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Lana29865
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posted November 05, 2007 03:01 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Any experience, anyone, on this...?

Would someone's Mars possibly be an indicator of domestic violence (or potential to it)? Or could it mean the Mars person wants to sex you in your home? ;-) Or just to be the boss at your house?

I'm having some difficulty understanding fiery Mars in the home area, especially in synastry ...

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SagSun
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posted November 05, 2007 11:25 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My parents have this aspect ... my father's Mars falls in my mother's 4th house. They have been married for over 30 years. My father always has been the more dominant one in their relationship, but never in a violent way. He never hurt my mother physically. They do have heated arguments all the time though. And whenever they fight, my father has a tendency to say hurtful things to my mother.

So, the way I see it, Mars in the 4th doesn't necessarily indicate physical violence at home. It can also mean heated discussions.

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sthenri
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posted November 05, 2007 07:07 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My sister's mars in my 4th house and she would yell at me all the time when we lived together. We would argue and she would hit me too. And her mars is in pisces. So I believe it's possible that there is a war of words, and emotions run high.

On the other hand, now that we are grown my sister and I are very close, emotionally. But we don't have long discussions. If we do I just listen, I don't talk.

personally I am also curious about someone's mars in your 10th or 11th house. Would that cause physical or verbal arguments?

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Lana29865
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posted November 06, 2007 01:14 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for the replies :-)

I have this aspect with my man, his Mars falls in my 4th, and he is overbearingly dominant...
We have our own appartments, which seems a good living arrangement also in the future...

His chart also shows some other tendencies to dominance.

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GeminiLover75
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posted November 06, 2007 01:18 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And you've let him know that it's not ok with you that he's this dominant?

I read somewhere that the sixth house in synastry can indicate inequalities in relationships... oh yeah, BUD posted that! What's your sixth house like in synastry?

And what are your Pluto aspects and placements? In synastry and individually?

I ask because it seems like Mars in 4th can't be the only thing contributing.

My ex and I had composite Mars in 4th and there was hardly ever an angry word spoken in five years. And even then it was never a full scale battle or anything. The composite Mars was in Pisces though, so maybe that's why.

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GeminiLover75
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posted November 06, 2007 01:25 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can you post charts? It might be helpful if we can see it for ourselves.

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Lana29865
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posted November 06, 2007 01:28 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh yes, I've let him know... (We're both in our early 40'es, not a "young couple", we both have some history behind us). He just tells me to accept him as he is...

His natal Pluto is in his 7th, mine in my 2nd. My Pluto falls in his 7th and his in my 3rd. Our composite Pluto is in the 5th house sextiling our Sun (in the 7th house). Composite Venus is in the 8th house.

One astrologer stated that his natal Mars-Sun and Mars-Moon squares are strong indicators of his macho dominance (both in fixed signs), as there is a struggle inside him to find peace, and he tries to achieve this by controling his enviroment...

(Edited).

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Lana29865
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posted November 06, 2007 01:34 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'll try to post the chart a bit later today.

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GeminiLover75
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posted November 06, 2007 01:39 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Interesting. I look forward to seeing the chart...

I ask because I do have a personal interest in this. This kind of thing comes up every now and then between me and Mr Gemini, and his natal Pluto is in his fifth house. Whenever he tries to be dominant he doesn't get away with it, but I do find it annoying that it still crops up. (He's 35 and I'm 32 btw). I think, "why is he still bothering to try this with me." Maybe he's mentally pitting his Pluto in 5th against my Scorpio moon/Pluto square ASC/DSC as a kind of intellectual workout. I find it to be annoying.

If he doesn't want to change his approach, it sounds like a good idea that you don't live together.

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CoralFrequency
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posted November 06, 2007 02:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CoralFrequency     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My ex's Mars was in my 4th. He was NOT violent at all or domineering or anything like that.

He has a Sun/Moon square as well - but so do I. In cardinal, not fixed.

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Lana29865
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posted November 06, 2007 03:00 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Unfortunately, I'm not able to post the chart, but here's his info:

HIS NATAL
Sun 13 Aqua (12th/1st house cusp)
ASC 14 Aqua
Moon 10 Leo (6th house)
Mercury 4 Aqua (12th house)
Venus 0 Aries (1st house)
Mars 18 Scorpio (9th house)
Jupiter 5 Libra (7th/8th house cusp)
Saturn 20 Aries (2nd house)
Uranus 3 Libra (7th/8th house cusp)
Neptune 28 Scorpio (9th house)
Pluto 24 Virgo (7th house)
Chiron 0 Aries (1st house)
True Node 1 Aries (1st house)
MC 5 Sagittarius

Edited - I realize it's boring to read other people's data, but I can't post charts :-(


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plutonian105
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posted December 09, 2015 02:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutonian105     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had this aspect with a girl I was getting to know...she ended having sex (Mars) with my brother (4th house family and home)

This is generally an aspect of upheaval in your domestic life

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Randall
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posted December 10, 2015 04:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.

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