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ARIESPINK
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posted October 28, 2007 03:52 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When Pisces men end relationships, and Swerve, you are there, could you help me on this one, would they find it easy to move on to another relationship. The Pisces I knew has moved on and ended it all, just like that but I suppose he had a Gemini Moon which probably helped him to move on. I found this guy was very cold. Why do pisces men have so many women friends rather than men friends. Just down in the dumps and just looking for answers.

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ARIESPINK
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posted October 28, 2007 03:54 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

If there is anyone out there in a similar position where they were dumped by a Pisces and as to whether the Pisces came back again, would love to hear.

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posted October 28, 2007 04:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EighthMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey AriesPink,

Sorry that you're hurting.

I can't give the male perspective, but I'm a Pisces w/ a moon in Gemini. There's really no straightforward answer to this because it really depends on your connection and the depth of the relationship. For me, if I didn't see us growing in a positive way from the relationship, I would move on. But, I have also had experiences where maybe it was just the timing was off the first time and the second time around was better.

Are you able to talk to him and ask him about it? If you can bring it up w/o being overly emotional during the conversation, we're fairly good at communicating. We don't ever like to see anyone else hurting...especially if we are the ones who caused it...and that can make us clam up.

Hope this helps a little.

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posted October 28, 2007 06:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for annaf     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
what are his other planet. placements...ascendant ?venus? mars? major aspects with outer planets?

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ARIESPINK
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posted October 28, 2007 07:49 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Eight Moon,

He will not answer my text or calls. With a Gemini Moon, can you tell me would you change your mind often, once you make a decision. I feel very down to tell you the truth. I read that Pisces with Gemini Moon could make a decision and stick by it and then the next day, change their mind.

He has Mercury in Pisces
Venus in Pisces
Mars in Sagittarius
Saturn in Scorpio
Pluto in Leo
Uranus in Cancer and Neptune in Libra and
Jupiter in Gemini

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ARIESPINK
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posted October 28, 2007 07:50 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Eight Moon,

He will not answer my text or calls. With a Gemini Moon, can you tell me would you change your mind often, once you make a decision. I feel very down to tell you the truth. I read that Pisces with Gemini Moon could make a decision and stick by it and then the next day, change their mind.

He has Mercury in Pisces
Venus in Pisces
Mars in Sagittarius
Saturn in Scorpio
Pluto in Leo
Uranus in Cancer and Neptune in Libra and
Jupiter in Gemini

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posted October 28, 2007 07:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EighthMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, again, it depends on the situation. In my case, something would have to happen to make me change my mind. Maybe feeling a bit pressured?

I'm still not sure what the situation was between the two of you...or if there was a commitment, so it's hard to say.

If he's not answering your calls or texts, then give him space...

8th

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posted October 28, 2007 10:16 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
wondering where his pisces placements are ..
as t.Uranus sits right in the middle of the piscean sector ..
t.Saturn now opposes the piscean sector .. as does t.Venus
those square the gemini sector ..
t.Jupiter opposes the gemini sector .. as does tPluto although at the very end ..
and those two square the piscean sector ..

** The Pisces I knew has moved on and ended it all, just like that **
sounds possibly like transiting Uranus at work

** With a Gemini Moon, can you tell me would you change your mind often, once you make a decision.**
gemini moon here .. moods change .. never quite sure what they're going to be like ..
i.e. without looking at up 'n coming transits

** could make a decision and stick by it and then the next day, change their mind.**
sounds more like a mercury thing .. i.e. merc in pisces might swim one way then the next ..
just speculating is all ..
i've merc in taurus .. and rarely change my mind about anything ..
unless i've got good reason to do so ..

maybe check his transits ..

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posted October 29, 2007 01:08 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Pisces worshiped me (typical I guess). Thought I was his queen and treated me as such. It seemed like all of a sudden in just a short time he was totally disenchanted with me just like one day the fog had lifted. It was pretty quick and cold. He did end up coming back after a few months. I had already moved on to a Scorpio by then. Who ended up being my most meaningful relationship but hell on earth I tell ya. By the way my Pisces was an addict too.

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posted October 29, 2007 07:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Traditionally the Pisces will stay in a bad relationship, or one that he/she wants to end FAR, FAR too long!

Air, esp a Gem moon would help him keep emotionally detached, a bit, through the whole thing, however the Pisces always has trouble hurting others and will always do what is not necessarially correct for themselves to not hurt the other.

Elusiveness and evasivness are Pisces traits anyway, so at the end of a relationship if these qualities are really coming to light, then you are seeing the true nature of the Fish.

