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Topic: How To Attract A Scorpio?
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luna*tic12
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posted November 10, 2007 06:47 PM
 
Hello friends - I have a gigantic crush on a Scorpio. I'm so bad at crushes. What are some things I should do to get him interested in me? What is the best flirting method to hook a Scorp?
I need help!
Comments from Scorpio men especially appreciated... ------------------
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EighthMoon
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posted November 10, 2007 07:37 PM
Hi Lunatic,In my experience, find their interest and pick something dealing with it that you can give them a SINCERE compliment on. If you're just schmoozing, they'll sense it! (I am eagerly awaiting Mama Mia's answer to this one! Loved the Cancer Moon response!!!)  8th IP: Logged |
Farcyde
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posted November 10, 2007 09:07 PM
I'm a scorp with libra rising. I would definitely have to say he would appreciate a wink, something not too suddle but at the same time something he'll be able to pickup on and catch to make him feel like he'll be able to take control. Whatever you do don't play games and for christ's sake be yourself. SCORPIOS ARE REALLY SELECTIVE OF WE ADMIT IN OUR INNER CIRCLE. To be honest I like picking who I let in and hate when someone tries to force themselves on me. So say something sincere and let him pierce through your eyes briefly, you'll know at that moment if he's interested. FYI, be patient, yes you will know at that moment but first you will have to go through a system of checks and balances. We only bet on sure things.IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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posted November 10, 2007 09:26 PM
Hello and Welcome to LL Farcyde 
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Farcyde
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posted November 10, 2007 09:56 PM
R'sup. I love this site as much as I love being a Scorp.
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Mirandee
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posted November 10, 2007 10:37 PM
Yep, Scorpio's are very picky. That's why my youngest son just turned 36 and is still single. He is very good looking and attracts women, but he is very, very choosy. He also says he doesn't like pushy women and he doesn't like it when they want you to call them everyday. LOL Basically he says that he thinks women are too controlling and bossy. IP: Logged |
Farcyde
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posted November 10, 2007 11:37 PM
Whoa, just turned 35 and single as well and am also very picky (libra ac). I really do try to deal with being controlling, but to be a scorpio is to be a perfectionist and even when we're wrong people should wear pet gloves when giving advice because in the back of our heads we're thinking they're a smarta$$. I have saturn in the 9th house so intellectually I struggle alot and am coming to grips with it by using my scorp determination, focus, and endurance to tear down any obstacles in my way.IP: Logged |
Purple_Chick_71
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posted November 11, 2007 02:26 AM
Well, I'm not a scorpio and I've never been involved with one. (But I had a MAD crush on one in middle school...ha ha!) But, it seems to me that you can't be too pushy and...this is just a thought...I think being a bit mysterious might intrigue them. You don't have to wear a veil or anything! lol But, I think that if it's already in your nature* to maybe be a little tight-lipped, that might be a good thing. Not wall-flower, NEVER speaks quiet...more like Mona Lisa, don't-tell-him-everything, I've-got-a-secret quiet, if that makes sense. *Just a reminder...ALWAYS be yourself, with ANYONE!!! EDIT: Sorry, I just noticed all of your Leo placements. So I am emphasizing the BE YOURSELF advice here! lol (Although, your sun is in cancer and that Leo moon is in the 12th house, so maybe you aren't as effusive as the typical Leo...but you have Leo rising...just remember that Leo can be REGAL.) IP: Logged |
luna*tic12
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posted November 11, 2007 11:12 AM
Thanks for all the tips, guys and gals. It's all great stuff.
My problem is, I already sorta know that being a little quiet/mysterious/secretive is a good tactic to attract a Scorpio, but when I really like someone I get nervous and I talk a mile a minute! I say whatever pops into my mind... totally uncensored... It's horrible.------------------
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comica23
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posted November 11, 2007 06:50 PM
hi there ^_^ well, just generalizing here, Scorpio is a deep sign that when it loves, it loves deeply and selflessly. That would also be the reason why he is so selective - it can't just be anyone, coz he only loves someone completely or doesn't love at all.. And when he loves, he would do anything for her.. And coz of that, it can be very painful if he ever gets hurt in love.
Scorpio might sometimes be too aggressive or possessive, not knowing how to express his love gently, but deep inside he can be more gentle and caring than anyone.. He might just need someone to smooth his heart that is hidden inside of those thick Scorpio shells..I guess that when you choose to be with a Scorpio, you have to use your intuition to understand him.. And you should always be yourself.. coz he would soon discover who you truly are, you just can't hide any truth from them lool..
