posted October 28, 2007 04:01 PM            

Sorry that you're hurting.

I can't give the male perspective, but I'm a Pisces w/ a moon in Gemini. There's really no straightforward answer to this because it really depends on your connection and the depth of the relationship. For me, if I didn't see us growing in a positive way from the relationship, I would move on. But, I have also had experiences where maybe it was just the timing was off the first time and the second time around was better.

Are you able to talk to him and ask him about it? If you can bring it up w/o being overly emotional during the conversation, we're fairly good at communicating. We don't ever like to see anyone else hurting...especially if we are the ones who caused it...and that can make us clam up.

Hope this helps a little.

8th

posted October 28, 2007 07:49 PM              

He will not answer my text or calls. With a Gemini Moon, can you tell me would you change your mind often, once you make a decision. I feel very down to tell you the truth. I read that Pisces with Gemini Moon could make a decision and stick by it and then the next day, change their mind.

posted October 28, 2007 07:50 PM              

He will not answer my text or calls. With a Gemini Moon, can you tell me would you change your mind often, once you make a decision. I feel very down to tell you the truth. I read that Pisces with Gemini Moon could make a decision and stick by it and then the next day, change their mind.

posted October 28, 2007 07:58 PM            

I'm still not sure what the situation was between the two of you...or if there was a commitment, so it's hard to say.

If he's not answering your calls or texts, then give him space...

posted October 28, 2007 10:16 PM              

** The Pisces I knew has moved on and ended it all, just like that **
sounds possibly like transiting Uranus at work

** With a Gemini Moon, can you tell me would you change your mind often, once you make a decision.**
gemini moon here .. moods change .. never quite sure what they're going to be like ..
i.e. without looking at up 'n coming transits

** could make a decision and stick by it and then the next day, change their mind.**
sounds more like a mercury thing .. i.e. merc in pisces might swim one way then the next ..
just speculating is all ..
i've merc in taurus .. and rarely change my mind about anything ..
unless i've got good reason to do so ..

posted October 29, 2007 07:09 AM            

Air, esp a Gem moon would help him keep emotionally detached, a bit, through the whole thing, however the Pisces always has trouble hurting others and will always do what is not necessarially correct for themselves to not hurt the other.

Elusiveness and evasivness are Pisces traits anyway, so at the end of a relationship if these qualities are really coming to light, then you are seeing the true nature of the Fish.

Like the thread about letting a Pisces woman go...just let him go, because he will anyway and I would bet he has been swimming away, aleast emotionally for a while.

Blessings

posted October 29, 2007 08:10 AM              

I find that very true. I'm a Pisces (female though but still rather relevant) and I have two different relationships in the past few years that have come back to that same thing.

I think it depends if one wants to be swept back 'into the arms of another person' so to speak will they move on quickly. The last relationship I was in didn't end the best. I was very unhappy for months prior to the breakup that when it came to the last minutes I literally went cold on him and .. lets call it 'bitchy'.

I also think the Gem moon helped him cope with the moving on part, whereas I do find myself thinking about the exs and wondering if they're fine and okay.

posted October 29, 2007 09:43 PM              

From what I know they do get disenchanted very quickly, like children.

posted October 29, 2007 10:31 PM            

I can't agree, that anything is ever *completely* lost.. or that what you said applies to all Pisceans.

posted October 30, 2007 10:44 PM            

Just a thought...

posted September 12, 2022 10:38 PM            

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Originally posted by rusalka:
ariespink, i recently had experience with piscean guy, his moon is in capricorn.
we finished suddenly, with no explanations given, he simply disappeared, although i´ve tried way too many times to talk to him and ask what has really happened. he simply refused any contact with me.
until today, i still don´t have a clue why he cut off contact with me.
i don´t think this has much to do with being pisces or not, just with the upbringing, being from different enviroments, etc.
he was definitely very traditional.
the fact is, he does have many girl friends, more than gys.
hope this helps a bit

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posted October 20, 2022 05:50 AM            

I know that Pisces men have caused women the worst grief through this behavior. Prominent examples include Rex Harrison and Friedrich Creutzer. Both men made women desperate, who later even committed suicide [Rachel Roberts in Rex Harrisons case, and German poet Karoline von Günderrode in Creutzers' case].