Like the thread about letting a Pisces woman go...just let him go, because he will anyway and I would bet he has been swimming away, aleast emotionally for a while.

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posted October 29, 2007 08:10 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Traditionally the Pisces will stay in a bad relationship, or one that he/she wants to end FAR, FAR too long!
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I find that very true. I'm a Pisces (female though but still rather relevant) and I have two different relationships in the past few years that have come back to that same thing.

I think it depends if one wants to be swept back 'into the arms of another person' so to speak will they move on quickly. The last relationship I was in didn't end the best. I was very unhappy for months prior to the breakup that when it came to the last minutes I literally went cold on him and .. lets call it 'bitchy'.

I also think the Gem moon helped him cope with the moving on part, whereas I do find myself thinking about the exs and wondering if they're fine and okay.

Fishies are just crazy, that's all I'll say

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posted October 29, 2007 09:43 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The pisces I knew never ended any relationships just recycled them as friends. He always went back, but then his moon was taurus/8th house. I think that your pisces may come back if you are low key and no pressure. Be happy and don't ask too many questions about who, where, why. Ask what he is doing for fun these days and go from there. Don't ask to meet.

From what I know they do get disenchanted very quickly, like children.

But they seem to come back as friends, that is when you expect nothing solid. such as no future romantic relationship. If you can handle him sleeping with your friend he may come back.

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posted October 29, 2007 10:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CoralFrequency     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That sounds like moral fiber and any sense of dignity or personal integrity is completely lost with Pisces, which would be a bit sad, not to mention pathetic, and leave them all quite spiritually blank.

I can't agree, that anything is ever *completely* lost.. or that what you said applies to all Pisceans.

But AriesPink, you may well be dealing with one who falls in this gloomy (Gollum-like - consumed human being, with no hope, or rhyme or reason, who has sex senselessly/aimlessly because there is no other pleasure left in the world for him) category - They are out there. Only you can judge his personality. At the end of the day, we don't know him.

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ARIESPINK
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posted October 30, 2007 04:57 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for the replies but to tell you the truth, I know he is gone for good this time. He seemed to be only happy when there was plenty of trouble and problems around him and he seemed to attract trouble. With a Moon in Gemini he had the dual side to him, which is why he dated other women and seemed to think it was cool. I know in my heart, he will return and I have accepted it now but honestly, there are lovely piscean men out there and I was just unlucky.

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ARIESPINK
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posted October 30, 2007 04:58 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I meant to say, that I know in my heart that he will NOT return. The down side with this piscean is that he was cruel in the end and cut off contact like ice.

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posted October 30, 2007 06:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for rusalka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ariespink, i recently had experience with piscean guy, his moon is in capricorn.
we finished suddenly, with no explanations given, he simply disappeared, although iīve tried way too many times to talk to him and ask what has really happened. he simply refused any contact with me.
until today, i still donīt have a clue why he cut off contact with me.
i donīt think this has much to do with being pisces or not, just with the upbringing, being from different enviroments, etc.
he was definitely very traditional.
the fact is, he does have many girl friends, more than gys.
hope this helps a bit

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posted October 30, 2007 10:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EighthMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Since these both occurred recently...and someone else was talking about a relationship ended "instantly" by an Aqua male...maybe the transits that are happening would effect people ending relationships so abruptly. I think Uranus is opposing Pisces now, Pluto is squaring in Sag, could be a lot of other things besides just sun/moon sign traits.

Just a thought...

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ARIESPINK
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posted October 31, 2007 08:07 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Rusalka,

Thanks for replying. Did you find it very hard to move on at the beginning as I know I am finding it rather difficult. You are right with pisces, the ex I knew had one particular girl friend who he would never ever let go and that is the reason why he cut off completely. How long did you know the pisces guy.

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posted October 31, 2007 10:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for rusalka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ariespink, he was going after me for quite a long time (a year), until i took the initiative to start "relationship" with him (i did it for no particular reason honestly, but he never made first move!).
in the relationship, he was always pulling away, i guess to mark his territory and also, in order to control the whole thing (his extremely traditional side (virgo asc?).
so, myself being cancer, i found it extremely hard to let it go. you know, another thing is very important, and it is the moment when somebody just appears in your life. he appeared in a moment when i was very happy, but when it was time to let it go, everything just crashed in front of me...
but donīt worry, it is very hard to get over a relationship, especially when somebody rejected you. it is one of the most painful things. but i strongly believe that you have to go through this in order to learn more about yourself

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