But I guess that Scorpio people might like mysterious people, coz mysterious people seems to be someone deep and not easy (as in, not so easy to let others knowing everything about them).. But well, this is just generalization.. the whole chart should still be considered. ^_^ And our intuition when it comes to know someone as well! IP: Logged |
BlueTopaz124
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posted November 11, 2007 07:01 PM
Being a warm and caring (but not a pushover) individual around them helps a lot too.  IP: Logged |
Lucia23
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posted November 12, 2007 01:01 AM
Farcyde wrote: "SCORPIOS ARE REALLY SELECTIVE OF WE ADMIT IN OUR INNER CIRCLE."I just read this thread tonight and, this is so funny! Because, last week, the Scorpio I have a crush on was sitting there, and a friend of his was talking about a secret, and the Scorpio said, "Well, you can tell Lucia. She's in the Inner Circle." I thought it was kind of snotty of him to HAVE an "inner circle"...but now I know it was probably a great Scorpio compliment. IP: Logged |
libraschoice7
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posted November 12, 2007 01:06 AM
For some unknown reason I seem to attract alot of Sun sign Scorpio to me. Perhaps its my Sun conjunction Pluto aspect...whatever it may be they are constantly coming into my life. Why I haven't the faintest idea? If you want you can look at my chart to see what it might be they like?!------------------
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Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
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Waterlily
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posted November 12, 2007 03:34 AM
I have a scorpio friend and one very important thing here is NOT to chase them. If you attempt to chase a scorpio you turn them off. They like to be the aggressive one. Just give him a sexy smile and if him want you belive me hes gonna go after you. If not then just move on sweetface.IP: Logged |
miss_muffet
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posted November 12, 2007 11:16 AM
Mystery............Scorpios love mystery. They are drawn to mysterious beings and will want to solve a mystery (you) if they feel you are mysterious. 
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luna*tic12
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posted November 12, 2007 11:40 AM
BAH! These are just the things I was afraid of hearing. I'm terrible at acting mysterious...
also, I am very impatient; I always have the urge to just tell them straight up that I like them. But this wouldn't be a good idea when pursuing a Scorpio, would it?IP: Logged |
luna*tic12
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posted November 12, 2007 11:43 AM
Okay so, basically, what y'all are saying is that the best tactic to use if you want to attract a Scorpio is to play Hard To Get?Ugh... I have such a problem with that game; I find it to be dishonest and deceptive - but I guess that's required in the game of love? IP: Logged |
Lucia23
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posted November 12, 2007 12:03 PM
With the "let the Scorpio chase you" thing, make sure he doesn't have a Pisces moon...if he does, he might NEVER make a move on anyone (like a guy I know), so anyone who wants anything with him really can't play "hard to get."
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posted November 12, 2007 01:26 PM
Be mysterious.....IP: Logged |
librarising
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posted November 12, 2007 01:41 PM
The scorpio men I have met seem to love blondes or very exotic looking women.. then again who doesn't? IP: Logged |
MissTerious
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posted November 13, 2007 10:04 AM
Lucia 23:
When I read your reply a little further up about your friend saying you are in the "inner circle" I laughed, because I use this same terminolgy with my sister concerning others. Yes it is true we are extremely selective. Luna*tic12: Right now I am getting involved with a scorpio man. From what I have gleaned from his personality, he appreciates loyalty, intelligence, looks are important, however a strong mental connection is of the utmost importance. Also he appreciates a woman who carries herself like a lady. I hope this helps. All the best to you, may God's will be done. ( Sun-Scorpio / Moon-Leo / Rising-Saggitarius ) IP: Logged |
aquaspryt69
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posted November 13, 2007 11:09 AM
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That's why my youngest son just turned 36 and is still single. He is very good looking and attracts women, but he is very, very choosy. He also says he doesn't like pushy women and he doesn't like it when they want you to call them everyday. LOL Basically he says that he thinks women are too controlling and bossy.
That is SO true!! It applies to the femme Scorps. We don't like controlling, bossy types either. 
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Hermes28
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posted November 13, 2007 02:22 PM
Attack. Get on the offensive. Invade his inner circle with overwhelming force. He will reject you. Then, brush yourself off, move on and ignore him. Observe, as he comes panting after you like a dog starved for attention. IP: Logged |
Hermes28
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posted November 13, 2007 02:29 PM
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jane
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posted November 13, 2007 11:13 PM
I think with a Scorpio, give them whatever clear signal they need to know you're interested. The signal they need will vary by the individual. Some will just need a flirtatious smile, others will need something more direct and obvious. But whatever your particular one needs, give the signal and then pull back & let him pursue. With Scorpios, I think the best flirting method is letting him know that you have a unique relationsip. That what you talk about or do with him, isn't something you talk about or do with anyone else. Naturally, only say these things if they're true. IP: Logged |
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