Pisces itself is a very feminine sign and often does not express classic male traits like Aries, but comes to you in the form of a dreamer, an artist, a priest, a doctor or some caregiver. Their attachment to femininity is early on stronger than living out male characteristics. I know many Pisces who have a very close relationship with their mother, but have a problematic relationship with their dad and therefore later have more female friends than male friends or even secretly reject classic masculinity.

posted October 20, 2022 07:45 AM            

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Originally posted by rockwell:
They live in a different world and are mentally screwed. I say this as someone who has a Pisces dad and knows a bunch of other Pisces. Unfortunately, my experience is that Pisces will take a special interest in you whenever you are cold, indifferent, or disinterested in them. So they do exactly the opposite of what you'd expect from them. Pisces always remembers their ex-lovers. From time to time they will still think about you, stalk your social media profiles and sometimes they come back after months of silence. The bad thing about Pisces is that they first make you emotionally dependent by being warm, caring, and affectionate and then they suddenly disappear. The dark side of Pisces is cruelty. I know many of them who quickly move on after a breakup and, contrary to the sweet impression they give off, suddenly no longer care about your feelings - even if they say they do or pretend to give you hope. It's an illusion.

I know that Pisces men have caused women the worst grief through this behavior. Prominent examples include Rex Harrison and Friedrich Creutzer. Both men made women desperate, who later even committed suicide [Rachel Roberts in Rex Harrisons case, and German poet Karoline von Günderrode in Creutzers' case].

Pisces itself is a very feminine sign and often does not express classic male traits like Aries, but comes to you in the form of a dreamer, an artist, a priest, a doctor or some caregiver. Their attachment to femininity is early on stronger than living out male characteristics. I know many Pisces who have a very close relationship with their mother, but have a problematic relationship with their dad and therefore later have more female friends than male friends or even secretly reject classic masculinity.

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The sad thing is I can kinda relate to this. From the perspective of a Pisces centric female.

I have Mc 22,sun23, bml 55, mercury/ceres 28.

Though I attributed it to my Aquarius 29 Venus

His Venus/mars straddled my Venus
Trined our conjunct plutos
And trined his nn

It went from absolute dream to catastrophic suddenly

I didn’t know astrology then

It was very romantic, he was an amazing bf to me
Sweet,kind,loving,thoughtful
And we were so incredibly into each other

But as soon as I needed to focus on something other than him
He totally freaked out

it didn’t make sense because I spent the same amount of time with him that I always had.
I was working on graduating (he was a year older)
My mom got into a car accident and I needed to help take care of her
I was living with him and his mom
They’d drop me off at school on their way to work.
They worked together and were really close.
I had so many extra credits I only had to go half day.
So I’d go to my parents after school .
I’d help my mom bathe, do laundry and clean I’d
Do my homework .
And when him and his mom got off work ,they’d pick me up.

So when I was with him, I was with him.
My mind wasn’t anywhere else!
Or doing a ton of homework …
But just that I was focusing on things that required my attention, it made him insecure.
He was so emotional and sweet but instead of talking about it, his became inconsolably manic.
And he crossed a few boundaries
The first one was when he started to act insecure and I tried to talk to him, he overreacted and ran into his moms room.grabbed a gun and threatened to kill himself because he was thought I was breaking up with him.
This pretty much killed the whole “love “ illusion right there.
And I wanted to get away from him as fast as possible without him hurting himself.
At this point I realized an incident we had earlier that week where I had to use the morning after pill ,may not have been so accidental.
He was making wife references and like talking as if we were married. And was talking a lot about a future family.
It was romantic till it wasn’t.
Pluto took hold and I didn’t want anyone to get hurt
It took me three months to feel like I could break from him safely.
In the meantime his possessiveness of me grew.
At one point in time it was a hair trigger.
While he was driving he went off in tears waving his hands in the air and swerving through traffic. Making some big outburst how he should just end it all..going on how we weren’t close or intimate anymore.
It was true, I couldn’t bear to sleep with him
But I didn’t want to hurt him either
I could not be with him.
It wasn’t healthy for either of us.
I grabbed the wheel and told him to snap out of it.
That night I told his mom everything .
Shortly after I convinced him that I needed to move back home to take care of my mom.
After that I weaned him off of me for a month.
Until he had some of his own life back .
Then at a point he just asked me if this was it.
And I kindly told him I think so.
That I didn’t think I was a healthy influence on him,
That I cared deeply for him but that we both had some things to concentrate on,
And He agreed to a break.
A couple weeks after he called and offered to drop some of my stuff off and asked if we could exchange a few movies.
He wanted this movie he referred to as “our movie”
It was called sweet November
Apparently,this was our movie because we started dating in November
I suggest you read the synopsis of the movie as it described a very piscean outline much like your story.

