posted October 16, 2007 12:21 AM              

We are supposed to be letting go of the South Node and Working towards the North Node.

Strangly we will often find ourselves attracted to people of the South Node because we are comfortable there...
In order to grow and learn though we should be focused towards the North Node.

The North Node connecting to a planet in the other's chart is a sign of important spiritual lessons which may be learned.

The South Node represents habit patterns from childhood or from past lives. These are comfortable patterns, but they often get in the way of you having the kinds of connections you want with other people. These are especially powerful if you have a planet conjunct the South Node in your chart.

The sign and house placement of the South Node tells where you have a tendency to totally overdo things. There is a longing there, a craving that is very strong. The nature of this longing is shown by the sign of the South Node. For example, in Taurus, the craving is for material security. In Leo, for recognition. In Gemini, for information.

The sign and house of the North Node represent circumstances and activities that usually feel unfamiliar. It’s the “secret shadow” of the South Node sign, and it’s the key to getting that craving met. That’s why the North node reveals an area of massive growth potential in your life. It’s the key to getting energy flowing.

I hope this helps?

posted October 16, 2007 12:50 AM              

My SN in Capricorn and his NN in Scorpio, it is very intense and a struggle but we always find out way back to each other, then we seperate and come back and so on for the past six years.