hard on himself emotionally (his saturn conj moon is wanting a break)

My 5th house mars and venus are on his MC, and when I'm around him I feel driven to get my creative projects going and "out there" in the community AND my 5th house is flooded with feeling and emotion (by his moon) and a desire to structure and discipline my endeavors (his saturn) and be more responsible and create a lasting artistic career, (and relationship with him) so I think it's definately a mutual effect.

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posted October 15, 2007 06:54 PM              

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I'm pretty sure the synastry has to be compared to what your top planets are-if one of your dominant planets is the sun, or if you have a lot of planets in the 5th then venus in the 5th can be good.

But for me, the men usually have their venus fall in my 1st, third or sixth houses. I've had a number of male friends with their venus in the 5th-it was always lackluster.

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