Anyways, I told him I had plans that day and was leaving to go out and asked if he could drop by the following day.
He flipped out and said he was already on his way.
Said he was up the street.
I felt cornered and bombarded.
He didn’t react well to me going out.
Nor to the fact that I wasn’t willing to stop and meet him.
I panicked and put the movies on the front porch.
Yelled at my mom they “**** was coming by to drop of some stuff and that his movies were on the porch and ran out the door.
I took off to my neighbor friends and called to have my friend pick me up there.

When I got home later that evening, my mom berated me.
She went on about hold cold that was,
How I left that poor sweet boy sobbing on the porch
And she was consoling him for an hour.
I never told her what was happening before
but when I did And She just replied how lucky I was.
I was not surprised she’d think it would be great to have someone that dedicated to you. She’s super co defendant.

After that I went dark. I didn’t reconnect on a friendship basis for 5 years.

At that point I was getting married and he was engaged too.

I wanted to clear up any bad blood and karma .

And start my marriage off on a lighter note.

We had a nice long conversation. Where despite the end we still cared and didn’t harbor harsh feelings for each other.

His mom stepped in at some point and helped him see how unhealthy he was being.
She pointed out some familial toxic behaviors his dad had that resembled very closely to how his was acting.

He was very female orientated and very much was a mommas boy.

I actually really liked that about him.
And I really loved her too.

He said it really made him see through this cloud of bad judgment and never blamed me.

He told me it took awhile to heal but he found that dating helped him get his mind off it.

He ended up marrying a woman who uncannily looks so similar to me it’s off putting.

When I met her, she really noticed and I think it made her uncomfortable.

We are mostly Facebook friends but we’ve seen each other a couple times with our spouses at group events and are friendly.

My husband knew him while I was dating him.
My husband and I have known each other since I was 16.

His nickname his wife is the same one he had for me…
That fact is a bit creepy.

My husband teases me about my this.
And he jokes that my ex wanted to wear me like a skin suit.
Makes all kinds of wilk bill silence of the lamb jokes.

Because despite the fact that he ilove bombing me our whole relationship with fairytales of having children together
And the fact that I suspect he had tried to purposely try and impregnate me without my permission .
He magically has never managed to have a family with her.
But who knows..that could be complicated.

But when I posted pictures after my son was born,
I happened to be on and see how he liked and loved them and a switch of a love to a like.
I kinda figured he probably remembered all those dreams he’d had of us having kids together.

And it totally creeped me out all over again.

But yeah,
We both kinda traded off the Pisces characteristics that you mentioned.

posted October 20, 2022 05:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
What was his Moon & Venus Sign?

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posted October 20, 2022 05:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
What was his Moon & Venus Sign?

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When a Pisces man tells you everything was great and he still runs away, for the Pisces it can mean, "Sorry. I'm just not interested in you but I don't want to hurt your feelings, so I'd rather say nothing and walk away quietly." That's so hurtful. They don't understand that their behavior - their silence- causes the other person infinitely more pain than an honest conversation or short SMS or mail which give you a (short) explanation. What they do is called 'ghosting' and actually a form of passive aggressive behavior. I've already posted in another thread that rejections can also be conveyed in a charming way but Pisces usually shys away from conflict and does not have such thoughts. That sucks!!!